Ex, it can be said that everyone who has been in love and broken up has a scar in his heart. Some people have healed this scar, and some people still feel dull pain. It's just a matter of time.
In the film, Meng Yun and Jia Lin fell in love for five years. In five years, they have experienced a long running-in period, and now it is a stable period. But because of a quarrel, both of them can't pull their faces, ignore each other and don't bow their heads and make up. In this relationship, they may disagree over trivial matters, and they have argued for hundreds of times. Maybe every time, Morphy looked down first, and Jia Lin waited to be coaxed. One thought that the other party would not leave, and the other thought that the other party would stay. In this way, they can't bow their heads and make up. Even in the middle, everyone dares to travel, go to bars and start a new life, which seems to deliberately show that I am doing well without each other. Actually, these are superficial and painful, and I will still miss each other. Badon min will still think of Jia Lin's fever and cold when he changes seasons, but he will never bow his head because he wants to deliver medicine. This relationship is really a pity. If everyone abides by their inner choices and does what they want to do, they may not end this five-year relationship. Both Jia Lin and badon min are at fault. In their feelings, they are two people who care about and understand each other. No one deserves to bow their heads and have the cheek to admit their mistakes and take the initiative to make up. No one deserves to be coaxed and cared for. Two people in love are equal, care for each other, understand each other, take care of each other and make progress.
? Another couple in the film, Yu Fei, also broke up with Xiaodian. Although after breaking up, they refused to bow their heads and take the initiative to make up, thinking that they would lose, but emotionally there was no difference between winning and losing. If there is a win or a loss, then Jia Lin and Morphy both won, but in fact they both lost, and they totally lost. Winning is losing, losing is winning, and there is no absolute winning or losing in feelings. I took the initiative to call Yu Fei because I was drunk. On-off, on-off, two people take the initiative to contact and tell their thoughts on the grounds of confession and ending. So they met intermittently for various reasons, and finally failed to separate.
Morphy and Jia Lin, Yu Fei and Xiaodian love each other deeply. How can they leave each other's world? Leaving with great fanfare is just a test, testing each other's sincerity, just like when Jia Lin wanted to pack up and leave, he pulled three suitcases back and forth in front of Morphy, but Jia Lin didn't really want to leave. In this way, two people who love each other don't bow their heads, so they miss each other and pass each other's world.
? At the end of the film, Morphy fulfilled his original promise. If he leaves Jia Lin, he will dress up as a sovereign treasure and shout "Jia Lin, I love you" 10,000 times in the crowded street until all the people come to watch, until the security guards come to maintain order and control Morphy's behavior. Morphy still said with tears: Jia Lin, I love you. Morphy's heart at this time how hysterical pain. Jia Lin also fulfilled his promise, risking his life to eat mango, until he fainted because of allergies, and the mango in his hand was still tightly grasped. Morphy likes mangoes very much, but Jia Lin is allergic to mangoes. They never said goodbye, but they said goodbye to each other in this way. The real parting is so silent and hysterical.
? There are jokes in the film, but the jokes are not high. I have a feeling that I can't speak, but I can't laugh. I feel as uncomfortable as Morphy and Jia Lin. I thought I wouldn't cry, but at the end of the film, I burst into tears. At the end of the film, Morphy and Jia Lin, a separated couple, bid farewell to each other in such a crazy way. I once felt hysterical pain.
Crying hysterically is because the lovers who don't want to be separated once will never meet again, and the pain and emptiness of losing the lover they thought they wouldn't lose. Crying hysterically is because I regret my mistakes, because I am so stubborn and unwilling to bow my head, and because I missed my fate. Crying hysterically, only crying hysterically can release the inner pain.
"What are you waiting for, waiting for? Wait for the other party to put it down first. "
As a result, one person left without looking back, and the other person had no chance to stay.
In our life, there will always be a gentle person, but you become gentle and then leave silently. Separation is separation, which means that this person has nothing to do with you. Everything between you and him is just the past, and there is no future between you. When we first separated, we cried hysterically, which was close to collapse. You resent and reflect. As time goes by, as we grow up, we will slowly reflect on the previous scene of two people together. That person once loved himself so much that after enjoying happiness, he also felt the pain of quarreling and parting. In this relationship, we taught each other something by leaving. The opposite of love is not hate, but forgetting. Gradually, in the pain of lovelorn, our brows began to stretch and our hearts began to soften. Whenever any film and television works or memories of our predecessors touch our heartstrings, we will still feel a little bit. Growth makes us know how to let go, learn to tolerate, learn to appreciate and learn to cherish.
? Growth is like this, constantly changing in pain and changing into a better self. At the same time, I also know how to cherish the people around me. There is no right or wrong in love, only cherish it.