Women like men who can take care of themselves

Women like men who can take care of themselves. In this world, everyone has their own personality, but in this world You will always look different in front of people you like, and you will restrain yourself. So it turns out that some women like men who can take care of themselves. Women like men who can control themselves 1

I think this is because women naturally prefer stronger men. This is also a normal admiration for strong men, and if a man can lead women and let women If a woman doesn't have to worry, that's a very happy thing. But should a woman find a man who can take care of herself or a man who can take care of herself?

Why are there more and more single people now?

Why would the leftover men and leftover women prefer to die alone rather than settle for nothing?

Hu Jianbiao said in "Qi Pa Shuo" that it is because we are unwilling to let go of the standards we have adhered to for many years. Just like what Teacher Midi sang in the song, 'It's not that simple, you can find someone to talk to. Come with me. '

When people grow up, they will find that their requirements are not just as simple as, "Does he smoke or does he drink?" What we care more about is whether we can find a person who can really People who understand themselves.

More and more people don’t want to get married, but I always believe that there is no marriage that cannot be achieved, only people who don’t want to get married.

There must be a girl around you who shouts "Long Live Single" every day, but suddenly one day announces that she is getting married.

No matter how picky you are and how many problems you have, there is always someone who can cure you.

When you meet someone who can control you, whether it is your previous views on marriage, the standards you adhere to, or your plans...you will be willing to change them all for him.

Chen Qiaoen said that she is a person who will explode emotionally in front of people close to her. Until now, she has never met anyone who can control her. But in fact, she likes to be controlled by others. If she can, she I also want to be controlled.

Meeting someone who can take care of you, no matter how bad-tempered or pretentious your personality is, he can take care of you, sounds wonderful,

But is it really like this? ?

Why can he cure you? Because he has a trump card in his hand that will defeat you: you cannot afford to lose.

Why do some people become so well-behaved and sweet when they meet that person?

Maybe it’s because you love him more than he loves you.

Maybe it’s because you are reluctant to leave him and don’t want to go back to a single life.

< p> Maybe it’s because there is something special about him that you are particularly attached to, and he has better conditions than each of your predecessors.

Maybe it’s because you are older and want to marry him as soon as possible...

There may be many reasons, but what we can be sure of is that in your relationship, you are in a weak position and he takes the lead.

Sun Li said that there are four kinds of people in the world, those who go from light to light, those who go from darkness to darkness, those who go from light to darkness, and those who go from darkness to light.

The first three are very simple, the fourth is the most difficult, but she firmly believes that she is the fourth kind of person.

Sun Li said that her father ruined her childhood. Her parents quarreled when she was young, her parents divorced when she was 12 years old and her father abandoned them. She and her mother have been dependent on each other for many years. All these have left her with a deep understanding of her father. Heart knots, and they continue to suffer from them even as adults.

But with Deng Chao's encouragement, she finally reconciled with her father.

Deng Chao may be the one who leads her to the light.

Xu Jinglei

’s father was very strict with her. Under his discipline, she became a talented woman, but she also became rebellious and yearned for freedom. She said that because of her father, she always When someone wants to take care of her, her first reaction is, why are you doing this?

Like a hedgehog.

But after meeting Huang Lixing

she became much calmer and had almost no quarrels in the seven years of dating.

She said that Huang Lixing was like a good medicine prescribed by a psychiatrist. He was never anxious, anxious, and almost never entangled. This was really a good quality.

Huang Lixing made her better and better.

Some of us carry the lack of our original family, and some of us are imprinted with past experiences.

We try our best to find someone who can fill the hole in our hearts. piece.

We hope that he can tolerate his past and move towards a better future with himself.

After meeting someone, some people worry about gains and losses, and are timid.

He treats you just because you care and don't want to lose.

But when some people meet someone, they heal almost all their previous scars and forget the past.

A good partner can actually heal the trauma of the original family, the lack of father's love, and the rifts in the past, making you forget the darkness and move toward the light.

Girl, don’t marry the person who can cure you, marry the person who can cure you. Women like men who can control themselves 2

Girl, don’t marry the man who can control you

In English, there is a word to describe the intimacy between two people: someone , Chinese means so-and-so. In this era, everyone is cautious, and it is getting harder and harder to be someone's someone.

