There are three common problems in the education of parents in China: first, the higher the expectation for children, the greater the disappointment; The people of China have advocated education since ancient times. "Everything is inferior, only reading is high." They want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. Many parents' unrealistic expectations put a lot of pressure on their children.

Photo: Children attend interest classes

Second, eager for quick success and eager for children's success. Many parents want their children to become talents as soon as possible, and they have enrolled many extracurricular remedial classes and various interest classes for their children, completely ignoring their endurance and depriving them of the fun of childhood.

Figure: Can't treat children's grades correctly

Third, children's grades are result-oriented, so we can't treat children's grades correctly. Many parents attach too much importance to their children's grades. If they get good grades, they will be happy. If they get bad grades, they will beat and scold, completely ignoring their children's efforts.

Photo: Other people's children

Fourth, belittle your children too much and like to compare yourself with other people's children. All the good ones are other people's children. I don't know that belittling children too much will make them lose confidence. Children's growth process needs the approval of their parents, so that their hearts will be healthier.