He doesn't like you, he just likes to tease you.
At first glance, wow, yes. I think it's interesting that he invited me to dinner, drink and chat. I think he doesn't call me or send me text messages, which is just a pastime for bad men when they are bored. The imaginary wallflower kissed her head and killed her. The girl's heart almost overflowed. Turns out I'm not romantic. Hum, it's all his fault. She teased me and ran away, but she hung me up without making a promise. I was injured alone. Love rat, love rat and love rat!
What's wrong with this theory? I think the biggest problem is universal. Others say, tease you, others don't talk, play hard to get, tease you. It seems that I am a beautiful Bai Lianhua (does the heroine of domestic drama have a sense of sight? (? ? ? ? )? ), the other is a philandering man who entertains himself when he is lonely.
We want to ask
You didn't really think there was a domestic drama at eight o'clock, did you?
Don't you know the other person's character at all?
Is your role in this interaction just to "cooperate and be angered"?
In a voluntary interaction between the two sides, the other side was all wrong and I was all right. Adrenaline and hormones soar when you are happy, and there are pink bubbles every day. The signature was changed to "Everything is beautiful, I am in the middle" and "The spring breeze is not as good as you". Obviously enjoy it, but twist a head and say that you are passive. It is not an exaggeration to say that this is shirking responsibility.
Being left out in the cold and stood up is understandable, but it is not advisable to shirk it completely. Rational analysis is more important. We should all be a shining girl who takes the initiative by herself.
The sentence "He doesn't like you, he just likes to tease you" obviously puts boys in the position of "teasing" actively. Let's think about it. What are the benefits of teasing people?
1. Grasp the initiative, advance and retreat moderately, and attack and defend moderately. Entering can be ambiguous, and ambiguity is the best time. You can't deny it when you retire. Well, obviously you will misunderstand me. I didn't think about it. Let the little girl scratch her heart instead.
2. Meet physical and psychological needs. In other words, for the big cities in single dog, it is really a bit lonely to eat alone, watch movies alone and sing KTV alone. Zhihu also has a golden sentence:
Scientific Outlook on Development also said that in order to meet the people's growing material and cultural needs, there is a demand that cannot be suppressed, and we must rely on ourselves to have adequate food and clothing. It is not too much to invite single young people, and it is almost necessary to praise them. It is reasonable not to violate public order and good customs, and the initiative to go or not lies in you who are invited and teased.
3. Repeated trial and error. Although we all had that dream when we were children, the only teenager in the world who matched me perfectly and had the same heart came. However, when I get older, I find it difficult to communicate with others. We are just small ordinary people, including all of us, and we can get to the point and fit perfectly. How hard it is.
It is impossible to "bomb" a person into the sky, but we need to find and contact ourselves. What's more, we are confused about work, the world and life. Is it wrong to try more when you are young and protect yourself? Don't rush to determine the relationship, meet more people and experience more things before you can find out what you really want.
4. Stop loss in time. This is a bit rude. I like you, but that's it. This is not uncommon. Boys' sperm went to their brains, while girls were carried away by emotions. Timely stop loss is a reasonable planning and calculation of losses and gains. Since feelings make it angry, you should think about it before jumping.
Since there are so many benefits, why are all boys flirting? And a beautiful girl like us can only be a little white rabbit at the mercy of others?
I refuse to accept it! !
What's wrong with sultry weather? Since everyone has enjoyed it, let's enjoy it. Life is too short to eat, drink and be merry.
Maybe you're good at this. If it is not good, you may accumulate experience. There is a love story that says, "I learned routines, but you are sincere." Without studying and practicing repeatedly, how can knowledge and skills be integrated? How to seize the opportunity by waiting all the time? This is true of books and knowledge, and so is love life. If I fail this time, I can meet other boys in the future. When I really want to meet someone, wouldn't it be nice to meet him in the way of diamond cut diamond?
To say the least, when you meet a wooden fish head in the future, you can be an old driver and take others.
Ta is just one of countless possibilities in your life.
Boys will think so, so can you. In nature, males are always willing to be hunters, and it is happy to be pursued. What if I don't want to be passive forever?
The best hunters always appear as prey.
You don't know if you don't like it today means you don't like it in the future, and you don't know what kind of people you will meet in the future. But why give up the opportunity to learn and practice?
Since you are willing to invest in yourself, you must bear the consequences. We are all persons with full capacity for civil conduct in the sense of civil law. Laugh.
I hope you will always be confident, not afraid of being teased, and dare to make fun of others.
The best relationship is "We are hunters and prey, bows and arrows and daggers, spears and shields".
We in diamond cut diamond are evenly matched.
Recommend Korean and Japanese dramas:
I choose not to get married (Douban)
Lovelorn chocolate worker (douban)