In recent years, more and more girls around me don’t want to get married. I never ask why, because I believe that there is no marriage that cannot be achieved in this world, only people who do not want to get married.

There may be a girl around you who shouts long live freedom, but one day suddenly announces that she is getting married. It is often said that no matter what your quirks are, no matter how picky you are, there is always someone who can fix it for you.

I firmly believe that a person you like can change your outlook on marriage. But the ending may not be so good.

When I was in graduate school, there was a female classmate in the dormitory next door. She was a hard-working academic. Her family favored boys over girls. She inspired her to support herself in this life, and she got one in the first year after graduation. The offer of a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan instantly killed many men and women. Later, life became like cheating all the way, constantly refreshing our understanding of "money".

However, women who have a successful career often encounter a problem in marriage and love: being picky.

He never admits it with his mouth, but never takes positive actions. Those who are successful in their careers, she said, are male chauvinists. She is honest and responsible, but she also thinks that he has no future. Relatives and friends were worried and curious, what kind of man would such a girl marry?

As a result, everyone was surprised and she found a boyfriend who had no future. It doesn't seem to have any merit, but it can cure her. Knowing that she is not short of money, but short of love, and knowing that she can take soft things rather than hard things, and has a sweet mouth, she is willing to do anything. But when he turned around, he didn't do anything for her.

The stronger a woman looks, the softer her heart is. Men never know how easy it is to woo a woman, and if you find her weakness, you can make her submissive.

But to be honest, this is also the beginning of a woman's tragedy.

I once read an interview with Chen Qiaoen. The reporter asked her, if you get married in the future, will you be a grown-up woman or a good wife and mother?

Chen Qiaoen said with a smile:

"I like to be managed, but I am not suitable to manage others. If a boy can control me, I would really like to be managed. But so far I haven’t met a boy who can handle me. I am too childish, especially in front of people close to me. Not everyone can handle it.”

< p> I believe that no matter how bad a woman's temper is or how pretentious her character is, there will always be a man who can cure her, because they have a trump card in their hand that can defeat you: you can't afford to lose.

There are many reasons, such as you love him more than him and are reluctant to leave, hoping that one day he will be moved by your true feelings. Another example is that you don’t want to be single, you are afraid to face life alone, and you don’t want to return to the single market and compete with those little girls. Even they themselves question, can I find a better one without this person?

Of course, there is another way, which is even more hurtful.

After Song Siming's affair in "Snail House", his wife made the point in one sentence: "I have been growing watermelons for 20 years, and when the harvest season comes, they are harvested by others. Why? If it were you, you Not leaving. Because you are reluctant to hang the pearls you have grinded out of your clam shell around someone else's neck to show off."

So, slowly, the woman became cold and numb. There is no more quarreling, they have learned a word: accept their fate.

I have seen too many such examples in life. In a relationship, a woman will most likely get deeper and deeper into it, so the starting point is very important.

In fact, women who are obsessed with whether they can get married or should get married are quite stupid. Whether a woman lives well or not has nothing to do with whether she gets married or not, but with the person you choose.

Let me give you two examples that I think are particularly sunny: Xu Jinglei and Sun Li.

The two people have different personalities, different ways of acting, and different living conditions, but they both have some issues with their father.

When Sun Li was twelve years old, her parents divorced, and her mother struggled to raise her daughter with 2,000 yuan in alimony, and she lived a wandering life for a long time. One can imagine how much she hates it.

Later, with the encouragement of her mother and Deng Chao, she reconciled with her father.

I often wonder why some people in the same bad native family can reconcile with their parents, while others will hate their parents all their lives? The answer may be simple. A good partner can heal old wounds in the family of origin. The lack of fatherly love can also be made up for by another person.

Let’s talk about Xu Jinglei.

Under her father's strict discipline, she became a talented woman and a maverick child, yearning for freedom and even a little deviant.

I remember she said in an interview that because of her father, every time someone wanted to take care of her, her first reaction was why are you? Like a hedgehog.

But after meeting Huang Lixing, she changed. Although I still love it on the surface, I feel a little more peaceful in my heart.

