Chapter 1: When the Gesang flower withers, does happiness also wither?

In that season when the Gesang flowers bloomed, you and I met. I cut off all the entanglements and stayed with you, and you stayed with me while missing her. I didn't care at that time, because I believed that time is the best medicine, and she will help you forget her...

With this belief, I walked hand in hand with you throughout the school. corner. Yuanyang Lake, football field, peach and plum garden, etc. I go to class, eat, and go to the library with you every day... I spent two or three months happily like this. Later, the misunderstanding between you and her was solved, just when the Gesang flowers withered. You are struggling and troubled about choosing me or her. But I cry in bed day and night because of your entanglement and your indifference.

In fact, I remember every word you said wherever we walked. Under the pavilion, I squeezed your acne, and you looked into my eyes and said: Your pupils are brown, and they look good under the sunlight; in computer class, I saw your eyes were red, and I asked you if you were passing by. , you said: It's a sleep problem. I won't cry for anyone else except you, but are you willing to do it? Including the personalized signature you said you wrote for me... and the sentence written on the New Year's Day confession wall... I remember them all clearly.

Today, the Gesang flower has withered and your misunderstanding has been solved. Will my happiness wither with the Gesang flower? Chapter 2: I'm not that strong

I can call others to fight when I am bullied, but I long for you to stand up and protect me.

I can endure the pain in my heart, but I hope you can be by my side to comfort me silently.

I can indulge myself and live a life of luxury and luxury, but I hope you can understand that this kind of life is not what I want.

I am not as strong as you think.

I am just a weak woman. I hope you can be by my side no matter where you are.

When I decide to enter the haunted house alone, I hope you can stand next to me, hold my hand, and tell me: I am here.

When I am walking on the road alone, I hope you can find me and stay with me.

I am not as strong as you think.

I am just an ordinary woman, and I also long for a love that will never end, a life-long relationship.

I am just a woman whose appearance is different from others. I also long for you to be by my side when I am suffering from love.

I am just a timid woman. I never want you to say those three words to me: break up.

I am not as strong as you think. I am just used to bearing all the pain alone, but I have forgotten how much courage it takes to be alone. Chapter 3: Feeling Happiness

In the past few days, the temperature has plummeted. The snow yesterday stopped and fell for almost the whole day. Today, the lowest temperature has reached minus 20 degrees. And in my house, look at the thermometer, it's 22 degrees, which is exactly the temperature of spring. In this warm hut, I'm wearing a thin shirt, neither cold nor hot, just right.

Sit on the sofa and look at the blooming flowers. One is bright red and the other is green. They are particularly dazzling in the sun. Turn on Kugou, and the melodious music fills the house with the fragrance like old wine.

Take out the scarf at hand, knit a network of deep love, turn on the computer, write about your mood, filter your impetuous mind, read a book, your heart wanders with the words, and your love ripples with the words. When you are tired, just dance to the music. The last song, either soothing and melodious prairie dance music, or passionate disco music, you can do whatever you want. Although the dance steps are wrong, it is still pleasant to the body and mind, and it is also a good exercise. Or just like yesterday, lean on the chair and cross your arms. On my chest, I leisurely looked at the snowflakes flying outside, rising and falling, fluttering. Such a life is such a luxurious enjoyment. It is freezing and snowy outside, and warm as spring inside. It feels like such a day. Happy!

Think about how many dynasties have changed in this land, and which one has not been full of wars and devastation for five thousand years. How many years can we really have the peace and prosperity, the days of abundant food and clothing?

During the Warring States Period, Qu Yuan was concerned about the country and the people. Seeing the people suffering from hunger and cold, he could not help but "sighed deeply and shed tears, lamenting the hardships of the people's livelihood." In that turbulent era, this tone was deeply patriotic. Who can understand the love and the heart of a pure child, "The road is getting longer and longer, I will search up and down." This was his lofty ideal, but in the end his ideal was shattered, the country was destroyed, the family was destroyed, and the country's pillars were destroyed. , bouldering into the river. Personal destiny is always inextricably linked to that era. If Qu Yuan was in the Tang Dynasty, if Qu Yuan met Ming Jun, his fate would definitely be different.

At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, when the Han Dynasty was in decline and wars were frequent, Cai Wenji, a talented woman of a generation, was born into a famous and scholarly family. She was a lady and could have lived a life of rich clothing and fine food. However, she had a bad fate. First, Being kidnapped by barbarians, life was worse than death, and her flesh and blood were later separated. She cried out to the sky, why didn't he see me drifting alone because God had eyes?

The people who suffer the most from social instability are the seven mournful poems written by Wang Can, one of the Seven Sons of Jian'an, which makes people reluctant to read. "In the abandoned grass, I heard howls and cried, but I couldn't return my tears." What kind of tragic scene is this? How far in life do you have to give up your own flesh and blood? How can this heart-wrenching pain make people feel uncomfortable? What is this? Is this world a hell or a human one?

The Tang Dynasty was a prosperous age, with Zhenguan reigning and the country and the people in peace. However, in just three hundred years, the Anshi Rebellion occurred, and the people were still suffering from the war. The poet Du Fu's poem describes this disaster vividly: "There is a beautiful woman living in a lonely valley, from Yunliang's family, scattered among the grass and trees." If it weren't for the war, how could such a beautiful woman live in the mountains, next to the grass and trees. ? "The war has been going on for three months, and the letters from home are worth thousands of dollars." Destitute and miserable.

If these events are still far away from us, then look at the eight-year war of resistance. The Japanese devils were rampant in our land, burning, killing and looting. Our ancestors, they Our lives have been trampled like grass, with no sense of security, raids, and rebellions. When are we not on tenterhooks, and when are we not frightened?

Our lives are getting better and better, and we have to thank the reform and opening up. It goes without saying that our lives have changed a lot over the past few decades. However, although our material life has improved, our happiness index is not very high, I think. , This may be related to the endless material desires. People with strong material desires will be restless, and happiness will be farther and farther away from people. This is also consistent with Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory. He believes that physiological needs. When needs, safety needs and emotional needs are met, there will be higher-level needs. If they are not met, we will be troubled. However, we have to work hard to realize the higher-level needs ourselves. If you want to achieve this goal, don't fall into the quagmire of material desires, but learn to make turns in life.

For our disaster-ridden motherland, from being hungry and cold in the past to having no worries about food and clothing, the road has been so difficult and bumpy. Such good days are ours. Our ancestors would never have dreamed of it. Don't say that our days are ordinary and dull. It should be noted that the happiness brought by passion will not last long, and plainness is the real thing. Ordinary days are a rare kind of happiness. Such happiness is not ostentatious or showy. She walks towards you quietly and gently, standing beside you quietly, like the faint fragrance of flowers, spreading around you. If you want to see her, you don't use your eyes, but your heart. When you see her beautiful figure, don't be indifferent to her. Say hello to her warmly, hold her hand cordially, and welcome her into the house affectionately. Because it is very shy, if you ignore it, she will sneak away without leaving a trace.

Writer Bi Shumin said it well, happiness needs to be captured. If you want to capture happiness, you must learn to start from the ‘heart’. A compassionate heart will help you learn to love the world; a normal heart will keep you from being too ambitious; a quiet heart will keep you from being distracted by external things; a free heart will keep you free from the shackles of fame and fortune; Contentment keeps you from being at the mercy of desires. Starting from the 'heart' and feeling with your heart, the road of life will become wider and wider, and the taste of life will become sweeter. Starting from the 'heart', happiness will always come to you and never go far again. .