Many men are always ambitious and want to go outside and break into their own world. It is a good thing for men to have ideals and ambitions, and capable people will do what they say and blow it up. But those men who always hang the ideal slogan and don't take action are the so-called short-tempered men.
The more incompetent a man is, the more arrogant he is. Often when you haven't done it, you brag about how awesome you are. As a result, once asked to do it, he can't do it.
2, the temper is particularly big.
When a man goes home and has a hard time with his family, it will only reduce the happiness index of married life and make both sides uncomfortable. A capable man will never bring his bad feelings home, but will solve things outside. And some men dare not say anything when they are angry outside. But when I got home, I had a big temper and didn't know how to restrain myself.
Always take it out on women. Women work hard at home, but they are not treated well by men. Men who don't care about women's feelings are often incompetent people, and he can't give women a sense of security! Bottom line: The more incompetent a man is, the more grumpy he is.
3. No responsibility
A capable man always supports this family alone, and he can't bear to let his woman run for a living. Only a man without a skill will not face up to the pressure of life, face the challenges of life, and even rely on his wife to eat soft rice. On the contrary, irresponsible men will only live around doing nothing all day and can't see the busyness of people around them. Such a man lives like a walking corpse and has no value. The more incompetent you are, the more indifferent you will be to life and muddle along.
4, do not pay attention to commitment
Usually, when I coax you, I will always tell you that the man who bought the bag with you, the man who failed to honor his promise a few years later, is the one who likes to write empty checks. A few days ago, my colleague Xiao Zhang bought a new schoolbag. We all thought her husband gave it to her, but Xiao Zhang sighed and said simply that if her husband said to buy her a bag, it should have been bought years ago. Where can he wait until now?
He can't bear the pain of his woman, so he will earn money to send you flowers himself. Only men who have no skills will move out of these impossible promises and make women happy for a while, but they will not honor their promises by their own skills.
5. There are always countless excuses.
We can often see some men around us. If there is anything they need help with, they always have many excuses: I'm busy now, I have other things to do, and I'm going to eat.
Although sometimes these excuses are simple, you can see at a glance what you are saying: I don't want to help you with this. Although we say that rejection is not something you can't do in this process, it doesn't mean that you have to shirk everything. If so, then this person is really selfish and he has no responsibility, so people around him should not like him too much at ordinary times.