1. A truly strong person will not spend too much time on pleasing and adhering to others. The so-called circles and resources are just derivatives. The most important thing is to improve your internal strength. Only when you have cultivated yourself well will others come to follow you. If you are a phoenix tree, only the phoenix will come and live there; if you are the sea, then all the rivers will come and return. Only when you reach that level will you have corresponding circles, not the other way around!

2. Life is like rushing on the road. Long-term running makes us feel confused. Thinking about the short life and looking at the endless road, we will feel a little alienated and tired. We will treat the pursuit as a stroll and the flatness as a flat road. Qianmo is not only worried about traveling quickly, but also limited by comfort. Only those with lofty aspirations can get rid of mediocrity, wake up from numbness, not be bothered by disturbances, and not be moved by temptations. They know that as long as they do not lose their will and direction, the road they take can lead to any smooth road in the world.

3. The more you cannot let go, the easier it is to lose; the more you want to hold on, the faster it disappears. The more you want to possess, the more you want to possess it, it often does not belong to you; the more you want to grasp, the more you want to grasp, it is often lost. The more you value something, the less you can get it; the more you care about it, the less you can catch it. Most of the things you want are not with you. Life is always a cycle of gains and losses, and taking things as they come is an attitude towards life. Only by knowing how to let go can you master the present moment.

4. A man who drives a 1 million Mercedes-Benz has a bank loan of 10 million, and his life is on the edge of life and death! A person who drives a Volkswagen worth 100,000 yuan has a mortgage of 300,000 yuan, and his life is in dire straits! A guy who rides an electric bike that costs RMB 2,000 has a deposit of RMB 60,000! Life is comfortable but confusing! The three of them met on the road. The one who rode an electric bike envied the one who drove a Volkswagen, the one who drove a Volkswagen envied the one who drove a Mercedes-Benz, and the one who drove a Mercedes-Benz envied the one who rode an electric bike! People, take everything lightly and be content with what you have!

5. Remember the faces you hate so much, don’t curse them out loud, just keep them in your heart. You just have to work hard and one day next year, use your great strength to blind him. The best way to hate someone is not to scold him for being a human being, but to calm down and work hard silently to bring the distance between you two to a level that he will never be able to reach, leaving him dumbfounded. Make him jealous but helpless. That feels so beautiful.

6. Go be a little person, lose your temper in the noise, stir up trivial matters in the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, eat and drink, go shopping and travel. There is nothing worth fighting to the death to please. Don’t let others neglect you. Don’t buy what you can’t afford. Don’t forget what you can’t forget. Be petty when you should. Live to make yourself happy. Make yourself comfortable when you are tired. Get out of hypocrisy. To hell with tangles. Go be a real little person full of happiness.

7. I used to think that as long as I treat people well, people will also be kind to me. If I treat others with sincerity, people will naturally treat me with sincerity. But later I learned that this is not true. People in this world are very cruel. It's complicated, there's deception, suspicion, betrayal, and hurt. I won't lie to people, but I don't trust anyone easily anymore.

8. Life is actually like a journey of tea leaves. When you return home with a full load, choose a quiet place, pour a cup of fragrant tea, and watch carefully as a bunch of tea leaves experience, roll and gradually stretch in the boiling hot water. , and finally sank to the bottom of the cup. After brewing over and over again, it gradually returned to a calm and real process. Human life is full of twists and turns, just like the tea leaves in this cup, stretching silently and ending calmly, calmly and bitterly. The astringent fragrance on the taste buds is the taste of life.

9. Learning to get along with the people around you and learning to love the people around you is also a kind of practice. In life, everyone we come into contact with is like a mirror, reflecting our own shortcomings and helping us better understand ourselves and improve ourselves. Every life is a miracle, and every experience is fate. Don’t ignore everyone who appears in your life, because they may be your relatives or lovers in your previous life.

