In Yunnan, there was a man named Cai, the founder of Hammer, who lived outside Xiaodongmen in Kunming before becoming a monk. After their parents died, they left property and lived a comfortable life. He grows his own vegetables and can sell some money for daily expenses. My wife is young, beautiful, lazy and having an affair with a wild man. Although Cai knew this, she didn't say anything about her. After a long time, she is bolder, and she has no worries about having an affair with wild men every day. One day, Cai went out to sell vegetables early. Unexpectedly, the savage bought wine and meat to take home before he left. The savage didn't go home, so he had to hide under the bed. When Cai went into the kitchen to prepare food, his wife felt embarrassed, so she went to wash her face and help her husband prepare food. When the meal is ready, Cai asks his wife to set the dishes and chopsticks. She put two sets of bowls and chopsticks. When Cai saw it, she asked her to put on three sets and said, "It's my treat today." After his wife settled down, Cai invited her out for a drink. The wife said, "Where are the guests?" Cai said, "Just at home." The wife listened and said, "Don't talk nonsense. Isn't it just you and me? What about the other guests? " Seeing that his wife was afraid to let the savage out, Cai said to Yan, "Don't be afraid, I won't hurt him. If I can't hide anymore, I will be annoyed and kill him with a knife. " The wife had to bite the bullet and call the savage out. When the savage came out, Cai invited him to a table and made a toast to him. Savages think wine is poisonous and dare not drink it rashly. Cai saw it, drank his own wine first, and then invited him to drink. The savage drank the wine safely. After a full meal, Cai kowtowed to the wild man and said, "Today is a good day. My wife is young and nobody takes care of her. I will give her and my property to you today. Please accept it! " Wife and savage refused. Cai said with a knife, if you don't promise, I will kill you both. The two had no choice but to agree. Cai became a monk empty-handed and became a monk in Lin 'an. After becoming a monk, he cultivated vegetables while practicing, and later realized Tao in practice. Talk to you later, savage. After all the money and money were paid, he was lazy all day. When he gets angry, he takes it out on his wife, who is beaten almost every day. Thinking of her ex-husband, she regretted it and ran to sairinji, asking Cai to go home, hoping to get back together. Cai ignored her. Later, the savage destroyed her property and left her begging nowhere to go. She remembered her ex-husband's kindness and wanted to repay him. Cai usually likes eating golden carp in Kunming. She bought some, cooked them and sent them to sairinji for Cai. Cai accepted it and said, "I appreciate your kindness. Take these fish away and let them go! " The wife smiled: "These fish are cooked, how can they be released?" But Cai still put the fish in the water, and these fish miraculously came alive and swam away. Until now, this fish still exists in the Black Dragon Pool in Kunming. Comments: This story gives us profound enlightenment. No matter men or women, the perfect combination of love is to love the person you love and be loved by the person you love. The story of love and being loved is so common that everyone will have this experience. People who have loved say that being loved is a kind of happiness, because only they know that it is not easy to love someone. People who have never really loved don't understand this truth. They don't cherish being loved, but love without hesitation. Regarding the philosophy of love and being loved, there is a popular slogan among friends: find someone you love to fall in love with and marry someone who loves you. And I also know that I can't do it, and I can't be free and easy with love. I once thought about giving all my feelings to someone who really loves me, someone I love. We have a serious love affair, from first love to marriage, and we will always love only one person. Later, I learned that there were many people who had this idea, but few or many of them were still in the observation period. So some people say that fate must have a share, just like love and being loved are indispensable. Maybe a person's life is to love others and be loved by others. One day, we all understand the meaning of love and being loved, and understand that love and being loved are happiness and helplessness. We are mature, and the biggest advantage of maturity is to avoid injury and being hurt. We are far away from harm, and there will be no more hesitation in first love and slouches in lovelorn. Love is a strange circle that a person can't get out of: the person who really loves you doesn't love him, but the person you love is struggling to love another person. It is always difficult for the called and the called to respond to each other. Too much misplaced love leads to too much sadness. Therefore, if one or two of my friends are happily married from their first love to their marriage, I will always secretly envy them. I know everyone dreams of a happy and harmonious love, but not everyone is lucky enough to have such a life. Misplaced feelings always happen between you and me mercilessly. Perhaps, it's not that you don't love, nor that you don't know how to cherish love; On the contrary, love is sometimes a kind of injury. Once, I was affectionate and heartless. I love others passionately and hurt those who love me mercilessly. Now, I am afraid that others love me too much to bear; I am afraid that if I love him too much, I will get hurt. Wandering between emotion and reason. It has become a common problem of modern people, that is, they dare not love easily and have no courage to face up to the love of others. Love and being loved are both happiness? Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with tears ... When you love someone but are not loved by the other person, it hurts, but the most painful thing is that you love someone but don't have the courage to let him know how you feel. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away quietly feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. You don't know what you have until you lose it; More truly, you never know what you have lost before he arrives. It takes only one minute to meet someone, and only one sentence to like someone. It takes only one day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Think about your dreams, go where you want to go and do what you want to do, because you only have one life and one chance to do all these things. Try to put yourself in each other's shoes. When you feel hurt, it is very likely that he was hurt. The happiest people don't need to have all the best things in the world, just let most of them follow their own lives. A sad thing in life is that you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out at the end. A careless word will trigger a scolding war, a cruel word will ruin your life, but a loving word will be infinite joy and blessing. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and people around you were laughing, so please live a good life. When you die, everyone around you is crying, only you are laughing.