Why did she do this to me? I miss her. I only love her in my life. This is love and being loved. Your heart is very good and single-minded.
I can't do much for her, but I still miss her. Do I still like her? I should still have emotional attachment.
You can't love each other.
Forget the Jianghu,
As long as the other person is happy, that's enough.
I haven't seen you for three years. Why do I still miss her and the money she owes you? ..
I still miss her. Why? Seek answers. The old ones don't go, and the new ones don't come.
Since she broke up voluntarily, let's break up!
It is normal to miss her, but if your next girlfriend shows up and you still miss her, it is not normal.
She fell in love with me at the bottom of my life, but I don't want her to suffer. It's superficial to refuse you. Don't feel great. Love is growing old together. When you are old, people will understand that wealth is not important, and companionship is the most worthwhile thing in life.
Why do I want to go to a big city and suffer too much?
Often boring.
So I want to live a complicated and interesting life.
Even if it is destined to be a little harder than others.
Graduation season, facing all kinds of choices, going to graduate school? Work? Going abroad? But no matter which way you take, you can't escape this question about future development:
"Which city do you want to stay in in the future?"
I don't know when it started, and the argument of "fleeing from Beishangguang" has become increasingly rampant. Most news reports are about the hardships of struggling in big cities and the ease of settling down in small cities. Choosing a "small bed in a big city" seems ridiculous and stupid, but choosing a "big bed in a small city" is accurate and wise.
According to the theory of "stratum solidification", the cost of upward mobility of the poor is getting higher and higher, and the motivation is getting smaller and smaller. The cold blood of household registration discrimination, employment discrimination, fierce competition, network supremacy and money worship is flowing in every brick and tile of big cities, which is frightening and chilling.
In the big city in the movie, generation X fell in love with the poor;
In reality, the second generation of X crushes the poor.
The small bed in the big city may be taken away by the landlord the next day, but the big bed in the small town can always be mine. You are hungry by the Huangpu River, and you talk about your life ideals from poems and songs. I am leisurely looking at the stars and enjoying the moon in the yard of a small house.
Once as a bystander, I couldn't understand the taste. Looking at other people's choices, out of concern, out of helplessness, or because human beings are naturally eager for ease and enjoyment, maybe I will also advise: "Don't be so hard, go back to a small city and live a stable life."
But when I make a choice now, I will still firmly say, "I just want to go to a big city, and it doesn't matter if I suffer."
My hometown is similar to most poor towns and villages in China, with pleasant scenery and poverty; Simple folk customs and poverty; Surrounded by mountains, I am as poor as a church mouse.
It's just that literary works and TV advertisements are used to omitting the last sentence "harmony and poverty".
It is not that a wanderer's family is too poor, but economic poverty, which often leads to lack of thought, narrow vision, lack of rationality and ignorance of human nature.
In my hometown, if the nine-year compulsory education was not free, the school would have disappeared long ago. People's only understanding of "making money" is to go out to work as coolies. The slogan "Education changes life" is printed in bold on brick houses all over the country, but it has not left any impression on people's hearts. Students have no motivation to learn, teachers have no motivation to teach, there are no conditions for school construction, and the advanced and noisy world outside is firmly blocked.
A vicious circle,
Poverty iteration.
Almost all young people under the age of 20 are married and have children, not to mention enjoying their youth. Most of them are married by accident. The backwardness of education and the occlusion of ideas make them want to steal the forbidden fruit early, but they don't know how to protect themselves or how to avoid hurting others. It is not uncommon for teenagers to gather to kill.
Humans in the shadow of ignorance,
It won't do any harm.
When I came home during the Spring Festival in my sophomore year, I learned that a girl I grew up with died unfortunately because of an abortion in a black clinic.
A few years ago, a young man in grade three in our village (with a high academic record in grade three) was afraid to go home because he was suspected to be an underage girl.
What is even more frightening is that I once saw a baby's corpse that was not fully formed in the public toilet in the village. Embryo, to be exact. The umbilical cord has not been cut, and it can still be clearly identified. It is estimated that some girl who was unexpectedly pregnant had a miscarriage quietly in the toilet. I was so scared that I crawled out of the toilet and didn't mean to pee at all. Ten scientific calculators can't work out the area of my psychological shadow at that time.
