1. After nineteen years of exile, the prince Chong'er of Jin finally returned to his country and seized power. He was Duke Wen of Jin. In order to repay the meritorious ministers, Duke Wen of Jin rewarded those who followed him in exile and gave them many generous treatments. However, he pushed Jie Zi into oblivion. In fact, Jie Zitui’s contribution is very great. During Chong'er's exile, Jie Zitui followed him and took good care of him. When he was starving, Jie Zitui even cut off the flesh from his thigh to make soup for Chong'er.

Jie Zitui was a man of great integrity. He didn't mind not receiving the reward, and even thought that he should not receive the reward at all. After Chong'er returned to the country, he pretended to be ill, went home to live in seclusion, served his mother, and stayed in poverty. He also said: "Of the nine sons of Duke Xian, only the king is alive. God will not destroy the Jin Dynasty, and will definitely appoint a master. He will preside over the Jin Dynasty's sacrifices." Who is a man if he is not a king? Therefore, God has really appointed him as a king. However, those who follow him in exile think that it is their own strength. Isn't this a lie? Stealing other people's property will be punished. Called a thief, let alone coveting the merits of God and treating them as one's own strength! Those below regard sins as justification, and those above reward deceit. It is difficult to get along with each other!

Later, Chong'er sent someone to the mountain to ask him to come down, but he still refused, so the man set fire to the mountain to force him out. In the end, he and his mother were burned to death in the mountain without coming out! "Lu Spring and Autumn"

2. Hua Mulan: surname Wei, first name Mulan. A native of the Sui Dynasty, Hua Mulan was a native of Zhouzhuang Village, Yingguo Town, Yucheng City, Shangqiu City, Henan Province. During the Yining period of Emperor Gong of the Sui Dynasty, the Turks invaded the border. Mulan disguised herself as a man and joined the army on behalf of her father. She fought on the battlefield for twelve years and made many meritorious deeds. No one discovered that she was a woman. After returning to the court, she was granted the title of Shangshu. In the Tang Dynasty, he was posthumously named "General Xiaolie" and a temple was built to commemorate him. "Poetry of Mulan"

3. Xu Shu entered Cao Ying without saying a word "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms" (This is considered filial piety. As for whether it is loyalty, it is up to you.)

When Liu Bei was in Xinye, Xu Shuhua named Ming Fu, joined Liu Bei, and was worshiped as a military advisor. lt; Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms gt; wrote that he had asked Liu Bei to invite Zhuge Liang before he went to Cao Ying, and he had already invited him. When Cao Cao went south to attack Liu Bei, Liu Bei abandoned Xinye, rushed to Fancheng, walked to Dangyang, and captured Xiakou. At that time, the concubine was separated from his mother. The concubine was captured by Cao Cao and forced the concubine to surrender to Cao Cao. The concubine had no choice but to go to Cao Cao for his mother. When Yang was on the Banpo slope, Zhao Yun killed seven in and seven out. Why? The reason why he did not die was because Xu Shu put in a lot of effort. At that time, Cao Cao saw how powerful Zhao Yun was and wanted to capture Zhao Yun alive. However, after killing him for a long time and failing to capture him, the counselor suggested killing him with a bow and arrow. Xu Shu said: Prime Minister, if he can capture this man alive, , the concubine will definitely be able to persuade him to be used by the prime minister. Cao Cao issued an arrow at that time: As long as Zhao Yun lives, Zilong will not die. That's why Zhao Yun and Adou were able to break out of Changbanpo. If it weren't for Xu Shu, 10 Zhao Yun would not be able to leave Changbanpo. This was his first policy for Cao Cao.

Second: During the battle at Chibi, Pang Tong presented a chain plan. When he came out, Xu Shu grabbed his hand and said: Huang Gai used a bitter meat trick to pretend to surrender. You are using a chain plan. You are afraid that Can’t Cao’s camp be burned down? Pang Tong pulled Xu Shu aside and said, "Do you really want to defeat my plan?" The concubine said: If I tell you to break your plan, I won't come to you. Anyway, Cao Ying is about to burn down. Can you teach me a way to escape? Pang Tong told Xu Shu that you were spreading rumors among the army that Xiliang Ma Teng and Han Sui were going to send troops to capture Chang'an. So he took the initiative to ask for orders to go to Sanguan to defend Ma Teng and Han Sui, and escaped the fire of Chibi.

It seems that he has given Cao Cao these two strategies throughout his life, but he was no longer mentioned in the interpretation.

4. Serving the country with loyalty and honoring parents: Xu Shiyou’s principles of loyalty and filial piety (the source is unknown, you can write "The Legend of General Xu Shiyou", the teacher will not look it up anyway, there are so many modern books)

Beijing’s medical conditions are so good, why doesn’t Xu Shiyou want to go? At that time, Xu Shiyou was very aware of the dangers of liver cancer. He was afraid that after arriving in Beijing, he would not be able to return to Nanjing, let alone his hometown in Xin County. So, how could he realize his wish to be buried after his death?

