The biggest failure in life is to give up.

It is only a moment that determines a person's life and the whole destiny. -Goethe

4, friendliness is really a disease, and this disease is to please everyone.

5. The college entrance examination is a human war, and it will be the place where you stand up again.

7. Only by cherishing what you have at this moment will you have less regret and hate in your life memory.

8, difficulties, stimulate the motivation to move forward; Frustration, hone the courage to struggle; Failure indicates the direction of success.

9. A talented person, without self-confidence, is like a match without a matchbox, and will never try to strike a spark.

10, people who care about the present will lose the future.

1 1. Why do they speak ill of you behind your back? Because you are in front of him.

12, don't lament setbacks, just think of all this as the preparatory work you must go through before you can achieve great things.

13, a flower seed, only sweat can water the most beautiful flowers in the world.

14, not afraid of the long road, but afraid of short ambition.

15, turn sweat into pearls and turn dreams into reality!

16, no matter how difficult it is, be strong, just for those expecting eyes.

17, if you don't start to solve the problems in life, you will never solve them.

18, I am confident, so I succeed; I can do it. I'm sure I can do it.

19, aim high (Zhuge Liang in the Three Kingdoms)

20. Change the habit of using words and use more positive words.

The more you care about the philosophy of life, the more you lose.

An elder told a story. A man was very lucky to get a huge and beautiful pearl, but he was not satisfied because there was a small spot on it. He believes that if this dot can be deleted, it will definitely become the most precious wealth in the world.

So he cut off the surface of the pearl, but the spots were still there; He peeled off one layer after another, until finally, the spots disappeared and the pearls did not exist.

We usually haggle over the right and wrong of things, the number of reasons, and the thickness of feelings. In the eyes of the wise, this seriousness must be ridiculous. There is a lyric called "Too many people care about getting old" and "The more they care, the more they lose".

When my friend first entered the society, he found a good job and liked it very much. It is both challenging and stable, and has great development potential in the long run. She is very happy for her good luck. After getting familiar with her colleagues, she felt that the working environment and interpersonal relationship were very good.

One day, when she was chatting with her colleagues, a colleague who joined the company later than her asked her how much she earned a month. By comparison, she found that her monthly salary was less than that of her colleagues 1000 yuan.

"That colleague entered the company later than me, and his working ability is not as strong as mine. His monthly salary is actually higher than mine! Too much! " She said angrily that she lost her original happy mood when she went to work. She has a feeling of being defeated, and even the sense of accomplishment and sureness brought by her efforts to achieve her goals have been abandoned. That 1,000 yuan robbed her of her self-esteem, and nothing changed in her inner peace and self-sufficiency, just because she felt that she was "less" than others.

We always care about whether we are "enough" and ignore the happiness you really need inside. On the contrary, if we untie this knot, we may live more easily and freely.

Wise people in life will do something different, only care about what is most important to them, and know what to care about, what not to care about, what to take, what to give up and what to let go at what age.

At the age of ten, don't care about the pocket money given by your family, and don't wear brand-name clothes compared with other children. Being a teenager is better understood than food and clothing. When it comes to an "integer", you will be sensible. If the family is hard and the children of poor families manage it early, children of this age should know that it is not easy for their parents to make money, and they should not "pick up cinders" or add to their parents' difficulties.

At the age of twenty, you should stop caring about your family background and your parents' jobs. When I was a teenager, I was born in a family with other children, younger than my parents. I can't wait to be reborn in the emperor's house. This is also human nature. However, in the year of "weak crown", I have no ambition to stand on my own feet, born in poverty and feel inferior, and always feel that I can't lift my head; Those who are born rich still rely on their parents everywhere and are pampered under the protection of their families, so they are not far from the dude and are worthless all their lives.

At the age of 30, he is married, a father and a mother, and has several years of family life experience. A husband should stop caring about his wife's appearance and know that virtue is more important than beauty, and a daughter-in-law who can live is more attractive than a daughter-in-law who can dress up. A wife should stop caring about her husband's height and understand that ability is more important than height. A husband who has no earning power may not be as good as Wu Dalang who sells baked wheat cakes.

At the age of forty, don't care about other people's comments, say whatever you want and live as you want.

At the age of 50, it is time to stop caring about the unfairness everywhere, the pressure of others' success on themselves, and the greed of others' wealth. For 500 years, I have been in the sea and read countless people. I am used to the autumn moon and the spring breeze, so I don't make a fuss, experience success or failure, or get angry.

