Slow things go smoothly, slow people make peace, and slow words make you expensive:

It tells us that when facing complex things and interpersonal relationships, we must be patient and calm. Don't rush for quick results and argue, but take your time to find the best solution and a harmonious way of getting along. In doing so, you can not only avoid many unnecessary troubles and conflicts, but also increase your prestige and influence.

Slow things down and things will go smoothly meaning:

Handle things in an orderly manner and don’t rush into anything impatient. "Mencius Gaozi Xia" said: "When something is about to succeed, it must be difficult first; when something is about to fail, it must be easy first." This shows that successful things are often the result of hard work and careful planning, and failures are often the result of hard work and careful planning. Things are often the result of underestimating difficulties and acting hastily.

Therefore, before doing anything, you must be fully prepared and think, and do not act blindly. "The Analects of Confucius·Zilu" says: "The wise do not be confused, the benevolent do not worry, the brave do not fear."?

People are at peace when they are slow. Meaning:

Be polite and tolerant when getting along with others. , don't be impatient and rude. "Mencius Tengwengong 1" said: "The purpose of etiquette is harmony." This shows that the function of etiquette is to make people harmonious with each other. "The Analects of Confucius·Yan Yuan" says: "If you want to establish yourself, you can establish others; if you want to achieve yourself, you can reach others." This shows that if you want to be respected and helped, you must first respect and help others.

"Historical Records: The Family of Confucius" said: "Confucius said: 'Be respectful but rude and you will be tired; be cautious and rude but be rude; be brave but rude and be chaotic; be straight and rude but be twisted.

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Speaking late means being wise:

Speak with discretion and consideration, and do not speak rashly. "The Analects of Confucius·Zizhang" says: "A gentleman wants to be slow in words but quick in deeds. " This shows that a gentleman should be careful when he speaks, and should not express his thoughts and opinions casually, but should show his ability and moral character in his actions.

"Historical Records: Biography of Mr. Wei" says: "Wei Young Master said: "What I say is the meaning of the Tao; what I mean is the intention." A righteous heart means a sincere mind, and a sincere mind means speaking the truth. This shows that speaking is a way to express one's thoughts and feelings, and thoughts and feelings are signs that reflect one's own mentality and character.