How to greet a boy on a dating platform

How to greet a boy on a dating platform? There are more and more dating platforms now, and many people on the dating platform just started playing or don't know how to greet a boy for the first time. Let's take a look at how the dating platform greets boys.

How does the dating platform greet boys? 1

Make comments on her avatar, screen name and other contents.

For example,

The name is liar, which means liar, and directly ask "Why do you choose Liar as a nickname?"

The occupation you fill in is sales. You can ask what kind of sales

to fill in the personalized signature and personal introduction is more distinctive. You can also evaluate

1. What are you doing catching a night owl alive/staying up so late

2. The never-out-of-date late-night opening:

Give out food maps (no more than three) or expression packs of food series

"Have you been coveted"/"Have you been seduced"

. The early bird is eaten by the worm

2. Getting up late destroys the whole morning, and getting up early destroys the whole day.

Regular opening:

(State your status before asking questions. It's better to be distinctive, and there are topics that can be answered in the discourse, which is popularly called "the point of reply")

(It's not so troublesome to directly "what are you doing" after chatting about ambiguity, but the fault tolerance rate is low at the beginning of chatting, and many boys say "what are you doing" directly at the beginning of greeting, which will lead to resentment at the beginning of chatting, and then they will be casual after cooking)

I just started. What are you doing?

For example,

I just finished my supper outside, and I feel I will never be hungry again. What are you doing?

I just visited the night market and was almost pregnant. What are you doing?

I just came out from a friend's bar and found it was foggy. What are you doing?

Say hello directly

1. Girl/ Hi/Meow

3. Poke you to see what you are doing (you can also use it for daily opening). How to greet boys on the dating platform 2

Step 1: say hello nonverbally.

The nonverbal greeting here refers to eye contact, nodding, smiling, etc. When you see something you like, you will be at a loss and don't know what to do next.

start thinking: how should I say hello? Is it too deliberate for me to say this? Should I say hello with my left hand or my right hand? Did I say "hello" without confidence ...

You have gone far in the process of thinking, so you can only wait for the next chance. In fact, the principle here is: don't fall into the framework. Look at you, you don't know what to do, this is falling into the framework, which is a very unconfident performance.

suppose you meet a male colleague in the same company, suppose you don't like men, how would you greet him? The simplest thing is to make eye contact and nod your head, and he may give you a nod in return.

how do you say hello when you meet a boy you haven't seen for years on the road? "Brother, long time no see. What have you been up to recently?" His response to you may be: "Yo, buddy, it's you! Long time no see, I've been ... "

Follow me to imagine the above two scenes, which are all greetings. Do you feel insecure? Or do you think you are not confident? You won't. In fact, this is the state of self-confidence.

As long as you are confident, all greetings are confident. As long as you are not confident, any greetings are not confident. Only "you" can be confident, and "greeting" yourself will not be confident. If you like this and just look at you, just show your confidence, look her in the eyes and smile. As long as she gives you a look or nods back, you can move on to the next step.

If I see you nodding to her, pretend not to see you go away, and don't have any psychological burden. You can smile politely and go on your way. Next time you meet her, treat her as usual. In fact, this is what we often call an indifferent but friendly attitude.

the second step is to say hello in language.

This step usually begins with a question that is very easy to answer. For example, holding a water cup, you ask, "pour water?" It's easy to answer, the purpose is simple and clear, just to make the mouth talk to you. Will it? At noon, you saw you get dressed and walk out of the company. What did you ask? "Go for dinner?" In this step, as long as I give you a reply of "Yes" and "Yes", even an "Um", you can go to the next step.

the third step is to establish a chat.

There is a small exception here. If you judge that you are in a hurry to go somewhere, you can only stay in the second step and continue the third step another day. For example, if you want to go to the bathroom and drag others to chat, they will hate you to death. It's actually very simple to establish a chat. For example, in the second step, when it comes to holding a water cup, can you only say "You go and pour water"? Can we chat around her cup? If you hold a cup in your left hand and instant coffee in your right hand, can you chat around coffee? You can chat around the tea with the tea, right? This is the "observation rule" of chatting. The main point of using the "observation rule" is:

You should choose the familiar points that can provide information and value to start chatting through observation.

for example, make tea with cups and tea leaves in the morning. You ask:

"Is this black tea or green tea?"

Say:

"Green tea."

You said:

"It's better to drink black tea in the morning, especially for me."

said:

"Why?"

You said:

"Black tea warms the stomach, which is all cold constitution. It is better to warm your body in the morning and drink green tea in the afternoon. Besides, black tea is smoother. I have a reddish color on my desk. I'll try it for you next time."