Dear, I'm glad you have these virtues! From the boy's point of view, the kindness and understanding of girls represent gentleness, thoughtfulness, understanding and tolerance, which are the characteristics of many men's dream lovers, even more attractive to boys than their face value and figure. If boys really like you, you think the small shortcoming of inferiority can be ignored. In his eyes, even the shortcomings are lovely. This is the so-called beauty is in the eye of the beholder!