I've been chasing my best self recently, and it's almost over Youth is coming to an end and love is broken. In the hottest age, we threaten death. In the simplest youth, we hurt our love beyond recognition.

It's not that we don't understand love, but that love has never been so simple. It will make you happy, make you happy, make you sad and make you cry.

These are all love, its various appearances, and the ups and downs we must accept.

After writing some love articles, some readers will ask me why he doesn't love me, why I am so kind to him but he likes others, and why love always hurts people.

In fact, many times, the so-called love in their mouths may be just ambiguous.

He just likes you being nice to him, but he doesn't like you.

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There is such a college student, a girl, kind and gentle. Like all teenage girls, she likes the tall Shuai Shuai boy who can play basketball in her class.

In universities, there are many class activities, among which the most attractive is the class basketball match.

When she was 8 points behind in the match between her class and the finance class that day, a male god wearing No.24 cut through the thorns and saved the game with a three-point whistle at the last minute. At that time, the whole stadium was boiling. Walking through the crowd, the girl saw the name behind the male god, W.J.

After that day, Wang Jian became the goddess of all the girls in the class. No, it's the male god of the whole college girl, because the official WeChat account of the college student union reported the game and gave countless close-ups of Wang Jian, Shuai Shuai's.

Young us, idol worship, an exquisite competition, a beautiful and charming song, and the first prize of a XX competition are enough to push a person to the most shining stage and become the object sought after by everyone.

Very simple, very simple, because at that time we were all synonymous with youth.

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Girls send things to Wang Jian, the male god, every day, either their favorite snacks or the wonderful pendants they see in the store. Later, she knew that Wang Jian basically didn't eat breakfast in class in the morning, so she got up early every morning when she had class, bought fried and yogurt that he loved, and then quietly put it in his desk.

At first, Wang Jian didn't know the girl. When he saw that girls often gave him things, he was embarrassed to thank him. But over time, he accepted all the gifts from the girl, added the girl's WeChat and QQ, and changed from chatting occasionally to being a good friend who talked nonsense all day.

Girls will call him when they go out to eat, and he will go out to eat and watch movies with girls when he is free.

Everyone in the class said that she was in love. Every time someone makes fun of them, Wang Jian will say that they are just good friends and really have no other relationship, while girls are shy and don't talk. The girl thought that Wang Jian was just embarrassed to say it in front of everyone.

However, she forgot that Wang Jian never said that he liked her. Every time she asked this question on WeChat, he was also vague, so he brought up another topic, only saying that he would go to dinner with the girls the next day and praised the fruit salad that the girls brought him.

Therefore, girls think that they and Wang Jian are a couple, except for nominal claims.

However, love sometimes needs to be sealed, whether it is announced loudly in front of everyone or nodded between the lines to confirm that you are my girlfriend. This is not a simple slogan, but a recognition and commitment to a feeling.

All evasion and ambiguity are just irresponsible ambiguity.

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If the girl didn't see Wang Jian standing at the door of the girl's dormitory that day and kissing the girl with her feet on the mat, she might still think that Wang Jian likes herself.

That girl is the flower of the English department, much more beautiful than her. Beneath the lovely appearance, the sweet voice charmed a group of boys.

She didn't go straight up. She just asked Wang Jian on WeChat at night, and all she got was, I'm sorry, can we be good friends in the future?

There was no screaming. The girl kept crying. She couldn't stop. Her heart ached so much that she couldn't breathe, but she couldn't make any sound. The most silent time is too uncomfortable.

The girl asked me why I was so kind to him. He also likes her behavior, her care and consideration, being with him when she is lonely and sad, and the delicious food she cooks for him ... but why doesn't he like her?

Seeing this question, I don't know how to answer. I think this Wang Jian may have never liked girls. These descriptions are just the girl's own wishful thinking, but the girl really paid her feelings, too cruel and too realistic.

So, I replied, he is blind, he doesn't understand your goodness, forget him and go on living his life.

The girl did not answer.

In fact, I prefer to say that he just likes your kindness to him, not you.

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At the best time of our lives, in short, if you are wishful thinking, you have to be willing to gamble and lose.

It's not that Han Xu doesn't like talking, but he doesn't like talking to her. Everyone's life has a special texture. In the simple texture, all the details about Han Xu are embedded, and Han Xu has become an indispensable part of simple life.

However, I have no idea. For Han Xu, she is just a dispensable passerby. If I have to say it, she may be a familiar passerby.

On the road of love, we may all meet such people. We like him, like bone marrow and blood, and try our best to be nice to him and make ourselves feel the worst. We just want to get his appreciation. We are happy when he is happy. If he is sad, we will not be happy.

This is a silly day and the most unforgettable one. On this day, we just like someone and try to be better. Many years later, in retrospect, we may still feel sorry for ourselves, the naive girl.

Finally, I simply left Han Xu. She knows that Han Xu just likes her and treats him well. There will be more people who are kind to him in the future, and gradually she may be replaced. She just wants to find a boy who likes her and can really grow old together, not Han Xu.

Therefore, all silly girls grow up after they are stupid, but they are not stupid when they grow up. I don't know whether to be happy or sad.

May you finally find your own happiness and win everything.