Nine aspects of men's charm Some people sum up the most popular men's charm for women into nine aspects:? (1) reliable. A man is reliable, which shows that he has strong credibility in dealing with others. If a man develops in his career and lacks trustworthy qualities, it will be difficult to get a chance of success. No boss is willing to hire unreliable subordinates, and no friend is willing to find untrustworthy people to cooperate with. It is precisely the kind of man who can't win women's trust that often loses in love. Not being trusted is the most unsuccessful life for a man. ? Why are men not trusted? He is either incompetent. In business, the boss dare not entrust him with a heavy responsibility, for fear that he will not be able to do so. In love, women can't find strength, and it is difficult to entrust them for life. ? Therefore, reliability is a man's first virtue and his greatest charm. ? (2) mild. Everyone will stay away from a man with a bad temper and a bad temper, and women are even more afraid of avoiding him. There is no good popularity, and there is no love. He is isolated everywhere and is always treated coldly. He is like a trapped beast rushing into the crowd from a savage land, which is inhuman. ? And a gentle man, with a kind heart, is so easy to get close to, showing a considerate and caring goodwill everywhere. A weak woman who is wary and easily injured will take refuge in the warm embrace and feel the gentle breeze and drizzle. She will bathe in happiness and be deeply intoxicated, and love will arise. ? (3) deep. Deep is the inner spiritual accomplishment, and it is the unique charm gained by experienced men through tempering. Why do women choose partners and like mature men? It is attracted by his profound connotation. ? Deep is not reticent, and some girls are initially confused by silent men, but after contact, she may find that his silence is either thoughtless, clumsy in words or opinionated. ? True profundity is an experience, a kind of deliberation. Men should not be boastful, outspoken and frivolous, and be dismissed as "hairless on the mouth and not firm in handling affairs". Deep is still a steady manner, he is not marked by age, and he is not a crafty old scoundrel. This is a charm of youth and maturity, and it is the quality of taking on great responsibilities. Women love profundity, and value the development potential of this kind of man. They are committed for life, and naturally they are men who can achieve great things. ? (4) strong. Toughness is an iron furnace, which can turn men into steel. ? A man who has been tempered into steel is an Optimus Prime standing in front of a woman. He is indomitable and let the wind and rain beat him. People often say that love is a wooden sailboat that can't stand a shell. Which woman dares to board such a fragile wooden boat to experience decades of marriage? A strong man can build a big ship, and he can stand upright at the bow to shelter women from the wind and rain. Emotional twists and turns, family difficulties, once strong, all saved the day. This sense of security can only be obtained from a strong man, who will never be a deserter. ? (5) Decisive. According to the traditional oriental concept, men should be in a leading position in society, and men should be women's leaders. Some people say that why Japan develops so fast is because of a reasonable and efficient division of labor between men and women. Men dominate society and women serve men, so men are extremely confident and decisive. Let's not debate how men's decisiveness is lost, whether they are buried and scared away by women who participate in social life. In a word, women in China like to be decisive men, and women never want to pester men to be indecisive and slow down. ? A decisive man makes women respect him. ? Most women are willing to be in a subordinate position in their bones, especially in the eyes of lovers. A man who is passive in Nuo Nuo looks weak and spineless, and a man who can bully even a woman must be worthless. As soon as a man stands erect and speaks hit the floor, a woman pays homage. Men who have their own opinions, and men who dare to make their own opinions when things go wrong, all gain the respect of women. ? A decisive man is admired by women. ? A decisive man is charming, all-powerful, and has the demeanor of a leader. When a woman meets such a man, she will be obedient, and all the tricks of her mother-in-law who unreasonably stir up three points will fail. Instead, women worship him. ? Only by establishing prestige in the unit can a man win his position. ? Only by establishing prestige at home can a man win love. ? (6) sense of responsibility. A man with a strong sense of responsibility is not selfish. ? Society entrusts man with a sacred mission, and he wants to create value and promote the historical process. Therefore, a man is brave enough to carry heavy burdens. He faces difficulties and never shirks his responsibilities. He doesn't care about enjoyment, doesn't seek comfort, doesn't harm others' interests, helps others, cares for the weak, loves his wife and children, and he is respected everywhere. Falling in love with such a man, women will have a great sense of honor, and this is a huge spiritual wealth. ? Men with strong sense of responsibility respect others. ? A sense of responsibility is the noblest virtue a man possesses. A responsible man must be a good husband. He will respect love and be loyal to his duties. A respected woman can maintain her personality independence, gain physical and mental freedom and pursue a valuable life. I have everything I want, and I have paid my respects. Such a woman has no regrets. ? (7) enterprising spirit. An enterprising man attaches importance to his career and pursues his future development. He puts love and family in a subordinate position, but it cannot be said that he does not attach importance to it. On the contrary, he needs a warm and comfortable home for him to live in and relax. He believes that there must be a good woman behind a successful man. ? Why for men, career is the first purpose of life? Career is the most proud character, while women rank men's career after many advantages they appreciate. ? This is the change of the times, which leads to the shift of women's aesthetic standards. In the past, a man's fame and fortune brought women show off and honor. In modern society, women are liberated and walk shoulder to shoulder with men. Many women are as enterprising and successful as men. What a woman can get by herself, she no longer feels precious, and * * * pursues a career, which is easy to neglect lingering love and easily leads to family estrangement. A woman with a strong personality always wants to change places with a man. ? But men's enterprising spirit is still highly valued by women. Men are not enterprising, lazy and depressed, and candidly admit defeat, while women are disgraced and their vanity is greatly hurt. Women are really insatiable. ? Therefore, a man can't shape himself according to a woman's mind. Facts have proved that the society is ever-changing, and men are still the backbone of the society. No matter how loud a woman screams, she is unwilling to choose a man who is insignificant in society and in the family as her husband. Isn't it? Women still regard enterprising spirit as a great virtue of men. ? (8) independence. Independence is a sign of a man's maturity and the foundation of a man's existence. The most important thing for a man is spiritual independence and establishing an independent personality. Women don't like men who have no opinions. Some men are always dominated by others, or listen to their parents when talking about friends and looking for a job. My mother says what she thinks all day, and my sister says what she thinks, which makes my girlfriend extremely disgusted. There are also men who mix in the crowd all day and act as followers everywhere. They have no appeal and cohesion, so they are insignificant. ? With an independent personality, a man can settle down, develop himself, and protect his beloved girlfriend, so that her girlfriend can follow you safely and belong to you. ? (9) Careful and thoughtful. A thoughtful man has the demeanor of an elder. He accompanies women like a patron saint. He is a life-oriented man. With him, women will be taken good care of, and he will make women feel happy. Such a man has a woman's affinity. ? He is good at listening, willing to answer, gentle and drizzling, and affectionate. He likes family life, loves children, and devotes himself to raising them. ? He takes care of the overall situation, knows how to be humble, has strong endurance, does not fight for it, and does not force others to will. ? He will do housework, be diligent and take the initiative, and everything he has done can be in order. ? A thoughtful man is very pleasing to women. Maybe he can't do anything big, but he will love his family, wife and children wholeheartedly. ...............