A good classmate came back from a blind date and was autistic.

Like an eggplant beaten by frost, it is sluggish. It's the first time I doubt myself: is this society a little too harsh on young men? ?

This classmate comes from an ordinary family and bought a suite and a car on his own. I thought going on a blind date would be the most because? Can't talk? Average-looking And failed. But I didn't expect that my proudest achievement was worthless in the eyes of that girl.

Unabashed disgust on his face:? Only a house and a car, no savings? Then forget it. You won't get the 200,000 bride price. Forget it! ?

Sometimes I feel that my feelings are quite sad now.

It suddenly occurred to me that most girls nowadays want to marry money, but there are too few rich people, so they can only settle for the second best, marry love, and don't forget to show a sincere look.

Why do you say you are sad now? You have to have money before you can talk about love. No money, no qualification to fall in love.

Marriage was originally a matter of two people and two families, but now it has become a matter of men and men.

I also have to say that some girls have really big breath now! One suite, one car,1200,000 bride price, hundreds of thousands of deposits, easy to drive. Only in this way, they have just reached the acceptable standards in their hearts.

Because the feelings want to get married, why break up.

If you want to get married because the man meets the standard, what do you have?

In fact, everyone knows this account very well, and there are no confused people. Equality between men and women cannot be just a slogan. If you just shout slogans, there is no doubt that whoever has the loudest voice will win.

02

When getting married, what is the confidence of those girls who want cars, houses and bride price? I asked three people and got different answers.

I'm afraid many girls feel the same way!

It's cruel to hold each other's love but hurt each other. In fact, a relationship, no matter which side holds such a mentality from the beginning, will not be happy even if it is married.

You don't need feelings, and sincerity can't be exchanged for sincerity. Sooner or later, you will be chilling! The normal logic should not be that I love you, so you love me, and then think of me everywhere and respond to my love?

But now it's obviously upside down. Do you love me? I didn't ask you to love me. If you love me, you should die.

At this time, what gender equality, women's self-reliance, independence, half the sky, and so on. I tried my best to appeal before, but now I don't mention anything.

Whenever I hear such words, I feel very uncomfortable. When did the bride price become the compensation for having children? Don't you think you are a tool for giving birth?

You think, you asked the man for a bride price as a reward for giving birth to a child, and you gave the bride price to your parents. Obviously, this child was born for your parents. It's not for that man.

Giving birth to a child and giving a bride price are two different things and cannot be confused. It is not easy for a woman. A man should spend his whole life to compensate and love, but this has nothing to do with the bride price. The bride price is just a beautiful meaning and custom when getting married, not a deposit for giving birth to a child. Words are rough, not rough.

03

The third girl said to me, I have everything I want from him. ?

There is no comparability between people. Some people are more capable, while others are better off.

A person with this bad point will have that good point, so he is not perfect or really useless. If you really have feelings, please tolerate me a little more! You can choose a suitable one, but if not, people have to sacrifice something for their own choices and feelings.

Of course, after two people get married, they should also have a home of their own.

There is nothing wrong with asking for a bride price, just opposing the high-priced bride price. The most important thing for two people who really love each other is to understand each other and face all the problems and difficulties together. They are still very young. As long as they are emotionally stable, there are really infinite possibilities in the future.

You are so young, but you want everything, aren't you a little impetuous?

If a boy's family is poor, his twenties or even thirties are the hardest time, but how can you love him if you are so strict with him?

Marriage, people and feelings are the most important. Do not compare with others, do not follow the trend, and establish a correct view of marriage and love.

People are not married now, and they are not married. But two young people left family of origin and re-established their own small family. And that small family needs two people to run it with sincerity and persistence.

What is more terrible than not loving is to hurt in the name of love.