To make a living first and then find love means to work hard to earn money, so that your life and relationship will be stable and more lasting.

"Make a living first, seek love later" is a book written by the new female writer Li Xiaoyi.

The saying "First make a living and then find love" is mainly for men. As a man, you must have the ability to make money. When you do not have this ability, you must work harder. In this way, in the future life is better. Of course, if there is someone who is willing to stay with you all the time, you are very lucky, and you must not let that person down.

The emotional stability in marriage is based on bread. When two people can't even fill their stomachs, love is a luxury. When you can't even take care of yourself, you won't have the ability and energy to take care of your other half. At that time, the two people will probably just quarrel all day long because of money, and no matter how good the relationship is, the quarrel will be gone. So as a Men have to work hard to make money, so that there will be bread and love will last longer.

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In "First Make a Life, Then Find Love", the new feminist writer Li Xiaoyi raised a sharp question to all urban women: making a living and seeking love, Who is more important?

She tells the stories of many different women in the book, from Princess Diana, Chanel, Teresa Teng, Maggie Cheung to her neighbors, former colleagues and makeup artists, pointing out the minefields of life and taking you through Reach a warm and safe shore.

She wants to say to all women: Only if you live a wonderful life, no longer worry about gains and losses, no longer want to please anyone, no longer timid about difficulties, and no longer hesitant to look forward and backward, can you become a woman. An independent woman respected by others, soft on the outside but tough on the inside. Good girl, please make a living first and then seek love.

This is not chicken soup, it gives you a spoon to drink the soup. As the tree hole and best friend of all women, Li Xiaoyi provides solutions to problems and points out minefields in her articles for all girls who encounter confusion in life.

She uses stories from celebrities or people around her to describe in detail how to balance the relationship between career and love, how to deal with the relationship between best friends, how to persist in oneself in real life, and how to realize dreams...a good life. Right now, can good love be far behind?

"First Make a Life, Then Find Love" starts from the real experiences of real people, portrays all kinds of women in three-dimensional and interesting ways, and tells the stories of their emotions, family and career.

From Qiong Yao and Ping Xintao, to Chiang Kai-shek and Soong Meiling, to Jacqueline and Kennedy, Princess Kate and Prince William... With the delicate brushwork unique to a mature woman, she not only quotes from other sources but also prescribes the right medicine, using vivid and vivid words. The examples point out the minefields of women's lives and answer the confusion of people around them.

Some readers commented: "This book is very much like a stylist in the spiritual world of girls. Although it does not teach girls how to draw eyelashes, it also gives girls tips and teaches girls how to be more calm and confident."

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