Regarding the funeral of Xu Shiyou, the instructions of the Party Central Committee and the Central Military Commission did not include whether the body should be buried or cremated? At that time, except for a few backward areas, burials were banned throughout the country. Everyone in the Nanjing Military Region knew that the handling of Xu Shiyou's body was special and exceptional.

That was in 1956, during the Central Work Conference held in Zhongnanhai, central leaders silently circulated an "Initiative" on the cremation of leaders of state agencies.

At that time, the signatures on the back of this "Advocacy Letter" were: Mao Zedong, Zhu De, Peng Dehuai, Kang Sheng, Liu Shaoqi, Zhou Enlai, Peng Zhen, Dong Biwu, Deng Xiaoping...

Soon , the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China convened the Eighth National Congress. When the "Book of Initiatives" was passed to Xu Shiyou, not only did he not sign it, he also went to Mao Zedong to express his lack of understanding about cremation.

Xu Shiyou is a well-known filial son. This has become famous all over the world. Whenever Xu Shiyou did something wrong, he would kneel in front of his mother and cry bitterly to admit his mistake.

After Xu Shiyou joined the Red Army, he often burst into tears in his sleep because he missed his mother. His troops passed through his hometown in enemy-occupied territory twice, and he took the risk to return home to visit his mother. In 1952, Xu Shiyou served as the commander of the Shandong Military Region. He took leave to go home to see his mother. At this time, since he returned home in 1932, mother and son had not seen each other for 20 years.

That day, Xu Shiyou got off his horse and saw an old woman walking in front of his house. She was dressed in rags, with gray messy hair like a pile of tangled grass. She was wearing torn cotton shoes with exposed toes on her feet and carrying a bag on her back. With a bundle of firewood, Xu Shiyou searched for the memory of 20 years ago on his old face, but it was beyond recognition. It was the mother who recognized her son: "You are Youdewa, right?" "Mom, I am Youde!" Xu Shiyou made a "plop" and knelt down in front of the old man. Mother and son held each other's arms and cried. Xu Shiyou wiped his mother's tears, stood up, and unloaded the bundle of branches from his mother's weak shoulders. He thought that his elderly mother was still living such a difficult life, and felt really guilty, so he knelt down in front of his mother with a plop, and the mother and son held each other's arms and cried for half an hour again.

"Youdewa, it's not easy for you to come all the way home. I'll boil water for you." Xu's mother stood up tremblingly and went back to the house to boil water. Xu Shiyou, who was kneeling on the ground, kept kneeling there without his mother's words.

You must be loyal while you are alive and guard your graves when you die

In the winter of 1957, Xu Shiyou, who was already the deputy minister of defense and commander of the Nanjing Military Region, went home again. At this time, Xu's mother was 78 years old. When Xu Shiyou arrived home that day, Xu's mother was feeding pigs. Xu Shiyou called softly behind her: "Mom, I'm back to see you."

Xu's mother turned around, a smile appeared on her wrinkled face, but that flower The "flowers" soon disappeared, and she said: "Youdewa, I am already 78 years old, and the mother and son see each other less often than once." Her hands trembled, and she cried bitterly while hugging Xu Shiyou.

Xu Shiyou, a nationally famous general, was like a child in front of his mother. He accompanied his mother and cried.

In 1959, Xu Shiyou visited relatives, but Xu’s mother had passed away. Xu Shiyou knelt beside his mother's grave and murmured to himself: "Mom, loyalty and filial piety are hard to come by. I couldn't serve you while you were still alive. After I die, I will definitely come and guard your grave."

1979 On October 22, 2011, Xu Shiyou decided to return to his mother after his death, and he had the idea of ????burial. So, he wrote a letter to his eldest son Xu Guang:

Xu Guang: Send me 50 yuan in cash and use the money to buy me a coffin.

I will not be cremated after my death. I will be buried in my hometown and next to my parents. I will serve my country loyally while I am alive and honor my parents when I die.

I am 74 years old this year and I am in good health. I will only live to be 80 or 90 years old, which is only more than ten years. You can make preparations first.

Just after New Year's Day in 1985, Xu Shiyou asked his secretary to write a report to the Party Central Committee, saying that he did not have much time to live and had no other requirements for the organization, and asked the Party Central Committee to bury him in a coffin after his death. He participated in the revolution since he was a child and failed to serve his biological mother. Live loyally, die filial piety, and be buried next to your mother's grave to fulfill your filial piety.

As time passed, the general's condition worsened day by day. He often asked in a hazy state whether there was a reply to the report.

Xu Shiyou’s report requesting a coffin burial was sent to Beijing and circulated to central leaders and Central Military Commission leaders. After the liberation of the country, except for Ren Bishi, who was not cremated, who had the guts to ask for burial? No one can be the master of this. Finally, the report was sent to Deng Xiaoping for his final decision.

A piece of paper passes the commander back home

Deng Xiaoping knew Xu Shiyou best. He looked forward and backward, and finally felt that Xu Shiyou was Xu Shiyou after all. There was only one in China, so he gave instructions in the report: handle it accordingly , will not be an example next time.

