2. Simple things don't quarrel, complex things don't worry, don't talk when you are angry, and don't make decisions when you are angry.
3. In the workplace, you should know that there is nothing absolutely fair, so if you feel that your colleagues are unfair to you and your leaders are unfair to you, you can be clear in your heart, don't show it on your face, and you can't go to work with complaints.
No matter how good the relationship between colleagues is, you should keep your distance. Because there is distance, there is space, and there is space to have personal privacy. The most taboo in the workplace is to inquire about the privacy of colleagues, or to tell colleagues your privacy.
5. Always mocking the boss as an idiot employee is actually the most stupid one. Self-righteous results are always shooting themselves in the foot. You know, people who can be bosses and bosses are definitely better than those who are still employees. At least in some ways, employees who don't admit this are more stupid.
6, to learn to communicate, but communication should grasp the scale, so that communication can become a medium to increase trust, tacit understanding and familiarity between colleagues.
7. No matter what kind of company you are in, I believe there are some people who like gossip. In the company, many colleagues will get together to chat, but you know, talking too much will make you suffer, and gossiping casually will easily make you suffer in the workplace. There was a colleague who especially liked gossiping and chatting. Once, he happened to find the news that a company was going to be acquired on the Internet. In the absence of confirmation, it spread among colleagues at will, making everyone uneasy all day, and finally it spread to the ears of high-level people and was directly dismissed. So, don't talk about unconfirmed gossip in front of colleagues.
8. When you leave campus and step into society, society is a "workplace", which will teach you a lot, and the workplace is like a small society. Every day in the company is a learning experience.
9. Get into the habit of thinking about your problems and troubles with the heaviest adjectives every day, or at most every week, and be honest with yourself. When criticized, you will feel that everything is still under control.
10, cleanliness is the minimum standard. For professionals who work and live in modern cities, the definition of cleanliness is to take a bath every day, change clothes every day and shine shoes every day.
1 1. Selection is greater than ability. Some people call this "fate". In fact, it is a long-neglected ability: the ability to quickly make the best choice at a critical moment.
12. In the workplace, you must get the money you can get, because money is yours only when it goes into your pocket, and it will always belong to others when it is placed outside, and promises cannot be converted into money. Therefore, you should care about every penny in the workplace, and it is the last word to put it safely in your pocket.
13. In the workplace, there must be shortcomings. A perfect person will be hated. If even the boss has an opinion of you, then the road to the workplace is "dangerous". So smart people will deliberately expose some shortcomings.
14, punctual, not late.
Whether it is school or work, being on time and not being late is a basic requirement and will not leave a good impression. Usually being late will be considered as bad faith and not taken seriously. On-time participation gives people the impression of being active, responsible, willing to take responsibility, honest and serious.
15. When you ask for leave from your superiors for personal affairs, you should call as soon as possible. Don't call you directly to tell you about the leave. If the leader doesn't ask for leave, he will feel that the leader is unreasonable and playing politics, and that he is being forced to harm. Actually, you have gone too far.
16, the resources of the company are always limited. Crying children have milk to eat, they should dare to ask the company for resources, learn to win the support of leaders and colleagues, don't just want to be good people, but want to do things well.
17, don't lie, admit your mistake, no one in the company will spoil you. Telling some lies in life may be forgiven after being exposed, because there are people who really love you, but no one in the office is your parents, so don't spoil yourself. No matter why you didn't do a good job or complete the task, it is much more useful to take the initiative to admit your mistakes than to lie, cover up and pass the buck.
18. Be grateful to those who helped you. Anyone who is willing to help you in the workplace should be grateful. Nobody in the workplace owes you anything. It is an obligation for others to help you. Don't take others' kindness for granted. You should say thank you to those who have helped you.
19, crisis analysis is a very important rule of survival in the workplace. To solve the crisis, we must first know what is the external cause of the crisis, to what extent it has reached, to what extent it will reach and what consequences it will have. When the workplace encounters a crisis, we should calmly observe the current situation and try to find out the main contradiction of the problem; At the same time, calmly analyze yourself and find out what is the personal reason for your crisis, how much impact it will have on your situation, what results it will lead to, and whether you can overcome the crisis.
20. The process is more critical than the result. "Speak with numbers, be result-oriented and think inward" is regarded as the three golden rules of corporate governance by many enterprises, but what is the difference between "result-oriented" and "process-oriented"? Should enterprises advocate result orientation, and how can they achieve satisfactory results?
The essence of "result-oriented" is to take the result as the selection point, and everything revolves around how to achieve the result; The essence of "process orientation" is to take the process as the core and emphasize the importance of the process. The two focus on different goals. Many business managers shout all day: "Only results, no process". In fact, "result-oriented" control can only play the role of "mending after the sheep is dead", because the final result is lagging behind, and in the decision-making process, decisions must be made according to the latest market information. If we rely solely on "results",
2 1, avoid being in a bad mood and complaining. You should maintain a high emotional state at work, even if you encounter setbacks, be wronged and lose the trust of your leaders, don't be full of complaints and grievances. The result of doing so will only be counterproductive. Either attract colleagues, or be looked down upon by colleagues.
