1? Is it possible for a stupid person to go on a blind date? It's definitely possible, but the success rate is low.

People who are stupid always feel that they are not good at talking and have an introverted personality. Most of the time, they are used to lying flat. They don’t want to improve this problem. Instead, they always want to meet girls who appreciate this kind of personality. , in fact, frankly speaking, there are also girls who like this type, but very few. If you expect to find a girlfriend by talking stupidly, you could do it in the old society. Nowadays, women are too smart and pay more attention to the quality of life and Comfort, not just so-called security.

Don’t always think that you are the stupidest. You can change your stupidity by practicing more. Learn more about how to speak in this area and use more caution. You can easily become a good talker. Don’t label yourself. . 2. People who talk stupidly are most likely to fall into the following 6 pits when chatting with girls. Are you in the pit?

1. As I talked, I could no longer find the north and I didn’t know where I was going.

2. When speaking, it is like a leader speaking, too serious.

3. Or tell girls the truth in a serious manner.

4. Answer when others ask, and then answer the question.

5. I don’t know what I want to say, and every time I say uh-huh, oh-oh, haha.

6. Always tell some earthy jokes that are not funny.

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It’s not scary to encounter problems. Who hasn’t encountered a problem yet? The important thing is to solve the problem instead of waiting with all kinds of negative complaints about your own problems. It doesn’t mean that while waiting, the future will be better. Things will become better. Many times, waiting without doing anything will only make the future worse. Being stupid is a problem that can be solved and should not become a problem that bothers you. 3. How to chat with a blind date if you are stupid.

1. Start with the details

A boy who pays attention to details will definitely be right in the eyes of girls. You can find details from the girl’s chat software avatar, nickname, personalized signature, friend circle, etc. , and then start the topic from the details. For example, if a girl's chat software nickname is "Flying Fish", then you can start with: "Do you really love fish, so you call Flying Fish cute?" Another example is that girls often post pets in their Moments, then you can just say: "Girls who like pets are very caring." Of course, everyone has to be specific based on the specific situation. In short, some details can be used as a starting point.

2. Detailed compliments

Women are relatively vain creatures, and they all hope to be praised and recognized by others. Once we know this psychological characteristic of women, we can use compliments to praise girls. As an opening remark, of course, the compliment should not be perfunctory or exaggerated. You must pay attention to the details when praising, and put your words of praise into the girl's heart.

You can look for details from a girl’s hairstyle, makeup, outfit, accessories, hobbies, etc. Only detailed compliments will appear sincere. For example, you can say hello to a girl like this: "Your earrings match your hairstyle, which makes you look special." Such detailed compliments will give girls a different feeling.

3. Cold reading

Cold reading is a term in psychology. Simply put, it means using declarative sentences instead of questions. Many boys often take the trouble to ask questions when chatting, which is really frustrating. Girls have no desire to chat, so we can use the technique of cold reading to not only get rid of the label of low emotional intelligence, but also to create deep emotional resonance with girls. The sentence structure of cold reading is generally like this: Although... but... Although you are a cute girl on the surface, you have a tomboy's heart deep down.

(2) First time chatting skills

1. I discovered a secret of yours

Set up suspense, most girls will ask what secrets, personal test Practical

2. You are late

Interesting girls will reply "just right"

3. It is said that those who reply in seconds are true love

This sentence is risky, but it is very lethal. If the girl replies instantly, the relationship will instantly improve

4. Hi! Taurus girl

Don’t ask me how I know her zodiac sign, just make it up and give her a topic

5. They say Pisces is imagining, so what are you thinking about now? What?

Same as the chat skills above, read it coldly and open the topic instantly

6. Has anyone ever said that you look like xxx, especially when you smile ( Analyze the specific situation)

When you praise someone, you must be unique and avoid "you are so beautiful/beautiful"

7. Thank you

Girl What do you say thank you for, you say: Nice to meet me

8. I just won the xx award

Beauty: Such good luck. Congratulations.

You: Yes. I thought all my luck was spent on meeting you

9. Humph, I didn’t say anything even if you added me

The roles were reversed. Originally, you added the girl, but you added me. Say that a girl has joined you to arouse her emotions

10. Hahaha, I guess I am the first handsome guy to say hello to you today, right?

Through humor, arrogance and a little bit of fun, girls have a higher reply rate

1 Your eyes are beautiful/your lips are sexy

When you praise a girl, you have to highlight the highlights, and it’s best to start with the details

12. The photos you took in your circle of friends are great!

Start with avatars and friend circles to give girls a different feeling

13. I just encountered a particularly interesting thing

Guide to interesting things, Make the other party curious and ask

14. There seems to be a particularly interesting movie recently

Guide to the xxx movie, which is a great topic for chatting

15. I think you are very unique and want to get to know you

Sometimes being more sincere will make it easier for girls to like you

16. I just came home after dinner with my friends and I was very full

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When expressing your own status, you must add your own feelings

17. I used to have many hobbies, but now I only have one left

What would girls ask out of curiosity? , you can answer "Knowing you"

900 phrases for first time chat

18. Photo opening statement

You can send a photo to the girl, you can put food or something interesting Activities

19. Sorry

Response: What’s wrong

It’s so late for you to get to know me

20. So strange

Response: What's wrong (ah)

I asked you to meet me so late 4. How to chat with your blind date

1. If someone introduces you to a date, try to agree first. .

As family, classmates and friends, they have good resources and are willing to take the trouble to introduce you to you. It is actually very unfriendly to be picky and will inevitably make others feel that their good intentions have been betrayed. Especially for people who are particularly close to you, they must have various conditions (external and internal behavior, etc.) before they are introduced to you. So those self-righteous rules (money, good looks, a car, a house, a decent job, a height of 180cm, etc.) are mostly empty talk. It’s better to be less persistent. Unless you are perfect, there is no point in dating. Give others more tolerance and give yourself more opportunities.

