A divorced woman wrote in her QQ signature that all appearances are false. The psychological implication is: The reason why people suffer is not because they have too little, but because they want more. All dharmas are unified. Only by "seeing through and letting go" can one be able to "pass among hundreds of flowers without a single leaf touching one's body", be unrestrained, come and go freely, have no worries, and be at ease.
1. Look at people with your time and heart, not with your eyes. When someone is willing to listen to you, they care about you. When someone is willing to hug you, he likes you. When someone is willing to be silent, he is falling in love with you. Anyone who truly loves you will make changes for you.
2. A truly successful life does not lie in the size of your achievements, but in whether you work hard to realize yourself, make your own voice, and walk your own path. Life is your own, there is no need to leave the choice in the hands of others.