I have been chased by female fans who are 14 years younger than myself for many years.

After eating the fruit, I didn't expect my wife to be so rude suddenly.

After giving birth to his daughter, he decided to divorce.

Despite Geng's pleading, I hope to save this relationship for my daughter.

I didn't expect to be ruthlessly rejected by my wife.

Today's Geng, although out of that reluctant marriage,

But the pain in his heart kept him from letting go.

Also publicly stated:

"Never marry a fan."

Geng stood out from many artists with excellent works when he was young.

Gradually known to everyone,

He often appears on CCTV programs.

He also served as a judge in the CCTV program "More Frustrated and More Brave".

His fair and just attitude after the program was broadcast,

It has been well received by the audience.

It is this excellent quality,

I was chased by my ex-wife Jia Zheng for so many years in my early years.

The reason is closely related to the family environment where he grew up.

Geng, 1970, was born in Zibo.

Both parents were enterprise cadres, and the family environment was relatively rich at that time.

Besides him, there are three children at home.

He is the youngest and the most worrying to his parents.

Geng was naughty and active since he was a child. Although he often gets into trouble,

But he will control himself,

Although he is very young, he is as clever as his brother and sister.

Even sometimes adults can let him in,

But this kind of cleverness has never been used in study.

When I was 5 years old, my parents were transferred because of work.

The whole family moved to Jiangsu, and things outside made him feel fresh.

Let him have sex, and it's out of control ever since.

My parents watched my brothers and sisters go to college one by one.

Geng's performance is a different story.

I can't say how bad it was, but at that time, it was definitely hopeless to enter the university.

In addition, Geng himself lost interest in learning.

On the contrary, he turned to music.

But at that time, how can we cultivate children's hobbies?

Most adults don't support singing and dancing.

But Geng doesn't think so. Because of his poor study, he concentrated on practicing songs.

Parents are also very helpless about his behavior.

Whether it's well-intentioned persuasion or a combination of sticks,

Geng Huawei always sticks to his own opinion,

Concentrate on the music.

For the dream of music, Geng Huawei can be said to be "possessed"

No matter where you are, you should hum two songs and read music books when you are free.

The room is full of photo albums and related posters.

Seeing Geng Huawei go further and further on the road of learning,

His parents gradually gave up their discipline.

In order for Geng to make a living by himself in the future,

So my father immediately decided to retire early.

Let Geng Huawei take his place,

Thinking that at least you can learn a trade.

What parents didn't expect was that,

Geng Huawei resigned soon after he started working.

The reason is beyond the comprehension of the old couple.

Just to go to Shanghai Conservatory of Music to buy a music textbook.

When my father found out, he couldn't wait to have this son.

Fortunately, with my mother's persuasion,

Geng was only beaten, and the matter was forgotten.

Geng Huawei didn't say much about these behaviors of his parents.

Because he understands his parents and does it for his own good,

So Geng often buries his inner thoughts in his heart.

Never show it in front of your parents.

At his insistence, he finally got his wish and came to Shanghai.

At that time, Geng only had 500 yuan,

There is money for books in it.

I just bought a book and happened to meet a teacher who changed my fate.

When the teacher learned about his situation,

His love for music deeply touched the teacher.

Immediately decided to teach him for free,

Determined to help Geng Huawei realize his musical dream.

Geng couldn't believe how lucky he was.

So I stayed in Shanghai as soon as my brain got hot.

But the problem also follows,

Geng didn't have much money and spent nearly half on books.

He can only choose between going home and continuing his studies.

When these two roads are in front of Geng,

He decided to stay and continue his studies without hesitation.

His parents thought that he had found a job in Shanghai.

I left him alone, and Geng was afraid to tell his parents these things.

I can only sleep on the floor of the Conservatory of Music every night.

If you can't eat rice, you can't eat it. It's really unbearable.

Keep the meals within 3 yuan at most.

The teacher who taught him knew nothing about it,

I thought he was just a child who came to Shanghai to study.

Because he often doesn't eat, Geng Huawei often "sleeps" on his desk during class.

This made the teacher very disappointed with him and asked him if he still wanted to learn.

Geng Huawei was about to speak when he collapsed on the table.

At this time, Teacher Geng also noticed that something was wrong.

After going forward to check, I found that this was not sleeping, but I obviously fainted.

So I immediately took him to check.

Finally, I realized that it was hypoglycemia caused by not eating for a long time.

Under the teacher's repeated questioning, Geng Huawei told the truth.

The teacher was shocked by his spirit,

He didn't expect any students,

Dare to work so hard for your dream.

Then the teacher invited him to have dinner at home.

And told him that he could go home for dinner every day in the future.

In this way, back and forth for a year and a half,

Under the careful guidance of the teacher, Geng's singing has made great progress.

Through continuous efforts and the help of teachers,

Finally, he joined the army and became a literary and art soldier.

However, contrary to expectations, the performance team, which was just established less than two years ago, suddenly announced its dissolution.

But Geng was not discouraged,

With this experience, I am more hopeful about the future.

Geng's efforts were undoubtedly not in vain.