2. Chat proactively.

Actively contacting and striving for good people and things is never a cheap thing. On the contrary, your initiative is a good signal to the other party. Taking the initiative is really important. It is not only important in dating and love, but also in work and life. You really have to fight for the opportunity yourself. If you don't take the initiative, he won't take the initiative either. That's fine. You can live alone until you grow old. (I used to be too proactive, but that didn’t work. My friend said he read my chat history carefully. I like to talk a lot at once...)

3. Explain the lack of reply. reason.

Everyone is busy, be it work, study or entertainment. If you don’t know the other person well, don’t make any assumptions. If the other person doesn’t reply to your message, you can politely ask if they are busy. If you fail to reply to the person in time, it is best to mention the reason why you did not reply. Either the Internet connection is not good in my hometown, or the messages are set not to pop up, or there are other more important and urgent things to be busy with, or we are waiting for a time when both of us can be online to reply properly and continue to chat closely. Don't be too deliberate, just mention it and the other party will understand. In fact, both parties on a blind date are more sensitive at this time and will care about the other person's attitude towards them. Once the other person feels left out and ignored, your relationship will only get worse. There is no emotional basis in the first place, and he has no reason to forgive unconditionally. You, so you have to "excuse" yourself and don't cause misunderstandings on such small details. Don’t think that if you reply to the other party now, you can write off the matter of “not replying for a long time” before that.

4. Grasp the rhythm of chatting.

If you can’t guarantee that you can have many topics to talk about every day and have fun every time, then set aside a day to talk a little bit. It is also important to maintain more frequent contact (the effect is better than a cold day and a hot day) Even better, because the other day you were cold, the other person was muttering in his heart).

5. Follow the other person’s topic and chat with a peaceful mind.

When going on a blind date, you will inevitably meet someone with better or worse conditions than you. Only by keeping your eyes level and having peace of mind will you not feel inferior, nervous or arrogant. Only then can you have a good chat and get as much information as possible. Refined it a bit, be moderately confident and keep your posture low, just talk normally and don't think too much.

6. Treat each other as a friend frankly and directly.

When friends chat, they don’t need to spend too much time deliberately finding topics. During the chat, try not to use your own subjective thoughts to speculate on others. Just like when you get along with friends, don't be too sentimental. If you are quite sensitive when getting along with friends, then I can't help you.

7. If you appreciate him or her, just praise him or her directly.

I am also a person who likes to praise others in life, and the chat atmosphere is always hilarious. Who doesn’t want to be praised? As long as it comes from sincerity, the other person will have a good impression of you because of your liking for him.

8. Grounded.

Don’t put on any airs, and don’t appear lofty. It means don’t pretend to be X. Be natural and talk about something everyone can understand. We are all ordinary people. If you talk to me about delicacies all day long, then I am really bothering you. Even if you don't feel tired, I will feel tired for you. If you didn't pretend to be such a glamorous person, well, I wouldn't be able to fit into your circle. I think a close match is very important to a close match. Even if you are a fairy, you still have to have fireworks. (Hahaha, this seems to be expressed strangely by me.)

9. Focus more on blind dates, love, and marriage.

I think this is an important point. My first online blind date, we got along really well, but we never mentioned anything like blind dates, and we went off topic very badly. Looking back now, it’s really frustrating! Although the conversation was great, what was the result? To be honest, I am no worse than him as a friend. It's all because I had no experience at all at the time, so I thought we should talk slowly and feel it carefully. Sorry, right now I just want to get straight to the point. Even if you talk about your views on love and marriage, it's good. Even if you can't get together in the end, you can still listen to the opposite sex's thoughts on these topics. It's also a gain that can be accumulated, isn't it? If you find that you are very compatible in these aspects during the chat, wouldn't it be better if both parties have the desire for further development?

10. After you are sure you have a crush on someone, you have to find out more about the things they like.

During the chat, I learned that Little A liked tennis, and the Australian Open happened to be held those few days, so after chatting with him, I also went to watch the Australian Open. At that time, I liked him quite a lot, so I was willing to learn a new thing from scratch. Before this, I didn’t know what the Australian Open was and I wasn’t interested. In four hours, while watching football, reading popular science, learning about the rules, and extending the knowledge network (people and events related to tennis), I went from beginner to beginner. Isn’t this the topic of conversation the next day? Usually if I don't understand something, I don't have the attitude of "I don't understand anyway, don't tell me this". Instead, I listen to what others say. In the process of listening, I can get some information, and when I have time, I can go in depth. Understand that keeping these things in your mind can make you more interesting (and make unexpected new discoveries) at any time. In addition, it can also reflect your own intentions haha. Although blind date requires efficiency, I think a little romantic surprise is still needed in the process to soften the stiff relationship between each other.

11. Just do it.

If you like each other, stay together; if it doesn’t suit you, just be on your own. If you can, give me a blessing. There is no need to maintain the last bit of dignity when saying goodbye. It depends on your mood.

12. Other details.

The circle of friends is very important. Although that is the real you, it can also be shaped a little deliberately. After all, apart from chatting, the only way for the other person to know you is to look at your Moments. It's best not to close things down. You have to show yourself to be an outgoing, sunny person who is willing to share, right?

Even if we are suitable for dating, we must start with love. Since falling in love requires mastering certain love skills, it is very necessary for everyone to master certain love methods. If If you don’t know much about this aspect, you should go and take a look in advance, because there are many people who are not very good at falling in love, so we need to prepare some of our love methods in advance, so that the relationship can be smooth. Smoother.