Sometimes we have to admit, usually when we are dating, we don't meet in the end. In fact, it is not really because the other conditions of the other party are not good or suitable. I'm afraid 90% is because the other person is not good-looking.

People are always like this, clamoring that they don't care about looks, but they always care unconsciously.

In the matter of finding someone, more and more people began to shout such a slogan: "We don't want more, we just want to be suitable". Actually, what? The more you say that there are no requirements and no conditions, the more harsh it is.

Since Hui Yuan got married, he immediately gained face, because wherever he went, people would praise him:

"Your boy is really a lot! Married such a beautiful wife. "

Yes, you are not as lucky as you.

Not only do friends like to make fun of Hui Yuan, but even some neighbors in the old family, especially some housewives, keep their mouths shut. It stands to reason that Hui Yuan should be proud of these jokes and enjoy them.

But what about the facts? Every time I hear these words, Hui Yuan always shakes his head with a wry smile and never answers or responds. In that case, it seems that things are not as beautiful as others think. In that case, it seems to be extremely distressing.

Finally, once, Hui Yuan confided to a friend. He said: If this is luck, I would rather not have such luck.

It was the first time that Hui Yuan talked with friends about this topic, and friends also knew for the first time that Hui Yuan, who was already married, didn't seem to be as perfect as expected.

Hui Yuan and his wife met on a blind date. They took a fancy to it at first sight, and they still took a fancy to it, because his wife really had no choice. After trying to get in touch with her, Hui Yuan wanted to give up, because he found that she was a little headstrong and covered in princess disease.

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Maybe all men are like this, even if that woman has all her shortcomings, as long as she is beautiful, it is nothing!

Therefore, Hui Yuan want to give up, at most just think about it. He really doesn't want to miss this beautiful face.

However, after marriage, Hui Yuan's distress also followed. Hui Yuan probably summed up three points, which led to the depression in Hui Yuan today.

First, all kinds of head problems.

When Hui Yuan went out, it was okay to have no wife, but having a wife was definitely full of suffering, because the wife was beautiful, so it was certain to turn around. Hui Yuan is a man, so how does he feel when he sees other men looking at his wife with that burning and direct eyes?

But his wife never talks to him, and she doesn't know how to restrain herself, especially in summer. Every time she goes out, she deliberately wears some revealing clothes, as if she was just enjoying the hot appearance of other men.

Therefore, Hui Yuan and his wife quarreled many times, but they quarreled and quarreled, which was unreasonable.

Second, the problem of suitors.

Before marriage, his wife had many suitors, so when Hui Yuan pursued his wife, he didn't spend less money or be jealous, and even gave up many times.

I want to get married, and I don't want to get married, but it's worse. The pursuit behind her has not decreased, but gradually increased, including some big bosses, handsome guys and even some people who have been divorced several times.

Three religions and nine streams, there are really all kinds of suitors. Hui Yuan's wife belongs to that kind of person who is not simple, and her attitude towards those suitors is not clear. She takes gifts and messages home and goes to appointments from time to time.

Although Hui Yuan knows nothing, who can guarantee that nothing will happen in the future? Furthermore, Hui Yuan is a man, and naturally knows what men are thinking, so naturally he can't accept such an outcome.

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Third, about her personality.

As mentioned at the beginning, Hui Yuan knew the princess's illness before she got married, and thought that the daily necessities of marriage would definitely reduce her stubbornness and willfulness. However, it was not until after marriage that Hui Yuan realized that he was thinking too much.

After marriage, she not only has no traces of convergence, but also has a more moody and unruly personality!

What Hui Yuan can't stand most is her hegemony and strength. She always thought she was beautiful, so she was particularly confident. Every time she quarrels with Hui Yuan, she likes to say, "There is smoke from your ancestral grave and it's for you. I don't know how many people want to marry me! "

How beautiful she is and how humble Hui Yuan's life is.

However, it is not without benefits to marry a beautiful wife. The only advantage is that it looks beautiful every day, but there will always be a day when the old couple get bored together!

Until now, Yuan Cai knew that nothing in this world is more precious than a comfortable life. Therefore, Yuan said that if time could be repeated, he would never marry a beautiful wife, just as the old saying goes: Don't take porcelain work without it.

Old people at home often say that a man should marry a virtuous man, and a beautiful woman is certainly pleasing to the eye, but life is not lived by looks, but by ability and character.

A good woman can accomplish a man's life, but a beautiful woman does not mean a good woman. A good woman must be beautiful because of her beautiful heart.