10. Love is a gamble that you cannot afford to lose. After placing all the bets, if we win, we will win lifelong happiness; if we lose, we will only be left with scars. You know you can't afford to lose, but you still want to gamble. You can't be persuaded or stopped - this is the charm of love. In order to win lifelong happiness, we all willingly become gamblers in love. If you want to win, win with great vigor; if you want to lose, lose with no regrets.

11. Life is an experience and an experience; life is a feeling and an accumulation. Life has no answers, life does not need answers. When life is about to no longer belong to you, you will realize that life is just a process, and no matter how complicated the process is, the final outcome is the same. Life focuses on the process, not the ending.

12. I am no longer patient with certain things, not because I have become proud, but because I have reached a stage in my life where I no longer want to waste time on things that make me unhappy or hurt me. superior. I have no patience for cynicism, over-judgment, or demands of any kind. I don't want to please people who don't like me, or love people who don't love me, or smile at people who don't want to smile at me.

13. Not having groups of friends does not mean loneliness, not having a lover by your side does not mean being out of season, and not having earth-shattering dreams does not mean mediocrity. Three or two friends can get together from time to time, enrich themselves when they are alone, and do their best when completing small goals. Be responsible for yourself and have your own ideas. You don't have to be on stage all the time to find your own light.

14. If you lose a 5s and your mother buys you a 6plus, you will still be very happy. If you break up with your partner, but the opposite sex you have admired for a long time moves with you. Confess it, and you will still be happy involuntarily. In fact, people are not afraid of losing, but they are afraid that after losing, there will be no better replacement.

15. The most important thing in life is to be calm. Nine times out of ten things in life will be unsatisfactory, and we cannot predict it. We cannot force it, but in good times we are not surprised by favors and disgrace, we are contented, and we do not give up or give up in adversity. Only then can we understand the ups and downs of the world and see the true meaning of life. Only when you stand tall can you see far, and only when you see lightly can you let go. Carrying too much will make life very tiring. Letting go is liberation. Looking at the gains and losses of life indifferently, everything is like passing smoke, leaving no trace. This is the highest state of calm life.

16. If a man can’t give you a promise, then he can’t give you anything. Because the first prerequisite for a man to love you is to want a result with you. If you don't even dare to look forward to the future, then he is just using you as a spare tire. Men who are not proactive, responsible and refuse are actually casting a net around the world to find spare tires. Therefore, women must be determined: if there is no future, then there is no present.

17. If someone takes you lightly, there is no need to get angry. Don't work hard to perform, you have to prove how good you are. Doing this will exhaust you to death, because there are many people who don't take you seriously, and you can't satisfy everyone's eyes. The best way is to find someone who doesn't care about you, and you don't have to care about him. There is no need to change your view of yourself because of a few words from others. You should continue to do what you do. Your efforts are only for yourself.

18. You originally only liked to drink plain water. Seeing that Coke was very refreshing, you added carbonic acid, and seeing that orange juice was sweet, you added sugar. Because you often compare yourself with others, you want everything. So that later on, I didn’t know what I really wanted. Sometimes, the happiness that others have is not suitable for you. When you throw away those carbonic acid and saccharin, you are you. When you lose everything, you know what the only thing you want is.

19. People who do not believe in cause and effect will blame others. If you understand the principle of cause and effect, you will know that everyone has his or her own destiny and should not envy others. Everyone has their own destiny, so there is no need to envy others. You can change your destiny by yourself, because life is impermanent. We must remember: today's emperor may be tomorrow's prisoner; today's rich man may be tomorrow's beggar. But many of the glories in the world are short-lived and fleeting.

20. If you owe someone, there will be another person to take back. What someone owes you, someone else will pay you back. Whatever you do to someone, whether it is harm or sacrifice, will always be repaid or retaliated by another person. nodes at different times.

The ruthlessness and sentimentality of life, the ruthlessness and excess of passion, generally speaking, are conserved