What should I do? Is there a better way?
One day, I made a questionnaire survey in my class, trying to know what kind of reward children want and what kind of reward can go deep into their hearts. The answer I got surprised me and made me think deeply.
In addition to some small items that students usually like, such as toy building blocks, pens, notebooks, snacks, small dolls, bookmarks, mobile phone pendants, pencil cases, small electric fans, basketball, tasteful pens and luminous pens, the rewards that children want most are actually concentrated in the following aspects:
Avoid homework and reduce the chance of homework.
1, no work card.
2. Arrange an assignment by yourself.
3. No homework.
4. Avoid writing.
5. Read a picture book story by yourself in Chinese.
6. An extra-curricular book.
7. I want to read quietly.
There are more interesting books in the book corner.
9. You can read freely in the self-study class and add some minor courses.
10, you can have a good look around the school.
Get affirmation and praise from family.
1, I want to hear my mother say that she loves me.
No matter whether I do well in the exam or not, my parents will not criticize me.
Let my parents know that I am a good boy.
4. Go out to play with your parents.
5. Get a compliment from parents.
6. I hope mom likes me.
7. Let my mother know my good performance at school.
8. Get dad's approval.
9. I hope there are many books at home.
10, I hope mom can go home early.
1 1 I hope my family will spend more time with me.
12, the next parent-teacher conference will be praised.
13, I want to buy a box of colored pens for my brother.
Get affirmation and praise from teachers and classmates.
1, approved by the teacher.
2. Get the teacher's attention.
3. The teacher's praise.
4. The signature of the teacher that can be remembered forever.
The teacher called his parents to praise himself.
6. Get a gift from the teacher.
6. The teacher told us one of his most important things.
7. The teacher returned the confiscated things to me.
8. Make the teacher happy every day.
9. The teacher is very tolerant of us.
10, I want my classmates to admire me.
1 1, I hope you don't mess with me and call me by my nickname.
12, the whole class is sure.
13, the fruits of labor are cherished by the students.
It turns out that in addition to those small prizes that can be bought with money, love, freedom, affirmation, respect and praise are the rewards that children want most. In fact, it's not just 10-year-old children. That's all every adult wants! Get sincere affirmation and praise from family, friends, colleagues and leaders, and have free time outside of study and work. This is the comfortable life we are all pursuing!
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