1. For everything, you must first find the reason for yourself, and don’t always ask for help from others. Your shoes are dirty because the path you walk on is not clean.

2. First-class passengers can board the plane first, bank VIPs do not have to queue up, and the most expensive seats at concerts are also the best. The world is never equal, and you will be special no matter how hard you work.

3. Everyone has some unacceptable parts in their character, no matter how beautiful a person is. So don't be harsh on others, and don't blame yourself.

4. If you can solve things with your own money, try not to use favors. One day you will know that favors are much more valuable than money!

5. True love is like a ghost. Many people have heard of it but few have met it. In this world, the only people who will not betray you are your parents and the money in your pocket.

6. When we were children, we were Sun Wukong: naughty and noisy. When we were young, we were like Zhu Bajie: we dare to love and hate. In our prime, we are like Monk Sha: hard-working, honest and loyal. When we are old, we are like Monk Tang: verbose and troublesome.

7. Remember this sentence: You must have the strength to defend something like dignity, otherwise, you will have to suffer for saving face.

8. If a person cannot control his own emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later!

9. The better others do, the easier it is for you to get out. So many times, you should be grateful to those who don't care about you. There is nothing more sad than a heart-broken heart, and nothing more fortunate than a complete death.

10. Treating a person with all your heart and soul will either make you a lifelong confidant or give you a lifelong lesson.

11. The three keys to life: accept, change, and leave. If you can't accept it, change it; if you can't change it, leave it.

12. There are two things that you should do as little as possible. One is to interfere with other people's lives with your own words, and the other is to rely on other people's brains to think about your own life.

13. Life is just like looking for sugar in the glass slag. It may be sweet or fishy.

14. Some things can be changed without hard work. Just like a fifty yuan RMB is beautifully designed, but it is not as attractive as a hundred yuan RMB.

15. Don’t feed a dog too much, and people can’t be too nice to him! Forbearance can push the envelope even further, and take a step back to make the situation worse. Don't joke too much, otherwise it will be a disaster.

16. If you are not good enough, connections are worthless. They are not pursued but attracted. Only with equal exchange can we get reasonable help - although it sounds cold, it is true.

17. The older you get, the more unbearable you will find in social interactions. Therefore, it is never wrong to master a survival skill and seriously develop a hobby of solitude.

18. If you have power, your ears are filled with sweet words; if you have no money or power, you are surrounded by perfunctory prevarications. Just listen to other people's sweet words; just smile at other people's flattery.

Nineteen, no matter how crooked Cao Cao is, he always has close friends, and no matter how good Liu Bei is, he always has a mortal enemy. Don't care too much about other people's evaluation of you, be yourself, do your own thing well, and follow your own path. Living in the eyes of others is the saddest thing in the world.

20. Some things just don’t deserve to be forgiven. It has nothing to do with generosity. Everyone has their own bottom line. If you make a mistake, you should consider paying the price for your mistake.

21. The right position in life is neither close to money nor close to power, but close to the soul; true happiness is neither rich nor right, but has a clear conscience.

22. Most of the time, it is not work that consumes your energy, but the people you meet at work. The work itself is not tiring, balancing emotions is the most tiring.

23. The more effort you put into pleasing someone, the more likely that person will make you feel heartbroken. Expectation is the root of all heartache. If the heart does not move, there will be no pain.

24. When fate wants you to grow up, it will always arrange some unpleasant people or things to stimulate you.

This is the rule.

Twenty-five. There is nothing to complain about. Every step today is to pay for every previous choice. This is also called responsibility. There is nothing to complain about. Every step today is to pay for every choice made before. Planning for every success in the future is also called precipitation.

26. People who like to make irresponsible remarks and make up stories behind your back have three reasons: they are not at your level, they don’t have what you have, and they are trying to imitate your lifestyle. Why care!

27. If you have more patience, you will have fewer regrets. Fewer falling outs will lead to more steps. The more times you can't hear it, the less times you'll be bothered. The less harsh words you say, the more leeway you can have, and the more leeway you can have in being a human being, so that we can meet each other easily in the future.