1. is not conducive to the establishment of children's gender awareness.
Since ancient times, children have avoided their mothers, and this culture still applies today. If the mother takes off her underwear in front of the child, the child will not feel anything wrong, but will think, "Mom, why are our breasts different and yours are so big?" ; If the mother is afraid that the child will be lost, she will take the child directly into the ladies' room, and the child will not feel inappropriate. If the mother comes a few times, the child will even get used to it.
If the mother takes the child into the women's bathhouse to take a bath, the child will not feel embarrassed even if she is surrounded by women. These things often happen in daily life, which is not conducive to the establishment of children's gender awareness and self-protection awareness.
2. It is not conducive to children's growth and development
In our life, there must be many mothers taking their boys into women's bathhouses and women's toilets. I don't think it's a big problem, but these behaviors will be very unfavorable to the growth and development of children.
Originally, children's "sexual enlightenment" education needs to be done slowly, but these behaviors will mislead children. They will see through their own eyes that their mother often changes underwear in front of them, which will form a consciousness: "There is no taboo with her mother", which is likely to evolve into no taboo with other women, which is very unfavorable to the growth and development of children; Moreover, many mothers simply don't realize that the children themselves have changed differently.
3.？ Abnormal psychological changes
No matter how young the child is, he is conscious. He can tell the difference between his body and his parents just by his eyes. The mother did not do a good job in "sexual enlightenment" education, and children often showed ideas and impulses that were completely inconsistent with themselves during their growth. Adolescent children are impulsive, and under the influence of incorrect "sexual enlightenment" education, it is also very unfavorable for their mental health development.