"Whether you are loved by thousands of people or you walk alone." This is a passage I wrote on my QQ signature. At that time, I occasionally read books and saw such a sentence. I thought it was very suitable for me and wrote it on it. In the QQ signature, I don’t know how many years it has been used! When I used this sentence, I was getting divorced. At that time, I was just a 25-year-old girl. I had always been arrogant in my relationship, but I didn't know that my husband had cheated on me when I was pregnant. I felt conflicted and painful inside. The paradox is that I love him very much. When I first married him, he had nothing, but I don't mind. I think I can work hard to create with him without bread, as long as we have love. It's a pity, it's a pity, this is all my own unilateral thinking. When I was pregnant, he hooked up with someone else, and the relationship lasted for two years. It wasn't until the other person sent me his nude photos that I woke up from a dream. .

I feel very distressed. I can finally understand how tormented those who say they forgive their husbands feel. Frankly speaking, I have thought about forgiving him. After all, my child is young, and my in-laws and father-in-law are also very good to me. The relationship between our two families is very good. It seems that he has no other bad things except cheating. But when I calmed down and talked to him, he said: "I am with someone else because I don't love you. I am only sorry for you." When he said this, I no longer felt sorry for you. I miss this marriage.

Of course, people outside will always say: "Why the divorce?" "He is very good!" "That man doesn't cheat?". After listening to this, I just want to say, I'm sorry, my love does not require charity or sympathy. What's wrong with being alone? We have to face loneliness after all. After all, we have to face the road of life by ourselves. He is just a partner in my life, just another partner after I leave the company of my parents. ! If I continue, I will be wronged not only by myself, but also by my marriage and my concept of love. I don’t know how such a distorted concept will affect my children, or I will become self-pitying, or Will I become grumpy and my child will become unloved and distorted? No, I won't let these things happen.

When the nude photos were sent to my mobile phone, I spent a night to calm down my mood. It would be a lie to say that I was not sad. It was more about how I thought about how I would live in the future and how I would face rumors. , how to educate my children well. When I thought about this, I quietly took out my mobile phone to search for the documents needed for divorce, edited the information and gave it to him, and then kissed my sleeping child on the face to officially bid farewell to this marriage.

Divorce is really not scary. What is scary is other people’s mouths and other people’s eyes. But instead of being afraid of these, it is better to stand up bravely. My parents are quite in favor of my divorce. After Chen Sicheng cheated on me, Tong Liya’s father was said to be a straight man with cancer. I thought, thank my parents for supporting every decision I made, so that I would not get divorced. It's like doing something really bad. My father said to me: "Of course I hope you have a happy marriage, but if he abandons you, the first thing I will think of is that my daughter should not be wronged." To be honest, I only had three words in my heart when I heard it: I'm sorry, I feel sorry. My parents, let them worry about me even when they are so old. Then, I was very touched and thanked them for their love for me.

Finally, I would like to tell those beautiful girls who are struggling because their husbands are cheating. Divorce is really not scary. What is scary is that you are afraid. If a man treats you like this, why talk about growing old together? Don’t wrong yourself. You can live a good and happy life, be loved by thousands of people, or walk alone!