2. I ask myself every day, if I meet those smart people again, do I have a matching weight?
The fewer people you know, the better. Don't get involved in circles that don't suit you. One or two confidants are enough. Hold your horses. Don't flatter anyone. Other people's miracles have nothing to do with you. Don't pursue what you can't get. Never ignore what makes you angry.
When there is no road, fate must encourage you to fly upwards.
If you can't squeeze into this world, don't squeeze hard, embarrass others and humiliate yourself! Throw away what you can't keep, or you may bounce back when you touch something!
6. If you decide to give up, please give up cleanly. Those who decided never to meet again really didn't. Please don't make me betray myself again. If you want to love others, please love yourself first.
7. Eat with like-minded people and live with people who know you.
8. Most of the troubles come from ourselves or each of us, that is to say, we hate "troubles" very much, and we are used to "asking for trouble".
No matter how unhappy you are, we all have the responsibility to eat well, sleep well and dress well first. A lot of troubles, in fact, are nothing serious, but you are in that situation, that mood, much ado about nothing.
10. If you love someone, you must tell him, not to ask him to repay you, but to remind him that in the dark days, when he denies himself, there are still people in the world who love him so much. He's not worthless.
1 1. As the saying goes, "goodness wins and temper dies". Yes, you can't hang your temper on your face every day, but you hide it too deep and no one will take you seriously! A person who never turns his face, others will only push his nose and face!
12. When you persuade people, you always think thoroughly, look down on the world of mortals and let go. When we bear the pain of others, we are all extremely strong. People seem to be like this: dealing with other people's affairs is always drastic, grasping the main problems, but it is their turn to immerse themselves in the details and refuse to let go.
13. Drink if you have wine, and love if you have love. Life is so short, it really passes after a few times of restraint. -Xu
14. I tried to live like others before, but I was scarred in the end. Later, I became myself and lived the life I wanted, only to find that this kind of life is really cool.
15. People's biggest opponent is often not others, but their own laziness. Don't count on luck. Luck can't be with you forever. You have to rely on your own ability to eat at any time. You must do your best to qualify as unlucky.
16. You always like to put things off until the next day. You can't always procrastinate like this. One day, you will have a lot to do, and the rest of your life will not be enough for you.
17. If you remember something wrong, turn back. If you love something wrong, let go. Pretend to be invulnerable, and be prepared to be pierced by a thousand arrows.
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19. When life sets many obstacles for you, stick to it for a while. Every time you bite your teeth, you will find that everything you want is in your hands, and everything you want to lose is left behind.
20. Cherish those who are really kind to you, and don't let them gradually disappear from your life. No matter love or friendship, if you don't manage it, you will become a stranger.
2 1. People's first instinct is often right, but they habitually love to do so. The east changed to the west, and finally it was unrecognizable. Because after you neutralize too many other people's ideas, you tend to be less and less like you. Adhering to one's own aesthetics is a kind of courage and ability.
22. Pretend to be decadent, don't be fooled.
To be honest, I never feel that the relationship between friends needs to be maintained deliberately. It is best to get along most comfortably. There is no need to beat around the bush, and there is nothing fancy.
Generally speaking, a person's enthusiasm for communication with others is directly proportional to his mediocrity of intelligence and poverty of thought. People in this world either choose loneliness or vulgarity. There is no other choice. -Schopenhauer