Maybe it's a gift from heaven,

The following year, by chance, Geng was admitted to the Song and Dance Troupe of Nanjing Military Region.

Because of my previous acting experience,

In the chorus, Geng was recognized by the judges and teachers.

But he found himself,

Compared with the song and dance troupe I have seen before, it is a world of difference.

There are so many talents here that he is a drop in the ocean.

Floating in the wind, the knowledge I have worked so hard to learn can only be regarded as fur here.

Therefore, Geng is determined to keep up with everyone.

Prove to your parents that the music you love is not idle.

With this belief, Geng has little leisure time.

Either practice singing on the stage, or stay behind all night looking for melody and reciting lyrics.

After Hard Work, Geng Huawei was at 199 1

I set foot on the journey again and went to Beijing alone to apply for the Second Artillery Art Troupe.

He didn't expect everything to go so smoothly.

With excellent singing skills, Geng was successfully admitted.

Became a soloist in the art troupe,

Since then, Geng has embarked on the road to success.

Even boarded the Spring Festival Evening.

This makes Geng's name a household name.

Through the Spring Festival Evening, many people were deeply attracted by his graceful and graceful singing.

And in those days, few people sang folk songs.

Even if there is, there is no one who looks like Geng.

In this way, with handsome appearance and beautiful voice,

Geng became the idol of many girls at that time.

Jia Zheng is one of them.

Her obsession with Geng is almost crazy.

1998, Geng Laian performed.

As it happens, Zheng's military medical university is not far from the performance site.

After learning the news, he rushed to the scene to "worship idols"

I met an idol who missed me day and night.

After the performance, she got up the courage to find Geng's signature.

Seeing that the idol was about to leave, Jia Zheng asked for an address exchange again.

Geng saw that this girl 14 years younger than him was so sincere.

I agreed to her request without much thought.

Maybe Geng never thought of this,

This is such an ordinary fan meeting.

It will make him form a relationship with fans in the future.

I didn't expect this female fan to "hurt" him so much.

At that time, the telephone was not popular,

Writing letters to communicate has become the choice of most people.

After the performance, Geng, who returned home two months ago, received a lot of letters.

But one of them caught Geng's attention.

This letter is *** 1 1 piece of paper, written in fine print with a brush.

After seeing Jia Zheng's signature,

Geng's mind immediately saw the figure of the little girl.

Seeing these loving words,

Geng didn't know what to do,

After all, he and Jia Zheng only met once.

And with such a big age gap,

Geng thinks that we should not delay the girl's future.

So I chose to ignore this letter,

He understands this psychology of pursuing love,

He once had a relationship.

At that time, a girl who was in the troupe with him developed feelings.

During the period of their dating, their relationship has been very good.

But then the girl was transferred to the TV station.

Since then, the contact between the two has also decreased.

The two men understood each other's meaning by coincidence,

So the relationship between the two ended in a hurry.

At that time, in order to forget her, Geng,

I put all my energy into my career,

It was several years before I completely let go of my feelings for that girl.

This experience made Geng afraid to touch a new relationship easily.

So, at the age of 30, he is still single.

Jia Zheng's sudden confession,

This really caught Geng off guard,

It never occurred to him that he would find a partner so much younger than him.

What's more, my career is booming now.

For such a young girl, her understanding of feelings is still immature.

Maybe it's just a temporary fever.

After Geng Huawei figured it out, he decided not to study.

But the result was not quite what he thought,

Even if you don't read it yourself, you won't answer Jia Zheng's letter.

But Jia Zheng still insists on writing to him every day.

This is a headache for Geng, and it is not the way to ignore it all the time.

Just when he wanted to write back,

The phone at home rang, and when he answered curiously,

Jia Zheng's voice rang out from the other end of the phone.

It turned out that Jia Zheng thought she had written so many letters.

When I saw my idol not coming back, I thought I had sent it to the wrong address.

So I ran to the public phone booth outside the school.

Call Geng to confirm whether the idol has received his letter.

Geng was helpless and told her that these letters were at home.

In order not to hurt the girl's heart, he said that he was too busy to read one book after another when he had time.

I also explicitly told her not to write to herself in the future.

But Jia Zheng doesn't seem to care whether he has read the letter or not.

Instead, I talked to Geng.

The content of the chat is also very different from that in the letter.

This gave Geng an illusion at that time.

I don't think these confessions were written by Jia Zheng.

The girl said on the phone,

It's all about positive and optimistic life,

More like friends for years.

In this way, whenever Geng takes a break,

Everyone can get a call from Jia Zheng, and slowly, this kind of communication behavior has escalated.

From telephone communication, it has become a "net friend meeting"

With Geng's consent,

Jia Zheng spent the next two years,

I go to Beijing from Xi 'an almost every other month.

In order to chat with Geng.

Geng is also embarrassed to refuse fans from afar.

So I always take Jia Zheng to dinner and talk about their recent situation.

But every time we meet, Geng will deliberately keep his distance.

Whenever we talk about emotional problems,

Geng will cleverly avoid it,

After dinner, I will also find an excuse to leave.

I thought it would make Jia Zheng give up.

