There are many things that cannot be changed, such as the beginning of our life, which is the starting point of our life and the basic point of all our development. No matter how much you achieve in the future and how far you go, we can't do without this last beginning. Some people may say that man can conquer nature and his fate is in his own hands. Of course, you have countless choices to make your destiny better, but all your changes are made at this point, so I will compare them.
If you ask me what kind of reality I gave in to, I learned to face the reality of family poverty at a very young age. Let me tell you what my home is like. I was born in the 1980s and live in a border town in the northeast. This is not the countryside, but it is not rich, even poorer than the countryside. There are abundant coal mines, and my father is a miner. At that time, when my father was the poorest, his salary was four or five hundred a month. But I was really like that when I was young. My mother is very clever and can make shoes. The shoes I wore before junior high school were basically made by my mother, and my father was also very good. He can get a haircut. He has a hand-operated scissors. In order to save us money to go to the barber shop for a haircut, he cut our hair himself. His hair is particularly distinctive, like a teapot lid, a bit like chestnut head today, but my father's level is not good.
Later, I became particularly inferior. I have always felt that being poor at home is looked down upon. Other students will use that kind of aluminum square lunch box when they bring their meals at noon. How I want a lunch box like that. However, my mother always brings me rice and vegetables with an enamel tea urn.
This reality slowly convinced me. I admit that I am a child of a poor family. So far, I have not been able to go against the sky. I still haven't made my child a rich second generation.