On the morning of October 26, Wang Zhen, deputy director of the Central Advisory Commission, came to the Nanjing Military Region on the entrustment of Deng Xiaoping and solemnly conveyed Deng Xiaoping’s opinions. He said: "Xu Shiyou made great achievements during his 60-year military career. He was a special person with special character, special experience and special contributions. The special pass signed by Comrade Deng Xiaoping is special and special."

Wang Zhen mentioned seven special things in a row. Who among the Chinese leadership today can have such evaluation and treatment? In view of Deng Xiaoping's high praise of Xu Shiyou, who can give any advice?

On the afternoon of October 31, when party and state leaders bid farewell to the body of Xu Shiyou in Nanjing, the sky that had been cloudless suddenly suddenly changed, with lightning and thunder. After 20 minutes, the sky became cloudless again. sunny. Someone mysteriously said: "God is crying. This is to see off Commander Xu!"

The raw material of the coffin is nanmu harvested in the primeval forests of Guangxi by Commander You Taizhong of the Guangzhou Military Region. . On October 22, the Engineering Machinery Company of the Nanjing Military Region came to the tomb of Xu Shiyou in Xin County, the hometown of Xu Shiyou, and excavated the grave to welcome the old commander’s soul back to his hometown and return to Gaotang.

The news of Xu Shiyou's burial has not been made public. The date of the coffin's return to his hometown is only controlled and planned by a few high-level figures, making Xu Shiyou's funeral even more mysterious, and people are secretly speculating.

At 11 o'clock in the evening on November 7, the officers and soldiers guarding the coffin suddenly received an emergency notice to gear up and set off. Fan Zhilun, the person in charge of escorting the coffin and deputy chief of staff of the Nanjing Military Region, raised his right hand at 0:00 on November 8 and gave a vigorous blow. He waved and whispered an order to the coffin convoy: “Let’s go! ”

In the early morning of November 9, the convoy arrived at Xujiapang, Xinxian County. Since no one was notified in advance, and it was midnight when the convoy arrived, no one greeted them, and everything was done quietly.

When Xu Shiyou's coffin arrived at the cemetery, the engineers and soldiers who had been waiting there were busy. Except for the sound of shovels, the surroundings were surprisingly quiet.

Finally, a hint of fish belly white appeared in the east. As thousands of mountains and ridges were covered with colorful clouds, the grand and secret special funeral was finally completed successfully, and our old commander Comrade Xu Shiyou was finally laid to rest. From then on, the small mountain village like the green stream surrounded by fields described in Tang poetry and Song Dynasty has been added. One scene: The tomb of the hero Xu Shiyou.

The tomb of Xu Shiyou is close to the tomb of his parents, fulfilling his last wish of "fulfilling his filial piety after death". The tomb is located in the green mountains and green trees. At that time, the central government stipulated that no tombstones were allowed to be modified. However, due to the continuous feedback from visitors, Wang Zhen came forward to erect a tall granite stone tablet for Xu Shiyou a year later. The famous painter Fan Zeng wrote seven words in handwriting. Big characters: Tomb of Comrade Xu Shiyou.

People who came to pay their respects in front of the tomb secretly said that there were several "treasures" stored in Xu Shiyou's tomb. This is true and it is also an open secret. In order to express grief, several items were placed in the coffin: the Omega watch Xu Shiyou wore before his death, the semiconductor radio he listened to every day, a bottle of Maotai, a beloved shotgun and one hundred yuan.

Some people say that these funerary objects are amazing! They have special meanings: wine - to strengthen courage; guns - to fight ghosts; money - to buy roads. Wherever Xu Shiyou goes, there will be no obstacles.

5. Cui Mian was extremely filial by nature. His mother was blind, so he spent all his money to seek medical treatment for his mother’s eyes. He served his mother for thirty years and was very respectful and careful; he did not even put his hat on at night. And take off your coat. Whenever there was a festival or a beautiful occasion, he would always support his old mother to attend the banquet, talk and laugh with everyone, and make her forget the pain of blindness. Later, when his mother passed away, Cui Mian was so sad that he vomited blood; he also determined to keep his mother a lifelong vegetarian. He loved his brothers and sisters as much as he loved his mother, and he treated his nephews better than his own children. All the salary he received was distributed to his relatives, and he said: "Since my mother has passed away, I have no way to express my filial piety to my mother. When she was alive, what I missed most were her brother, sister, nephew and nephew." , these four or five people; so I have to treat them well. In doing so, maybe I can comfort my mother’s spirit in heaven! ’ Later, Cui Mianguan became the minister of Zhongshu, and his son Youfu became a wise prime minister. well! A person like Cui Mian is really a true filial son! When my mother was alive, she could do her best to please the old man, and after her death, she could fulfill the old man's wish. However, there are rich and powerful people in the world who treat their brothers and sisters like strangers. "Being mean to your parents and parents-in-law is just like treating ordinary guests. How can you not feel ashamed when you see Cui Mian's filial piety?" Compilation of press induction articles in Hunan and Qing Dynasty