It means she doesn't want to be taken care of by you all the time. She has her own ideals and her own way of thinking. I hope you don't interfere with her. She doesn't want to be an unknown woman behind you, but wants to fight with you.

From: Oak.

Author: Shu Ting

The original meaning of the poem: the heroine doesn't want to be a bird to snuggle up to, nor does she want to be a running water around a tree. She just clings to the tall oak tree, but in the image of a kapok tree, she has the same status as the hero, the same firmness and a little gentleness. She doesn't need to be attached to anyone, but wants formal equality, spiritual mutual support and face the ups and downs of life together. If you are a big man and want to protect her, thank you, but she doesn't need it. On the contrary, she thinks that you think girls need protection in essence, but you don't respect her spiritual world.

Appreciation: The poet takes the oak tree as the object and expresses the passion, sincerity and firmness of love. Through the artistic technique of quasi-materialization, he sang his own personality ideal and independent and affectionate love view with the inner monologue of Kapok Tree. The lyric hero in the poem turns into a kapok, takes the oak tree as the object, and expresses his passion, sincerity and firmness for love frankly and cheerfully in the lyric way of inner monologue, expressing his ideals and beliefs for love.

Extended data:

To Oak is a love poem written by Shu Ting in March 1977. It is one of the representative works of the misty poetry school. As a pioneering work of literature in the new period, To the Oak is self-evident in the history of literature. Through the "confession" of the kapok tree to the oak tree, the author denies the secular and unequal view of love, calls for freedom, equality and independence, and shouts out the slogan of equality between men and women in love, and sends out the declaration of independence of women's yearning for love in the new era.

In artistic expression, poetry adopts the lyrical way of inner monologue, which is convenient for expressing the poet's inner world frankly and happily. At the same time, the image is constructed as a whole symbol (the whole poem symbolizes the independent personality and sincere love of both lovers with the whole image of oak and kapok), which makes philosophical thoughts and ideas germinate in the intimate and sensible image and poetic, so this richest man is rational.