The "hard" mentioned here is a kind of self-demand and constraint. Some women feel that if they already have a boyfriend or are married, they don't need self-discipline and self-demand. This idea is wrong.

If you want to attract men continuously, you must first become a high-quality woman. Only when you become better can he forget you and be fascinated by you all the time. This requires you to be hard on yourself, whether external or internal, and maintain your unique charm, so he will naturally be inseparable from you.

In love, if you want a man to be fascinated by you, you need to be cruel.

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In appearance, be strict with yourself

Some women always say, "I'm married anyway, I already have a boyfriend anyway, and he doesn't dislike me." Why should I dress myself up? "

But is this really the case? When a woman gets married and has a date, does she no longer need to dress herself up? No, emphasizing appearance is not necessarily to please others, but more to please yourself.

When you put on your favorite clothes and make up carefully every day, you will feel refreshed and happy when you see it. Men will naturally feel good when they see you so beautiful.

Don't always think that he looks at me like this every day, and I don't need to dress up. He knows who I am, that's true, but a woman who knows how to be strict with herself and dress beautifully will definitely make men more fascinated. Such a woman will also give each other a sense of freshness and surprise him forever.

Some people find it troublesome to dress up. What I'm talking about here is to be strict with yourself in appearance, which is nothing more than making you pay attention to dressing up, clean and refreshing, rather than making you wear heavy makeup and spend a lot of time on appearance every day.

Be hard on yourself. Don't give up dressing up just because you are lazy. No matter how tight the time is, remember to change clothes every day, put on a light makeup and walk up to him indifferently.

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In life, ask yourself to be independent

Everyone is lazy and likes to rely on others, especially when you have a husband or boyfriend, you have reason to rely on him.

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Emotionally, remain single-minded

Some women are emotionally involved, or maybe she will have an affair with other men while falling in love with you. Such a woman will naturally not be loved.

Perhaps in the case that the other party did not find out, the two people had a good relationship. Once the other party finds out, it will naturally not tolerate your ambiguity. If you keep losing your relationship with other members of the opposite sex, he won't stay with you.

Don't think that you can do whatever you want just because a man loves you. In fact, everyone is responsible for their own feelings. If you really love him, don't do this, but in this relationship, a person is good to him.

In this regard, we must also make up our minds. Since you have chosen this person, you should attach great importance to this feeling, not one mountain is high and one mountain is low. In the end, you may not get a good result for both sides.

If a woman can remain single-minded in her feelings, it is certain that she really loves you and will refuse to contact other members of the opposite sex for you. She just wants you to be the only one in this relationship.

If a woman values feelings and cherishes your meeting, you should cherish her, too.

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Women who can fascinate men usually have some excellent qualities, such as having requirements for themselves in appearance, being independent in career and being single-minded in feelings.

If you want to be cherished, you should be hard on yourself and be strict with yourself, instead of being passive and indifferent to everything, so that you will not be loved.

Don't always complain about why you are not loved. Think about whether you are good enough. A good partner is attractive. Hello, the other party will naturally be more inseparable from you.

There is a saying: "Good love will bring positive energy to yourself, not only for the other person to change, but more importantly, to become a better self, so work hard and struggle. Even if one day love disappears, you will thank the person who made you better. "

Before you love others, learn to love yourself and be cruel and self-disciplined, and you will get more than you think.