I still love the land where I was born and raised, and sympathize with the ignorant and innocent weak, but as far as I can see, morality, rationality, humanity and responsibility are in a mess, and I just want to escape.
One issue talked about the topic of "a bed in a big city or a suite in a small town", and I quite agree with Ma Weiwei's point of view:
In a big city, you will encounter something called "unknown". You don't know who you will meet, what you will experience, and which pit you will die in, but you will see that because of your unpredictable fate, you will never guess the ending of this novel. This is the best novel. Do you want life to be an endless manual?
Competition in big cities is more intense, but competition can bring fairness, so we can give people from small cities a chance to fight for our talents and abilities. Competition can bring motivation, so we can be warned not to wait for death, but to do our best.
Big cities know more about norms, abide by rules, act according to contracts, pay less for human feelings, and be simple, rude and straightforward; Jianghu rules, you come and I go, the strong, the weak, this is the real fairness.
In big cities, you can buy all kinds of goods and services with your mobile phone connected to WiFi. You laughed at a bed in a big city, but you couldn't see that I was still in a world of flowers when I walked out of the door.
Different horizons,
The pattern is very different,
Is the biggest gap between people.
In the development of small cities, the ceiling of life will suddenly drop and be within reach. Fight and fight, maybe at the age of 40, there is no room for further development. From then on, for the remaining 40 years, you wandered the streets of a small town for ten years, and the familiar cries of selling and scolding came and went. You stood on the street and looked at the end, looking everywhere, but you couldn't find a fresh face. Two dog passing by, spitting everywhere, accidentally spitting on your newly bought imitation leather shoes; Xiong Haizi of Cui Hua secretly put a firecracker at your feet. You were startled by the muffled thunder, and he ran away laughing at the top of his lungs.
Your legs are weak, you are squatting in a crowded street, holding your head in your hands and rubbing the flat head that you just cut in a barber shop called "The Fashion", and you suddenly cry.
The next day, you were scared into a mental derangement by the children's firecrackers, and you began to cry in the street. It spread all over the town and became a joke of every household after dinner. No one knows why you are crying.
This is a small town, too pure, so it's boring.
Most people around me who are about to enter the society, especially those from small cities, want to go to big cities without exception, although we all know that big cities are more competitive, more difficult to survive and more complicated in human nature.
The reason, a cliche, is nothing more than a bigger platform, more opportunities and broader horizons. For me, I don't want to be sentimental, alienate, or shout the slogan of dreams. I just want to see if the lights in big cities are redder, the wine is greener, the girls are more beautiful, and the children are more beautiful. I just want to see how hard and tired the big cities are, how solidified the class is, and whether this material can be polished into ready-made clothes in big cities. ...
Because, as I was born in a small city, I have never seen it with my own eyes.
I don't want to be born in a small town,
Confined to a small town,
Finally, this town,
During this time, I have never experienced the taste of another kind of scenery.
Of course, everyone has his own ambition, and everyone's lifestyle and pursuit of life cannot be generalized. No matter in big cities or small towns, hard-working people deserve to be treated gently by life. However, I don't want to break in or give up. I'd rather be in a big city, even if I'm covered in scars, than sit in a small city and eat all day.
I am deeply in love with my cousin's wife. Her name is Wang Niu. She praised me, but I still miss her. What I can do between you is impossible.
She is your sister-in-law
If you do this, you will lose your loved ones.
Wave a clever sword and cut off the string.
If you can't do it for a while, find a spiritual sustenance quickly. If you use a lot of work to separate your thoughts.
I'm relieved, but I'm still curious about how she overcame not thinking about her. Thank you, everyone. There is a kind of love called letting go. If you think she will be happy with you. We must fight for it. If you think the answer is not clear. It is better to love her and let her find her happiness as soon as possible. It was the same in senior three. I knew how to play then. Many girls like me. Because I am good-looking, too. Better at playing basketball. So many girls will like me. I feel much better, too. But the thought of me playing like this. They are not satisfied with me, so it's better not to touch those things. Until now, this item of mine. Just love someone. I'd rather give everything for her. But you have to think clearly. Do you really love her?