When women are over fifty, most of them have retired and will think about future pension issues. The idea of ??"raising children to provide for old age" is outdated. Most of our generation are just one child. It is really beyond our ability to count on children. We still have to rely on ourselves for old age. It is better to truly let go of the children from the bottom of our hearts, let them live their own lives, and let ourselves truly enjoy life.
Instead of relying on raising children to provide for old age, a woman over fifty should equip herself with three skills, and she will be happier and happier for the rest of her life.
A 50-year-old woman should know that having a healthy body is the capital and cornerstone of happiness for the rest of her life. Stop blindly sacrificing yourself for your family and children, and learn to love yourself appropriately. Don't think that if you devote yourself to health regardless of your health now, your family will treat you wholeheartedly in the future. Your family's good treatment of you is also based on your health. If your health is not good, wouldn't it affect them? Over time, it is impossible to expect them to serve you unwaveringly. By then, you will feel Not comfortable.
As a 50-year-old woman, instead of not paying attention to physical efforts, it is better to exercise well from now on and make yourself healthy and do what you can for your family. Place your hopes for future retirement on yourself, so that when you are old, you will be healthy and able to eat and move, which is much better than being sick and waiting for your children to take care of you.
Life in old age without good health is very painful. No one can replace your own body's illness. Therefore, instead of expecting to raise children to prevent old age, a 50-year-old woman should exercise her body well so that she can grow old healthily. This is her own blessing and the blessing of her children.
Today’s elderly people are particularly dedicated. When their children grow up and get married, they use all the money they have saved throughout their lives to buy houses and cars for their children, thinking that this way their children will not have to worry so much. After working hard, I am counting on my children for my future pension.
For the elderly who do not leave any pension money for themselves, when they really need the money in their old age, their children may not be able to provide it. Because they are used to your efforts, they think you have it. When the time comes, when you need a large amount of money for hospitalization, they don’t have it, and neither do you. But what will you do?
It is better to support your children within your own ability and leave some pension money for yourself, so that your children will still have the motivation to fight for their own lives, and you will have money in your pocket and not panic.
It is not a bad thing for a 50-year-old woman to learn to be moderately "selfish". It is to prepare herself for the future. You must take good care of your "three treasures": your hometown, your boss, and your wife. Don't feel that you are sorry for your children. Other people's parents have prepared everything for their children, but you still have to let your children work hard on their own. Don't be afraid that they will suffer and give them all your savings.
A 50-year-old woman should have her own interests and hobbies, and should not pin her happiness on her children. This will not only disappoint her, but also make her children feel stressed and burdened.
The pressure to survive in today's society is too great. Children have to fight for their own lives. It is impossible to answer your phone calls anytime and anywhere, and it is impossible to have time to listen to your constant complaints on the other end of the phone about their parents' shortcomings. Rather than pin your happiness on them, it's better to find some fun for yourself.
A 50-year-old woman has her own interests and hobbies. Not only is she happy, her children are also at ease. I really appreciate what a sister does. She is 56 years old and has been retired for several years. She practices Tai Chi with her teammates in the square in the morning, cleans her room when she comes back, takes writing courses online in the morning, goes to a yoga studio to practice in the afternoon, and spends the evening with her. My wife goes for a walk. Her daughter and husband want to travel with her, but it depends on her schedule.
A 50-year-old woman has her own interests and hobbies. Not only does she not disturb the lives of her children, she can also make the rest of her life more exciting and beautiful. Even if you are old and can't go anywhere, you still have your own spiritual home, your heart is full and full, and you won't feel lonely in your heart.
A 50-year-old woman may sound old, but she actually looks young. It’s time to prepare for her future retirement. Regardless of whether your children are filial or not, they must actively exercise and have a healthy body. You will not suffer any sins and your children will enjoy happiness. You can support your children appropriately within your ability, but you must also learn to be "selfish" and leave some money for yourself. After all, money, after all, who has less money than having a solid pocket? Guard your "three treasures" and cultivate your own interests and hobbies, so that when you reach old age, you will not only have material support but also your own spiritual support.
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