At the age of 60, don't care about small profits in business. Money is inexhaustible and the money you can spend is limited. Peace of mind is good for health; If you are in politics, don't worry about big officials and small officials, retire, big officials and small officials are all the same, and they have become old cadres; If you dance with pen and ink, you will no longer care about the size of literary titles and the ranking of literary circles. After all, "literature is no first, martial arts is no second", as long as you are in a happy mood, you can feel it.

At the age of seventy, when people are old and thin, they should stop caring about more things and look down on more things. What won the life-and-death battle when I was young will only be indifferent now, especially what I took great pains to care about when I was middle-aged. Now it seems irrelevant. How many things in life are "paid off in a joke" Aesthetic expression: We should grasp the people in front of us, and don't wait until we lose them to regret.

First, love is a kind of heartache. Only love is the innermost emotion, tenderness can be disguised, romance can be made, beauty can be decorated, and only love is the most primitive emotion. The love we have been looking for is actually a feeling of being distressed and distressed by others.

Second, sometimes, people are like this. The people who are best to them are obviously around, but they don't cherish it and pursue things that don't belong to them. Only when you lose it, do you feel empty in your heart, and the warmth that wraps your heart disappears, do you know regret. Regardless of the past and the future, the talents in front of us are the most important. We should take good care of the people in front of us, and don't wait until we lose them to regret it.

Third, it doesn't matter whether a person's IQ is high or not, and whether his EQ is high or not is not a big problem, but the pattern of being a man must be big. To put it bluntly, you can not be timid or sociable, but you must be atmospheric.

Fourth, when you are really angry, don't cry or make trouble, but don't talk. To be a man, it is good to be simple. Life, peace is good.

When you love someone deeply, love is actually in your heart.

6. If you love someone so much at the moment, then I think this is love, which is puzzling to countless people. It turns out that love is a feeling of distressed and distressed. If you love a person, you will feel sorry for him. If you feel sorry for him, you will be willing to pay for his happiness without regrets.

Seven, two people with similar personalities will inevitably have problems in life. If you love each other and want to live, there must be great sacrifices for individuals, including personality change, tolerance, compromise and self-abuse. Faced with this choice, many people often ask, why am I the one who sacrificed? Why not each other? There is only one answer, because some things are as simple as love. If you don't love, you will be stubborn, and if you love, you will compromise.

Eight, life needs precipitation, and tranquility can achieve far-reaching results; Life needs reflection, often looking back, in order to sublimate in the gain and loss of taste and bitterness. Looking forward is a dream and a goal; Looking back is inspection and correction. Do not love, do not complain, and be calm. Life has joys and sorrows; Life has its ups and downs. Learn to wave your sleeves calmly and smile warmly. Happiness is not having more, but caring less; Optimism is not that you have no worries, but that you know how to be satisfied.

Nine, some things, you hide it in your heart, maybe it will be better, and after a long time, it will become a story. There are ups and downs in a person's life. Life is an all-encompassing song. Every day, there are endless joys and sorrows, and the melody that keeps flowing is the ups and downs of fate. If you want to write a beautiful ballad, you should learn to let go of what you should forget and remember what you should remember.

10. It doesn't matter what kind of man a girl meets. She is afraid to meet the legendary onion prince. If you want to see his heart, you have to peel off his coat layer by layer. In the process, he kept making you cry. I finally know that onions have no heart at all.

Eleven, life has progressed and retreated, and nothing can be lost. In a good mood, everything is fine, in a bad mood, everything is chaotic. Don't be hypocritical, because the world is hypocritical. Don't let yourself live too tired. You should learn to think openly, look down and learn to hide. Don't let yourself live too tired. Relax yourself in time, find an outlet, and decompress the tired mind. Give time and everything will pass.

Twelve, love is to work together, don't believe that the so-called Japanese and Korean soap operas leave because they can't make each other happy. Have you ever thought that you are each other's happiness? Love is not an escape, but an effort. We don't evade the responsibility of giving each other happiness, but strive to realize the obligation of making each other happy.

Thirteen, how successful a person is. Because the mind is a symbol of success. Remember one sentence: The harder you work, the luckier you are.

Sometimes, the most painful thing is not to lose, but to be unhappy after getting it. Life is always tiring. I'm not tired now, but I'll be more tired later.

Ironically, as time goes by, nothing seems to have changed, but when you look back, everything has changed.

Sixteen, calm down and do what you should do, it's time to work hard! Sometimes after you really work hard, you will find yourself much better than you thought.

