Love is a mysterious thing, because it is sometimes sweet and sometimes bitter; Sometimes it is vigorous, sometimes it is a long stream of water; Sometimes, love will disappear, and sometimes, even if things change, it still exists.
Guo Yiqing was born in the Republic of China. /kloc-when she was 0/7 years old, she went on a hunger strike because she wanted to marry a 54-year-old man, but she stayed with her husband for 30 years after marriage. Their love proves that an old man and a young wife also have true love. After her husband died, she spent 28 years alone in the Spring and Autumn Period.
A bird that longs for freedom but is trapped in a cage
The Republic of China is an extremely special era. During that time, there was heavy artillery fire. Have the luxury of being intoxicated by money; There are many romantic poets and writers; High-spirited young people in China ... In many people's minds, the Republic of China is synonymous with "romance".
However, behind the romance, there are countless people struggling on the line of life and death; This is a feudal thought that is still deeply rooted in China society; It is the blood and tears of many people at the bottom. ...
Guo Yiqing is a woman born in such an era. Her father is a famous local businessman. Guo Yiqing, who was born in the upper class, is just like a woman in people's impression-she has completely different new ideas from her predecessors.
Unfortunately, however, her family is an out-and-out feudal family. Although his father is a businessman, he has seen the world from south to north.
But he was a feudal parent and strictly regulated his daughter's words and deeds and every move. Guo Yiqing is like a bird trapped in a cage, longing for a free blue sky, but unable to break free.
At that time, even though the feudal monarchy in blowing in the wind widely publicized the slogan of "freedom of marriage", many people's marriages still followed the tradition of "parents' orders, matchmakers' words".
In Guo Yiqing's father's mind, his daughter's marriage should also be his own decision. As for the so-called "love" and "free love", it is simply nonsense.
When Guo Yiqing 17 years old, Guo Yiqing thought that her daughter had reached the age of marriage and chose a good husband Cheng Qian for her daughter.
In those turbulent times, there were too many heroes, so people now may feel strange to Cheng Qian.
Cheng Qian is a soldier. In his early years, he overthrew the Qing dynasty with Dr. Sun Yat-sen, joined the Northern Expedition camp, and later joined our army.
At that time, Cheng Qian was regarded as a successful person. He holds the military power and the power of one side. But no matter how great a hero he is, he cannot hide the fact that he is 54 years old.
At that time, 54 years old meant that a person was about to enter old age.
Just as Guo Yiqing was in his prime, he felt desperate when he learned that he was going to marry an old man. In anger, she confronted her father for the first time and even went on a hunger strike in an attempt to force him to give up the marriage with his own life.
However, in his father's eyes, Guo Yiqing's series of practices are nothing but a child playing a small temper, and there is nothing to be afraid of. Therefore, he put his daughter directly into the room.
After seeing her father's rude feelings with her own eyes, Guo Yiqing understood that there were only two ways before her, either starving or getting married.
At that time, she was only a teenager. She didn't want to end her life prematurely, so she had to put on a wedding dress and marry a husband she had never met.
When the years are quiet, the world is stable.
Most girls always fantasize about the moment they put on their wedding dresses. In their imagination, it must be a very happy moment.
However, when Guo Yiqing put on her wedding dress and got into the sedan chair, she had no feeling of happiness and joy in her heart, only deep fear and despair about the future.
However, Guo Yiqing's married life is far from as bad as she imagined. Although Cheng Qian is a soldier who came out of a bloody battle, he looks far less fierce than people think.
On the contrary, in normal times, Cheng Qian is more like a gentle elder, while Cheng Qian himself is not a pedantic and stubborn person.
So he never restricted her every move like Guo Yiqing's father did, and even often took Guo Yiqing out to play or talked with her about some practical things.
Sometimes, love is not as vigorous as fire. For some people, it is the long stream of water that is more touching.
Guo Yiqing was really dissatisfied with her husband who was 37 years older at first, but with her husband's thoughtfulness and gentleness for decades, Guo Yiqing began to slowly change his views and attitudes towards Cheng Qian, and even gradually fell in love with Cheng Qian.
They lived in one of the most chaotic times in China-the war was raging and the people were in dire straits. As a general with military power, Cheng Qian has always been at the front line.
Faced with such a dangerous situation, Guo Yiqing, who was originally timid, never left the diving process. She has been accompanying her husband and doing logistics work silently. In this way, they encouraged each other and spent the most difficult time.
Later, when the country was established, Mr. Cheng Qian took the lead and devoted himself to the development of the country until his death.
Although there were natural and man-made disasters in the middle, they never let go of each other's hands. Unconsciously, they have been together for 30 years.
I just miss someone for the rest of my life.
"People have joys and sorrows, and the moon has ups and downs." Life and death are often out of people's control. 1968, Mr. Cheng Qian passed away at the age of 84, leaving only Guo Yiqing. That year, she was 47 years old.
Guo Yiqing has been a beautiful woman since childhood. Later, despite the vicissitudes of life, Cheng Qian has always protected her very well.
Therefore, 47-year-old Guo Yiqing is still charming. At that time, Guo Yiqing was also pursued by some people, many of whom were excellent, but all of them were rejected by her without exception.
She kept her love for her husband alone for 28 years until she died.
Sometimes, as long as you have seen the most beautiful scenery, then other scenery will never enter your eyes again.
So is love. As long as you have the best love and meet the best person, no matter how good others are, they can't replace that person.
The love between Guo Yiqing and Cheng Qian started badly, but no one thought that they would eventually become fairy couples. This enviable love is inseparable from the efforts of both sides.
Imagine, without Cheng Qian's gentle company, would Guo Yiqing be so dead set on him? Therefore, a beautiful love needs the joint efforts of two people.