1. Temper is something that comes out as nature and comes back as skill. A master of life never lets his emotions control him.

2. Not disturbing others’ peace is compassion; not hurting others’ self-esteem is kindness. When people are alive, just shine their own light, and don't blow out other people's lights.

3. There are two things that you should do as little as possible. One is to interfere with other people's lives with your own words, and the other is to rely on other people's brains to think about your own life.

4. Many things in life are like wisdom teeth. The best solution is to unplug it. Instead, endure it.

5. The strongest time for a person is not when he persists, but when he lets go. When you choose to free your hands, who else can take anything away from you! When many people lament their helpless fate, they forget that the three most powerful words in the world are: don't care.

6. Complaining is a kind of negative energy. It is like shooting oneself in the foot. It is of no benefit to others, is not good for oneself, and does not help anything.

7. When people make mistakes, they usually use their brains too much when they should use their true feelings, and they are too emotional when they should use their brains.

8. When you are alive, remember not to do two things: use your own words to interfere with other people's lives; rely on other people's brains to think about your own life.

9. Throughout your life, you have to believe this: you don’t need to work hard to keep what you can, and you don’t need to work hard to keep what you can’t. Come and go as you wish, don't force anything.

10. Not every effort will be rewarded, but efforts must be made for every harvest. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition. ——Zhang Ailing

11. If you are right, there is no need to lose your temper. If you are wrong, you have no right to lose your temper.

12. The older you get, the more you will find the disadvantages of social interaction. Therefore, it is never wrong to master a survival skill and seriously develop a hobby of solitude.

13. Too much pain and misfortune in life are caused by wanting to live like "others" instead of living "like myself".

14. The right position in life is neither close to money nor power, but close to the soul; true happiness is neither rich nor right in everything, but a clear conscience.

15. Most of the time, it is not work that consumes your energy, but the people you meet at work. The work itself is not tiring, balancing emotions is the most tiring.

16. We often look up to and envy the happiness of others, but when we look back, we find that our own happiness is being looked up to and envied by others. In fact, each of us is happy, but your happiness is in the eyes of others.

17. When looking at people, don’t look with your eyes. It’s easy to misunderstand. Don’t listen with your ears, because they are all lies. As long as you use time and feel it with your heart, it can't be true or false.

18. If you don’t have much ability, don’t have a big temper, otherwise you will be in trouble. If you don't have much ability, don't have too much desire, otherwise you will be in pain.

19. If someone throws banknotes at you, kneel down and pick them up one by one. It doesn’t matter. When it comes to your food and clothing, a little self-esteem is nothing.

20. For those who have goals, no matter how slowly they walk, they are still making progress; for those who are wandering and entangled, no matter how anxious they are, their efforts are in vain; if they go in the wrong direction, they still make progress.