We are always reluctant to part with the past, either the past is too beautiful or the present is too bad to forget.
If you have a time machine, do you want to go back to the good old days or regret it?
I don't remember how many late nights I asked myself this question and never got an answer.
Sometimes I want to go back to the good times and stop time. Thinking about it, I fell into memories.
The happiest time is probably when I was a child. Every afternoon after school, I made an appointment with some friends to catch slugs in the field with bottles. When I run, I feel very uncomfortable.
Passing through the rape field, I saw a golden piece, and I couldn't help but want to walk in, miss a head and shuttle inside.
If you see no adults nearby, you can't help but pick a few, then pick a small one and put it in your ear to show off to other children.
It was dark and I saw smoke coming from the village. I knew I should go back, or my mother would beat me if I went back late.
Unfortunately, there was no cell phone. If I can go back to that time, I want to take a mobile phone and take pictures. How unforgettable that will be. I smiled at the thought of this.
When we were young, we all wanted to grow up quickly and thought we could do a lot of things when we grew up.
But when we really grow up and want to be children again, we don't have to be tired of life.
Sometimes, I want to go back to the moment when I made the wrong choice and tell myself at that time, never make the wrong choice, or I will regret it for a lifetime.
Go back to the moment when two people meet for the first time, don't dream about love, don't have too much communication with him, and don't have any contact.
In this case, I will yearn for the love and simple life in the idol drama.
No, leaving regrets and sadness, crying when you think about it.
I didn't know how to cherish the past, but I was confused and carefree every day. Now I know how to cherish, but I want to go back to the past, but it has become a delusion.
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Recalling the past is for the present.
The older people get, the easier it is to remember the past and recall the past.
I think life is too painful, and I want to keep my sweetness. Teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow. At that time, many people didn't know when to be blessed.
When I looked back, I realized how happy and happy I was at that time, but that was the past.
So we often regret why we didn't enjoy it and experience it.
Regret is not only because of the beauty of the past, but also because of the suffering of the present. Today's sufferings are all due to past mistakes.
Maybe I didn't study hard in the past, which led to my embarrassing life now; Perhaps the past was carried away by love, leading to the breakdown of married life; Or maybe the past muddled along, leading to a midlife crisis.
It seems to remind us that at present, if we are happy, we should release our happiness to the fullest. Be careful when you make a decision, and don't act in haste, lest you plant the wrong career.
We always say that if I knew this, I shouldn't have done it in the first place. But who can do it early! Unless there is a time machine, go back to that important moment.
It's a pity that none of us have Doraemon and can't travel through time and space. We can go back anytime.
Even if you have Doraemon, go back to the past. Will we really make another choice without hesitation?
So can another choice really bring different results? These are also unknown and unpredictable.
So many time-travel dramas are because they regret going back to the past. However, in the past, the result is even worse.
So changing the past may not necessarily help the present. The important thing is that we should be careful every step and live every day well.
Don't let yesterday occupy today's time
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Cherish the present for the future
Every day we live now is the past of the future. Only cherish the present, and the future will not regret it.
If you don't study well enough, spend more time and effort from now on;
If you are not competent at work, spend more time to improve your skills from now on;
If you have regrets in love, fill the bad regrets from now on.
"Work hard" is not a slogan, nor is "cherish the present". What is needed is to actually do it, otherwise it is wishful thinking.
I once read such a fable about a flying bug that tells the time.
Small flying insects wander around every day, wasting time. Other animals tried to persuade them to cherish time, but the little flying bug didn't know what time was.
He ran to ask the bird, "What is time?" The bird doesn't know how to explain what time is. He looked up and saw a clock and told the little flying bug, "That clock is time."
The little flying bug looked at it and still didn't understand, so he wanted to fly in and find out. He came to the clock, looked around and finally found a hole in the clock, so he flew in.
After flying in, I only heard the sound of "ticking", and then I saw some needles turning. The little flying bug thought for a long time, but he was puzzled: "It's this time, but what does it have to do with himself?" .
When it tried to fly out of the clock, it found someone blocking the hole, and the little flying bug "buzzed" and then hit it with its body, but it didn't help.
Because it was too small, no one noticed it at all.
Finally, he was suffocated in the clock. Before he died, he finally knew what time was. It turns out that "time is his life"
Cherish time and cherish the present, which is what we can do.
Once I wanted to go back to the past and live my life again. Now, I just want to live today and cross the hardships of life.