We have never had a fight in the seven years of dating. She said that Huang Lixing was like a good medicine prescribed to me by a psychiatrist. He is never anxious, never anxious, and almost never gets entangled, which is a great quality.

Therefore, her mentality is getting better and better.

Christopher Meng said:

"Marriage is going home. A good marriage has a natural healing effect on past regrets and pain. If we encounter If the partner you find is a person who has a strong sense of security and is warm and positive, then our healing process will be smoother."

Each of us will encounter various injuries in our growth. No matter how hard parents try, they can't be perfect. No matter how privileged your family background is, there are always things that are difficult to recite.

Psychologists often say that in our significant other, we are just making up for the neglect of our parents and the shortcomings of childhood.

I agree. There is no such thing as willfulness and unreasonable trouble in the world. All women want is what they want but don't get.

This kind of thing is incredibly simple.

Care more, pay more attention. Don't say that a woman is never satisfied, it's because you haven't given her anything. The so-called "I don't understand" actually means I don't want to understand.

I often talk with my friends about the difference between good men and bad men. There is one thing that I think is particularly important. Good men like to say, no matter what happens, I will always be there. But bad men will say, either endure it or get out, leave me, who else can you find.

Remember, bad men can cure you, but good men can cure you.

The reason is very simple, if you control your man, you will love him more. Heal your man and love you more.

So, girls, don’t marry someone who can cure you, marry someone who can cure you.

Can the man you like cure you? Women like men who can control themselves 3

There is always someone who can control your temper

1. If you have a bad temper, it means you have not found the person you love most< /p>

In a sea of ??people, a woman always has a particularly bad temper. This is because no one in a sea of ??people can conquer a woman’s heart; a woman will not give a shit about anyone. In her eyes, she will naturally have a particularly bad temper; but if one day, a woman is tempted and meets someone she cares about;

The woman will suddenly become so gentle, Become so considerate; women will no longer be as willful and careless as they used to be; so your bad temper is because you are in the sea of ??people and have not found the person you love most; as long as you When you find him, he will naturally understand that only he can cure your temper.

2. You will become very well-behaved in front of the one you love

The reason why a woman can become like a tigress in a sea of ??people is because In a woman's heart, she has not yet tasted the sweetness of true love, and has not yet experienced the colorfulness of true love; that is why women are so willful and competitive;

But when a woman is sincerely moved for a man, Then the woman will have a 360-degree change; then in front of the beloved man, the woman will no longer be fierce or willful, but will become very well-behaved; like an obedient little girl, she will obey the man's arrangements in everything; Therefore, a woman's bad temper is not incurable. There is always a man who can make a woman change it.

3. In front of the one you love, you will fall in love so much that you lose yourself

Living in this world without tasting true love is a very sad life; Many women, because they have not experienced the richness of true love, do whatever they want in life, and become so willful and misbehaving;

But one day, When a woman meets the one she loves, she will lose her way for love and lose herself for love; when a woman loses her way for a man, she will be particularly obedient in her heart. For the sake of men, change your character; because women will be afraid, men will leave their own world.

4. When you meet the person you love most, you will feel that everything is not important to him

Any woman, as long as she truly falls in love with a man, So in a woman's heart, a man is everything, everything in life; as long as she can accompany a man, a woman doesn't care about anything; therefore, when a woman is in front of a man, she will change her personality and change her nature for the man. ; Because in a woman's heart, she is not as important as a man, so she will naturally think of treating the man well;

So the bad temper in the past disappeared, and she became a gentle, considerate, and virtuous person. Women; Therefore, in a woman's life, there is always a man who can control her temper. This man is the person she loves most in her life.

5. Women will not feel regretful if they can accompany their true love for a lifetime.

Every woman longs for a man who can accompany her true love and love each other for a lifetime; so follow the man To be together, a woman is willing to pay no matter how much she pays; in a woman's heart, she is afraid that she will not be able to accompany a man through every step of her life, and she will feel special regret in her heart;

So Only when a woman is with a man will she be so well-behaved and obedient; because a woman is afraid and cannot stay with a man for the rest of her life, she will feel special pain and sadness in her heart; so she can only change Only with your own temper can you stay with the man you love and never leave.

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