People have three basic dilemmas. First, people are born to be themselves. People are born to live among countless others and cannot communicate thoroughly with others. This means loneliness. Second, people are born with desires, and people's ability to realize desires will never catch up with their ability to desire. This is an eternal distance. Third, people are not born to die, but born to die, which means fear. God tortured us with these three things. However, it is possible that we misunderstood. God wanted to give us three chances to have fun.

I often think that ugly women make beautiful women. I often think that fools lead to wisdom. I often think that cowards set off heroes. I often think that man transformed the Buddha.

For the first time in many years, I realized that there are not only my ruts everywhere in this garden, but also my mother's footprints everywhere.

5. Bitterness and pleasure are both judged by oneself, and they are not necessarily directly related to the objective environment. Just like a woman who doesn't love jewelry, even in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, it won't hurt her self-esteem. The poor scholar with thousands of books doesn't want to exchange diamonds or stocks with millionaires. People who are satisfied with rural life do not envy any scholar's honorary title or senior official.

6. Make excuses for yourself and torture yourself with an untimely boast.

7. We should not be dissatisfied with the reality, but angry with the eternal dream and say it doesn't exist.

8. Death is something you don't have to worry about, something you won't miss no matter how you put it off, and a festival that is bound to come.

9. What people can't do is restriction and disability.

10, don't rub against each other on people's right and wrong. Some words are not heavy, but a little carelessness will weigh on others' hearts; Of course, we should also train ourselves not to be easily hurt by other people's words. You can't decide the length of life, but you can expand its width; You can't change your natural appearance, but you can always smile; You can't expect to control others, but you can take care of yourself; You can't completely predict tomorrow, but you can make full use of today; You can't ask everything to be smooth sailing, but you can do everything wholeheartedly. Appreciation: A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. It is more of a burden and another kind of loss; Less is not enough, it is another kind of surplus; Giving up is not necessarily a loss, but a wider possession.