Whether you are Luwei, Peter Pan, ikun or my current girlfriend, I can only call you "star chasing girl". I want to write this letter to you because a lot of things have happened recently, I have seen a lot of comments about you, and also because I am also one of the star-chasing girls. After understanding the reasons behind many recent events, I would like to share my thoughts with you.
Chasing stars is a happy thing. If you like your idol, you must have seen him at his best. It might be the superb looks, the explosive stage performance, or the sacrificial acting skills. In short, chasing stars is chasing beauty. What you love is the beauty. It is a beam of light that illuminates you and the direction of your future.
I completely agree with chasing stars. I think it’s cute that you follow the beautiful things with your heart.
However, this was not my original intention in writing this letter. What I want to tell you is that while I have also joined the ranks of star-chasing girls, I have heard more and more criticisms about "star-chasing girls" and the "rice circle". They said, there are too many fans. They say that the fandom is a large-scale PUA scandal. They said, "I don't care about your brother, I just want to talk nicely"
Why do our self-entertaining star-chasing actions attract more and more criticism?
I read all the relevant articles I could find and realized that maybe there was something wrong with our star-chasing behavior. In response to these issues, I would like to put forward the following suggestions. I hope you will read them patiently. If you agree, I hope you can help forward it. Starting from everyone, we must change those "fandom thinking" that deviate from our original intention of chasing stars, cause disgust and criticism from passers-by, and may in turn hurt our idols. Let chasing stars become something that makes you better and makes our world better.
Everyone is a unique individual. Everyone has multiple identities. We are fans, students, doctors, teachers, civil servants; children of our parents, wives of husbands, parents of children; and citizens of the Republic of China. Everyone has his or her own mission in life. In this process, we need the guidance of our idols, but at the same time, we also need to build our own lives bit by bit. We also need to fulfill the responsibilities brought by other identities seriously.
If you are a student, I hope you study hard. If you have graduated, I hope you will work well. Chase stars without affecting your studies and career. Only when you live a good life can you have more energy to chase stars and have greater strength to protect your idols.