I don’t know how much time this world can leave for me. Wu Ting, a 29-year-old Hanzhong woman, said: "I can let go of anything but him." Therefore, before she died, she wanted to find a husband for her husband. Daughter-in-law, find a woman who can take care of him and accompany him throughout his life.

Marriage Proposal

I am worried before I die

I want to find a wife for my husband

On April 30, Baidu Post Bar Hanzhong Bar, A special "marriage notice" appeared, and the title of the notice was "Finding a Wife for My Husband". As soon as the marriage announcement came out, it immediately aroused heated discussions among netizens.

Yesterday, a reporter from the Chinese Business Daily saw a post by a netizen named @question二 Answer二. He wrote in the post: I am about to pass away due to illness and I can’t worry about him. I have no children and I am 29 years old. During the years when I was ill, he and his family never gave up on treating me, and he personally took care of all major and minor illnesses. Now, I can let go of everything but him. I want to do something for him before he dies, and find a woman who will take care of him and accompany him throughout his life.

According to the content of the netizen’s reply, a reporter from the Chinese Business News learned that the person who posted the message was Wu Ting, a 29-year-old woman who lives in Shayan Village, Longjiang Street Office, Hantai District, Hanzhong City.

Unfortunately

The child lost his legs due to treatment for malignant tumor

Yesterday morning, when a reporter from the Chinese Business News met Wu Ting, she was attending a class meeting with her husband Lu Kai. wedding. Wu Ting's face was full of smiles, and there was no hint that she was a cancer patient. Later, she told reporters the story of her and her husband.

Wu Ting said that she and Lu Kai were high school classmates. Having been at the same table for three years, Lu Kai was deeply attracted by the sunny and cheerful Wu Ting, and started pursuing her in his senior year of high school. In 2007, Lu Kai was admitted to university and Wu Ting joined the workforce after failing the exam.

In 2012, they ended their six-year love affair and entered the marriage hall. Shortly after her marriage, Wu Ting was involved in a traffic accident and injured her leg. During the examination, he was accidentally diagnosed with giant cell tumor of bone (benign). He recovered well after the operation and the family was very happy.

However, bad luck struck again: In 2014, a few months after she was pregnant, Wu Ting was diagnosed with a recurrence of giant cell tumor of the bone that turned malignant. She was forced to terminate the pregnancy. Shortly thereafter, in order to completely To eradicate the root cause of the disease, she had to have a high amputation of her left leg.

With her child gone and her legs gone, young Wu Ting fell into despair. But she was strong and did not give in to the disease. The perseverance of her husband and family gave her confidence: "For them, I have to live strong!"

Moved

A family People treat her as an “emperor”

Her husband often takes her on trips

“The whole family treats me like an emperor. My mother-in-law serves me everything to eat and I don’t even have to wear clothes. Wash." Wu Ting said with an embarrassed smile that after she fell ill, she knew that her family had borrowed a lot of money for medical treatment, but her family never told her how much it cost.

“They all advised me not to worry about money. Even if I was selling iron, houses, and land, they still wanted to treat me.” Wu Ting said that in May last year, she was hospitalized again for treatment. The doctor told her that the tumor It has spread and metastasized, and tumor lesions have been found in the abdomen and right femoral head. After Wu Ting fell ill, all the pressure was borne by Lu Kai and his family. "Due to the side effects of treatment, I have stomachache and can't eat. My mother-in-law gives me a cup of tea and a cup of boiled water every morning for me to drink." Wu Ting said that her husband often takes her out to play.

“We went to Chengdu and Chongqing the year before last, and this year during Qingming Festival, we drove to Qinghai with friends.” Wu Ting said that after she fell ill, her husband and family not only did not treat her as a burden, but also often persuaded her Don't think too much.

When her daughter-in-law's illness was mentioned, her mother-in-law Li Xiaofeng burst into tears, "I never dared to cry in front of her, for fear that she would have a burden in her heart."

Li Xiaofeng said that in order to treat Wu Ting, The family sold the large truck they used to run the business and borrowed it from relatives and friends. They spent more than 400,000 yuan over the years, but they never mentioned it in front of their daughter-in-law. "I just wanted to cure the disease. She is still young. It is really a pity." ”

“Lu Kai often says that he can’t help me with pain, he can only make me happy every day. He laughs when I am happy, and he feels uncomfortable when I am not happy. Now, I am only responsible for living heartlessly!" Wu Ting said, so she usually endures the pain, just because she is afraid that her family will be worried, "I feel sad, and they feel even sadder."

Wishes

Soliciting marriage for her husband proves that "husband is a good person"

Wu Ting said that during the Spring Festival last year, in order to reduce the burden on her family, she and her husband set up a stall to sell Spring Festival couplets, and many citizens learned about her After the situation, she wanted to donate money, but she refused.

“We are all self-respecting and self-respecting people. She rejected the donation from netizens, and I also rejected the donation from my colleagues. It is not easy for ordinary people to make money. They can solve it with their own hands. We don’t want to bring trouble to everyone. Come and bear it," Lu Kai said. In his eyes, his wife Wu Ting is a good girl that is hard to find in the world: she must be strong, capable, and not give up on herself. If she had not been ill, she would have been very good.

Despite being ill these years, Wu Ting has lived a fulfilling life. With everyone's love and care, she also started volunteering as a waiter in a caring supermarket dedicated to supporting poor students in mountainous areas, doing her little bit to repay the society.

“In the Love Supermarket, Wu Ting will volunteer as long as her health allows. She doesn’t want the subsidy we give her.

"Ms. Wang, who is also a volunteer, admired Wu Ting very much when she talked about it. She hoped that the disease could get away from this optimistic and strong girl as soon as possible.

High school classmate Zhang Jiashu said that after Wu Ting fell ill, he had many times When they visited home, Lu Kai’s parents took great care of Wu Ting, “especially his mother, who took better care of Wu Ting than any of her own daughters. "Wu Ting's mother Du Qinglin said, "Her mother-in-law did a better job than my biological mother. "

In Wu Ting's eyes, Lu Kai is an unparalleled good husband. "Before marriage, we sometimes quarreled over trivial matters. After marriage, especially after I fell ill, he never spoke loudly to me. . "Now that her condition is getting worse, Wu Ting said that she decided to seek marriage for her husband online. "I don't want him to live alone in the future, so I want to help him find a wife. At least I can prove that my husband is married. is a good person.

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