I didn't expect Jia Zheng to be so persistent.

Her behavior lasted for two years.

This made Geng feel bad,

At this rate, something will go wrong sooner or later.

So Geng immediately decided to completely let Jia Zheng "give up"

When they met again, Geng spoke his mind.

Make it clear that they are too different in age to be together.

Advise her to find another true love quickly, and don't delay her good years because of herself.

But Jia Zheng disagreed,

Also told him that as long as you really love each other, age is not a problem at all.

This is what Geng never thought.

At first, he thought his rude feelings would make Jia Zheng give up.

I didn't expect to get her insistence.

In addition, Jia Zheng came to Beijing more frequently.

Once a month in the past, once every half a month now,

In order to avoid meeting Jia Zheng,

Geng began to deliberately decline.

But directly found the community where Geng is located.

Every time I come to Beijing, I will wait for him directly at the gate of the community.

Geng Huawei has no sympathy,

Never showed up from beginning to end.

Once, it rained heavily in Beijing.

Jia Zheng didn't know it, but when she walked out of the station, she ran to the front of Geng's community in the rain.

Wait as usual, but it rained this time.

After Geng asked the security guard about the situation,

I can't bear it, let the security guard make an excuse to say that he is not at home.

I thought it would bring Jia Zheng back,

Unexpectedly, Jia Zheng still stood alone in the rain waiting.

The lonely figure is doubly desolate.

Seeing it raining harder and harder,

The security guard softened his attitude and told Jia Zheng everything.

The moment I learned the truth,

Jia Zheng's heart is like a rainstorm in Beijing.

Become ruthless.

She gave up,

After returning home, I wrote the last letter to Geng.

She said she had put it down and would never bother you again.

Some things, you don't know how important they are until you lose them.

So is Geng,

After reading the letter, Geng Huawei had a strange feeling in his heart.

There are disappointments and regrets.

He doesn't know whether this means that he has fallen in love with Jia Zheng.

But he was sure he didn't want to lose her.

After reading the letter, Geng Huawei contacted Jia Zheng for the first time.

He admitted it,

Just say that he wants to marry Jia Zheng.

Jia Zheng, who has let go,

I was speechless at that time.

She doesn't know how to choose.

After a period of silence,

Jia Zheng asked:

Geng Huawei gave her an exciting answer:

Jia Zheng did not hesitate,

After packing up and coming to Beijing,

A few days later, the two ran to the registration office to get the certificate.

The relationship between the two finally came to an end.

After the marriage, Geng told their love story in the program.

He also said that Jia Zheng's parents did not agree at first.

After all, who can accept that his daughter marries a man who beats himself at the age of 14?

And she's married far away. What if my daughter is bullied?

At that time, it was even more important. To reassure my parents-in-law,

I took Jia Zheng home.

This is Geng's first visit to his wife's house.

As soon as he got home, he took the initiative to cook.

During my five days in my father-in-law's house, I was almost cooking.

He also won the recognition of two old people with his cooking skills.

After ten years of marriage, Geng Huawei contracted the task of cooking.

In life, Geng can be said to be spoiled.

He is the first person to do all the dirty work.

Especially after they have a daughter,

Geng Huawei became more diligent,

Sometimes I even leave work and stay at home with my wife and daughter.

Life is not destined to be so smooth,

This is especially true for couples with an age difference of 14 years.

Because they grew up in different environments,

There is naturally a big gap in consumption concepts.

Compared with Geng's frugality,

Jia Zheng's consumption will be very extravagant.

Almost every time they quarrel, it is because of Jia Zheng's consumption problem.

Sometimes two angry people even ask for a divorce.

Many times, Geng also took this sentence as angry words.

But he never imagined that the last two would really come to this step of divorce.

20 15, Geng announced the news to the outside world.

The specific reasons have not been revealed to the outside world too much.

But reading between the lines, we can understand that all this is due to Jia Zheng's persistence.

Just like when she insisted on chasing Geng for two years, her attitude was very firm.

In order to give my daughter a complete family,

Geng made a lot of efforts for this relationship.

Trying to save Jia Zheng,

But Jia Zheng is too rude.

Geng finally chose to let go,

The child was also awarded to Geng,

On the day of their divorce, he shut himself in his room.

But what he didn't know was that his daughter cried alone outside his door for a long time.

When Geng opened the door and saw her daughter, the last line of defense in her heart also collapsed.

Picked up her daughter and burst into tears.

Father and daughter comfort each other,

Get out of the saddest day.

When Geng was asked again if he would consider rebuilding his family,

His answer is:

It can be seen that he has not fully come out, just pretending to be strong in front of the children.

To outsiders, I thought their beautiful love story would make them grow old together.

I didn't expect this to end.

Geng, who is over 50 years old now, has never talked about new love.

What he can do now is to take good care of his daughter and parents.

The second is career.

In life, he is a good man and a respectable father.

On the stage, he is still the artist who sings beautifully and is full of stories.

I only hope that Geng can get out of her sadness. Although it is difficult, life will continue.

With a daughter to rely on, we must firmly believe,

The rest of my life will only get better and better.