I have to admit that Xu Zhimo is indeed a representative figure of romantic poetry. He can always create a beautiful and romantic scene and atmosphere with simple words, which makes people feel the beauty and sadness of love.
They all say that writing is like a person. The reason why Xu Zhimo can write such romantic words is because Xu Zhimo has been very rich since he was a child. His father Xu Shenru is an industrialist, his uncle Shen Junru, his aunt Jin Yong and his niece Qiong Yao. The whole family has a high literary literacy and a rich life. They have never felt any human suffering, so they have the gene of advocating freedom in their bones.
But in those days, it was difficult to be completely free, especially in emotional marriage. Xu Zhimo finally obeyed his parents' orders and got an arranged marriage.
Zhang Youyi is the wife chosen by his parents, so Xu Zhimo doesn't like her at all, even despises her and thinks she is a bumpkin. Zhang Youyi took care of him wholeheartedly without complaint, and finally fulfilled him and set him free.
I have to say that such a woman is a little sad and a little brave. She saw Xu Zhimo's feelings for Lin and understood that she and Xu Zhimo would not have a future, so she resolutely left.
After the divorce, Xu Zhimo failed to marry Lin and fell in love with Lu Xiaoman. They are all children of rich families. They have never tasted human suffering and do not know how to make money. Life after marriage is not so beautiful, but watching Xu Zhimo make money for Lu Xiaoman, we can feel that love is really a noble thing in Xu Zhimo's heart.
Someone asked, does Xu Zhimo love Lin or Lu Xiaoman more? I think maybe he can't tell himself. I can only say that Xu Zhimo was born to love, so he finally died for love. Only he knows best whether such a life is worth it.
But in any case, from his words left to the world, we can feel the beauty and sadness of love, which is enough.
As ordinary people in the world, we will also experience love and feel happiness and pain. Today, I will share with you five classic sentences by Xu Zhimo. I hope everyone can understand after reading it. Only when you have loved and hurt can you really grow up.
In Xu Zhimo's poems, there is always a feeling of no regrets, which can show us his attitude towards feelings, that is, he doesn't care about eternity, but only cares about having it.
Think about it, everyone had this idea when they were young, and many people even wrote this sentence on their personal signatures on social platforms.
When we were young, we just thought we could try anything, as long as we were in high spirits for a while and didn't think so much about the future.
But with the growth of age, we understand our naivety and understand that stability is what we should pursue most.
Too many feelings around me end like this. One person thinks it's time to be stable, while the other feels that love is good.
I don't know if you have ever encountered such a dilemma. I just want to say that giving each other what you want can make your relationship last longer, and you should strive for what you want.
I hope you have luck to meet the right person, and I hope you can meet happiness.
I have always believed that a person's life is short, and it would be a pity if he didn't love someone crazily. People who understand my mood will probably understand Xu Zhimo's feelings for Lin.
However, we can understand this feeling, but we don't want to encounter too much, because once is enough for that heartbreaking pain.
I have told the story of first love many times in my article. It's a sad feeling to think of it, because in that feeling, I experienced too much beauty and was deeply hurt.
I will never forget the tears I shed for him, and I will never forget all the expressions that people told me were not worth it, but I don't regret it then and now. After all, as Xu Zhimo said, we will love many people in this life, but only this one person will make us laugh the brightest and cry the saddest.
But as an experienced person, I want to tell you that such feelings can be experienced. You don't have to struggle. You are bound to meet someone who won't make you feel so excited, but can make you feel practical and happy. It is enough to join hands with this person for a lifetime and manage your life well.
People will always have regrets in this life. Xu Zhimo's regret is probably Lin. Then who's your regret?
I have met many women who are hurt by feelings. They all ask the same question: "Why am I always hurt?"
Yes, why can't some people always get the happiness they want? I think it's probably because she always wants something that doesn't belong to her, always feels that what she has paid is worth it, and always feels that she deserves to be loved.
Nothing in this world is necessary, especially feelings, so we must treat feelings with the mentality of "I was lucky to lose my life", adjust our mentality and make ourselves strong, because only in this way can we control our life and have our own happiness.
If you're still sorry, that's all right. Everyone, including me, will feel this way. Look ahead. One day, time will heal all wounds.
Xu Zhimo has many poems about feelings, most of which convey a free and easy attitude to us, that is, whether you love me or not has nothing to do with me, and whether you love me or not is my own business.
I have always admired such people, because they are rarely interfered by the outside world, and will not love someone or give up their feelings because of a word from others. A truly powerful person needs such firmness.
Of course, the persistence of feelings also needs to be used in the right place. If the other person really doesn't love you, then you should learn to stop loss in time and stop paying anything for this person and this relationship, otherwise you will have nothing in the end.
As for what has been paid, let it go, don't always ask why, just love, nothing is worth it, these are precious experiences in our life and will become the most precious wealth in your future life.
In Xu Zhimo's poems, there are always many descriptions of artistic conception, and that kind of sad but free and easy emotion can always make people feel the same.
Everyone has had a first love, and in that pure feeling, there will be the shadow of Xu Zhimo's poems. Just like this sentence, when you walk, you will be scattered and your memory will fade. Isn't this how each of us feels when we recall our first love?
That relationship is the most beautiful but regrettable existence in everyone's heart, because we met the person who wanted to protect our life most at the age when we were least able to fulfill our promises for each other, and we were ignorant of love and hurt each other again and again.
In fact, if you think about it, if you meet that person in the future, there may be a future, but life is like this. The order of appearance determines the final result, and no one can control it.
However, I hope that all those who have experienced it will not regret it, because this is fate. The people who miss are destined to be passers-by in our lives, and the right people will still meet.
Cherish the people in front of us, and we can protect our best happiness.
Xu Zhimo touched us too much and made us think a lot. No one knows what kind of feelings are right. I think what suits me is the best.
I hope everyone will grow up in reading, love and injury, face joys and sorrows in a mature way, choose love and not love rationally, make love his armor, and make happiness more practical and longer.