How to improve emotional intelligence and eloquence 1
It is a conscious communication between speakers through language. Therefore, in order to improve the emotional intelligence of speaking, we must first learn to listen and watch, and then speak. For example, you have to see who you are communicating with before you can decide which way to communicate. Also choose the content of communication. For different objects, the content of communication is also different. Besides, you should learn to judge people. Because if you don't know how to observe feelings, you can't grasp the psychological changes of the people you communicate with. Then, the effect of communication may be half the effort or even nothing.
In real life, it depends on whether others take the initiative to find you or you take the initiative to find others. Because there is a big difference between initiative and passivity. You take the initiative to find someone else, but you have something to do. Others take the initiative to find you, but others have something to do. It also depends on whether the communication object is leaders, colleagues, friends or family. There are also differences in the definition, content and tone of communication content. Therefore, communicating with others is also a kind of wisdom, which requires long-term self-discipline and psychological suggestion.
1. If you want to improve your emotional intelligence, you must first have the spirit of not being afraid of losing. Understand that one must pay the price. Through continuous efforts, there will be more and more intimate friends, more and more returns, and the emotional intelligence will naturally be high. People who make fun of you as a fool should stay at a respectful distance from others and deal with it on the principle of interests.
2. Be brave in taking responsibility at work. The best way to exercise emotional intelligence and language is to be a work leader, which will force you to improve your emotional intelligence and voice expression ability.
3. Emotional intelligence and language expression are also hierarchical. We should form the habit of learning cultural knowledge and constantly improve our professional knowledge, cultural level and personal accomplishment. Perseverance will improve your EQ and pronunciation, which will help you live a smooth life.