Seventeen, love is a kind of meeting, can't wait, also can't prepare. Mcdull said, if you have something to say, don't wait for the other person to understand, because the other person is not you, and you don't know what you want. In the end, it can only be sadness and disappointment, especially feelings.

18. Although fate is decided by heaven, complaining is only a sign of cowardice. Hard work is the attitude of life! I believe you can!

Nineteen, if you feel very hard at this time, tell yourself: the easy way is downhill! Hang in there, because you are going uphill. If you go there, you will certainly make progress.

Twenty, how many people keep changing their signatures, in fact, they just want someone to feel something. Look at people with time and heart, not eyes.

2 1. Expectation is the root of all heartache. If the heart does not move, it will not hurt. A person who doesn't appreciate himself can't be happy anyway. Time is a one-way street. It's over. I can't come back.

Sometimes doing everything for one person is better than doing nothing for others. Learn to put an end to life, that is, start and finish, and never give up halfway. No matter what happens, you should say to yourself: this is normal. Instead of saying, why am I so unlucky? Because there are more unlucky people than you, a positive and sunny attitude can help you out of adversity!

Twenty-three, thank those who see through me, but still stay with me. The best feeling is that someone understands what you are saying.

24. There is a distance between the beginning and the end of life, and that is life; Don't be afraid of your own confusion during the hurried journey. Man proposes, God disposes. Don't regret what you have done. I often see many people feel sorry for themselves, regret what they did wrong, feel depressed about the past, and feel down and out for the past. There is no regret medicine in the world.

Twenty-five, many girls will soon fall in love with each other once they are moved. But I've always wanted to say that romance is not love, being caring and attentive is not love, chatting and joking is not love, but a way to pick up girls. True love is to sacrifice a part of yourself and make yourself better. So, don't look for someone who can touch you, look for someone who loves you. Love is not touching, but enriching.

How to comfort a person who has lost hope for the future?

How to comfort a person who has lost hope for the future (Chapter 1) 1. Follow reason and have courage; Follow your feelings and have the determination to give everything. Good morning!

After leaving, tell him loudly: I love you, it has nothing to do with you. Love is your right, say whatever you want, remember the past calmly, and then cry. After crying, leave everything in yesterday and never touch it.

I used to think that some things couldn't be let go. Over time, when you look back on the past, you will find that what you once thought could not be put down was just a springboard of life. If you skip it, you can become more exciting. The most difficult thing for people on the springboard is not the moment of take-off, but the inner struggle and helplessness before take-off. We thought we couldn't jump, so we closed our eyes, got up the courage and jumped.

4. I have prepared a bottle of good wine to celebrate your success, just waiting for you to break out of the encirclement of pain and break through the fence of sorrow; Smash the troubled iron cloth shirt. Come on, don't keep me waiting too long. Have fun!

5. Love at first sight, goodbye infatuation. Take pains to win people's hearts all day. I took great pains to urge my heart. Don't want your heart, don't understand my heart, so cruel, make me sad.

Life always makes us black and blue, but in the end, those injured places will definitely become our strongest places.

7. Clear your mind, forget those unpleasant past events, listen to music, see the scenery, say what you can, do what you can, take the right path and meet the people you want to meet.

8. Give yourself a smiling face every day and tell yourself to be happy, because compared with those who are struggling to die, living healthily is a kind of happiness in itself.

9. If life is short, live it! If you are lonely, then fall in love! If you cheat your lover, turn yourself in! If you offend your lover, go to coax it! If you receive the message, please smile!

10. Everyone's life can't be smooth sailing. When the work is not satisfactory, recall your past brilliant achievements; When love is not going well, just remember your happiness and don't make yourself too sad; Let yourself be optimistic and open-minded

1 1. Be happy, don't be sad, be optimistic, don't be pessimistic, be enthusiastic, don't be bitter, be happy and don't frown. In a good mood like a flower, you deserve it.

12. It must be understood that everything I do is to pursue a state, a sense of self-satisfaction and happiness. Don't be afraid of anything. There are too many things to be afraid of in this world. You can't be afraid. If something happens, solve it. Forget it if it can't be solved.

13. Only expect, no matter after three years, five years and ten years. One day, when we meet, we can recognize each other. You shout, I miss you so much. At that moment, I will burst into tears. Because we once loved each other, we will cherish and care for each other.

14. Give you a happy knife, sweep away all your troubles, give you a happy hand *, kill all your troubles, give you a pair of scissors, cut off all your sorrows, send you a comforting message, and relax in three words. Wish you a better tomorrow and a happier life.

15. Cry at yourself and laugh at others. This is called life. Many times, all we want is a positive look and an understanding heart. Everything in life is not calculated, but felt; I didn't ask for it, I fixed it.

16. I miss you every year; Always love you; Looking forward to you, holding your hand and growing old with your son; Waiting for you, the years are old; Give you a warm and sweet hug; May you always laugh regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter; I wish you a beautiful and youthful life.

17. If there is an afterlife, let's be a pair of little prairie dogs.

18. Is there an unchanging oath that lasts longer than my heartbeat and an unchanging face that lasts longer than my life? I love you. Just this sentence, I only let you have it in my time.

19. No matter how old you are, there is joy of life in your heart, and miracles are as naive as children.

20. Obstacles and failures are the most reliable stepping stones to success. If you are willing to learn and use them, you can cultivate success from failure.

How to comfort a person who has lost hope for the future (2)1. Nine times out of ten, if it is not for other things, we should be happy for these two things. Life is not getting too little, but having too much. Gratitude makes you enjoy satisfaction. Friends should be open and happy!

22. Your life world is full of sunshine, not shadows! You should know that the existence of shadows is based on light. Behind the shadow is sunshine. I believe your world is full of gorgeous sunshine.

23. In fact, the sky is blue and the clouds will eventually disperse; In fact, the sea is not wide, and this shore is connected with the other; In fact, tears are sweet, when your heart has a wish; In fact, life is perfect as long as you are optimistic; In fact, I want to make you happy every day!

24. Learning to appreciate yourself is equivalent to mastering the key to happiness. Give yourself a little confidence, give yourself a little happiness, give yourself a smile, learn to be happy, believe me, you will be the best tomorrow!

Let's accept all the good and bad, and then move on without saying a word.

26. Emotional things are always hard to say clearly. I know that breaking up is always sad, but in any case, I will always stand by your side and support you. Try to make yourself happy, okay?

27. I finally found that my eyes on people are too simple. I never thought about what kind of face is under the mask. I always treat the mask directly as my face, but I forget that there is always a tearful face under the smiling face mask.

Please give yourself a confident smile, deal with the past calmly, laugh it off when you lose it, when you are helpless, when you are sad, when you hesitate, because tomorrow will be a brand-new beginning. Friends, please continue to work hard for a perfect tomorrow!

29. When you received this message, you also received a girl without sadness and lucky grass from me. No sad girl can make you forget your troubles, and clover can bring you luck and happiness. Smile knowingly, okay?

30. Be careful not to live too tired. People often sigh that living is really tiring. Tired, it is mental stress; Being tired is a heavy psychological burden. Tired and not tired are always relative. If you want not to be tired, you must learn to relax. Life is to relax. Mental fatigue makes people fall into sub-health state for a long time; A tired heart will make you depressed. Don't be too tired, learn to release yourself.

3 1. Take a step when you talk and do things, and don't treat yourself as a character; Doing things freely for others is really the most beautiful thing. How happy you are to give up interest, how happy you are to relax; A low-key life has its true meaning, and a free life has its reason.

32. The so-called management, less management, more management. The balance between the two is moderate, moderate and rational, which is humanization. Do as you would be done by. We should consider the reform from the overall perspective and consider the feelings from the other side's perspective.

33. It is normal to have a gap in life. Self-reproach will only increase the pain, complaining will only increase the burden, grief will only destroy self-confidence, and helplessness will only aggravate depression. Why not pat the dust on your body and stand up bravely to meet the challenge of tomorrow? Isn't it the best choice and wise move?

34. Every day of life is a kind of nature and peace. Since I am a guest in this life, why should I be disappointed? A thousand worries are easy to disperse, and the entanglement comes back. The turmoil in the world is always unpredictable. If you live a leisurely life, you will regard life as an epiphany. All the troubles in the past are dust.

35. God said: Happiness is a grateful heart, a healthy body, a satisfactory job, a person who loves you deeply and a group of trustworthy friends. You will have everything! Happy Year of the Tiger!

36. Don't be afraid to make mistakes; If we do something wrong or do something wrong, we will still gain something. If you don't do it, you will only return empty-handed. There are traces of failure behind every success, and every failure is getting closer and closer to success. Unload your baggage, let go of your hands and do what you should do.

37. Cheer up, dear, will you? Let my love break the ice in your heart, release the burden in my heart, and let me share your inner feelings with you!

38. The only obstacle that prevents me from kissing you at the moment is this glass on your mobile phone.

39. Life is only a few decades. Don't leave any regrets for yourself. Smile happily. Cry if you want, and love when you should. There is no point in suppressing yourself.

40. Please give me a sincere feeling and a gentle heart. Because, I will only love you this time. This time is forever.

How to comfort a person who has lost hope for the future (Chapter III) 4 1. It is highly undesirable. Some people often worry too much, leading to their mental disorders; Some people are indifferent to everything because they are insensitive. The former often suffers from being unable to find the reason, but dies because of being too smart. The root of stupidity lies in regretting everything. The latter doesn't know what regret is, and lives in a daze all day. There is no difference between life and death.

42. If you feel tired, give yourself a holiday before you continue. You can say tired, but don't say "no".

43. Where there is a gap in life, there is a hurdle; Where there are setbacks, there will be blows; There is joy and helplessness; Where there is success, there will be failure. Everything is indifferent, I want to open it, open it, my troubles will naturally dissipate, and life will be infinitely perfect!

44.do I love you? I want to see you after work. When I am happy, I want to tell you. When I am sad, I won't let you know, but I will always think of you. What did you do to make me want to follow you and love you all my life?

45. There is nothing good about people, but the degree of bad is different.

46. The distance between heart and heart is not far, as long as communication; It is not difficult to wait for love and affection, as long as you are tolerant. Destiny needs your heart to have; Feelings must be sincere to last forever. There are troubles every day, and there is nothing wrong with not answering. Floating things, heart things, should come, should go, calmly welcome, calmly send. There is a saying in Zen: Don't forget people's kindness, ignore people's grievances, think more about people's mistakes, and don't miss others.

47. Positive people see an opportunity in every worry, while negative people see some kind of worry in every opportunity.

48. My heart pain can only be treated by myself. Why do you want to lose your present mood for painful regret? It is also necessary to vent your grievances once in a while. But endless complaining will only increase troubles and let others see their incompetence. Complaining is a fatal negative state of mind. Once one's complaining becomes a bad habit, one's life will be dark, not only one's good mood will be gone, but others will also be unlucky.

49. I saw you at first sight; Without saying anything, identify you; Three heads and six arms please you; The four seas follow the wind and chase you; All the internal organs are you; Seven steps to please you; Eight treasures nourish you; One for you!

50. It is better to cherish what you have than to envy what others get.

5 1. Being poor is simple, while being rich is complicated; In this life, people are sometimes proud of the spring breeze and sometimes struggle for it; Sometimes everything goes well, sometimes we hit a wall everywhere, but in any case, we must stick to a peaceful heart and deal with all this indifferently. Only in this way can there be no loss and pain when the situation changes suddenly, and we can laugh at the ups and downs of life.

52. Life is always full of hardships and it is difficult to make a choice. Escape is only a short moment, and fate will never be rewritten; Fate needs to be cherished, and coercion is not a good means; Giving up is sometimes inevitable. May your life be wonderful.

53. Learn to live alone, no matter whether someone around you loves you or not. Do what you should do, and treat it safely with or without love.

54. It is a miracle that people will never get sick, so common diseases are extremely normal. Occasionally I get sick and meet a quack, and I suspect that I have a terminal illness, which is very painful. Illness didn't take my life, but intimidation made me half dead. Be optimistic and cautious about the disease, and never listen to the wind or rain. People eat whole grains, why don't they get sick? You can't scare yourself. Sit in the wrong position.

55. Everything that strives is real gold, and it is not afraid of fire.

56. All beauty comes from sincerity and frankness. Although happiness will be fleeting, it will last. A sincere blessing, a sincere greeting, may you be happy every day!

57. No matter how good the road is, there will be uneven times. In a smooth life, there will be unpleasant times. We must firmly believe that we can meet difficulties, establish the belief of winning, and only live for a lifetime. Let's work hard!

58. You are a cloud in the sky. If you accidentally put it in my heart, you didn't mean it, but I will keep it for a lifetime. You didn't mean it, but I cherish it.

59. A smile can melt a heavy face, a comforting word can inspire a depressed heart, a little help can lighten the burden of life, and a sharing can inspire you to move forward. I hope my short message can warm your fatigue and wish you a happy National Day holiday.

60. People will inevitably encounter thorns and bumps in their journey, but after the storm, there will be a beautiful rainbow.