22. Don't pry into colleagues' privacy. In a civilized environment, everyone should respect the privacy of others. Spying into other people's privacy has always been regarded as a low-quality and uneducated behavior. Therefore, in dealing with colleagues, we should keep a proper distance, and be careful not to invade other people's "territory" casually, so as not to be hated by colleagues and unwilling to associate with you.
23. Many companies are just superficial articles and have little time to do practical things every day. Don't wait for such a company just because you can't learn anything substantial.
24, the first job in life, you must think more, don't give your life positioning at will, only a planned job can help your future.
25, treat competitors, evidence is the best way to contain. There will be competitors wherever you go. It's good to have good competitors. Everyone can compete head-on and improve themselves. However, some competitors will only play some tricks and become a stumbling block behind others.
27. Have a bottom line and don't always give in like a soft persimmon. Be hard when it's hard. I mean action, not lip service.
28. Respect comes from real strength, and good interpersonal skills will only play a role on the basis of strength.
29. The fundamental attitude of others towards you does not depend on what you have done, but more importantly, who you are. In an interpersonal communication with unequal strength, the weak party always fantasizes that the other party can pay for itself. Let's abandon this fantasy.
Sometimes, a person doesn't trust others because he knows himself too well. Similarly, a person hates others because they are too much like themselves. At the same time, there is nothing you can do for yourself.
3 1, in the workplace, once there is an abnormal situation, many people will know it in the blink of an eye. Therefore, we should speak and do things correctly and give positive comments to our colleagues.
32. Women determine the happiness of the previous generation, the happiness of this generation and the future of the next generation. So men decide the fate of women's lives, and women decide the fate of men's three generations!
If you hate me, I don't mind at all, because I don't live to please you.
34. Your kindness is like a candy to others. It's gone after eating it. On the contrary, your bad, to others, is like a scar. If you leave it, it will last forever. This is human nature.
Among good friends, you must cultivate a bosom friend. Don't think you are so versatile and have many friends. In the end, there is only one person who really cares about you. Trust me.
Don't spend all your spare time in bars, read some literary works and learn some business processes, management norms, international current affairs and legal knowledge. This will ensure that you have something to talk about at any party.
37. Dealing with a hypocritical person is not to scold him or expose him, but to let him continue to be sad and hypocritical, and then pretend that he knows nothing. Then slowly, many people will take the initiative to tell you how hypocritical he is.
38. I believe that a beautiful life is an unspeakable elegy, which overflows the loneliness in my heart and has already turned into ice, and you are the most beautiful note of this season.
39. When you are integrated into the Milky Way, you will quietly light up the sky with the bright moon; Walking into the grass, just smile and join hands with the breeze to dye the green earth. This can also be regarded as being kind to life and living up to the years.
40. Clouds of thoughts tossed and turned, and finally landed in my palm. Gorgeous as neon, sad as morning mist. I can see you clearly, and you can see me clearly. We are on the same horizon, dreaming different dreams. My dream is as white as a flower, and yours is as red as a sunset glow.
Your own summary, try to write some comprehensive for everyone:
1, don't overestimate your position in anyone's heart. The other person is the treasure in your heart, and you may be the grass in others' eyes.
5, don't leave the worst emotions to the closest and favorite people, or you will regret it one day, and it's too late to regret it. Money is very important, but don't hurt someone who really loves you for money. No amount of money can make up for a broken heart.
6. Be upright, speak tactfully, and don't speak straight. That's not true temperament. You have offended others, and you don't know it. China people can neither please nor offend. Bury your pride in your heart. Be a man like a resilient grass, not like a towering tree that breaks easily in a storm.
8. Any person, thing or relationship that makes you feel uncomfortable and unsafe, it is very important for each of us to stay away for the first time and stop the loss in time.
9. Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action. I will say anything, but most people actually don't like to hear the truth. What they need is the echo of others, which is a well-meaning "lie". Praise each other more, you will be surprised after a long time.
13, interpersonal communication is the most taboo, which will make the other party feel that he is not a serious friend. Find someone else if you have something to do, and disappear if you have nothing to do.
15. If someone around you deliberately approaches you to please you, everything the other person says will suit your heart and please you. You should pay attention, this may not be true love for you, but it may be a trap.
16. When dealing with contradictions and disputes, you should be gentle in tone and firm in attitude, so that the other party can realize that you are here to solve things, not to make trouble. Don't swear, it will only irritate each other and escalate the contradiction. Leave a line in everything so that we can meet again later. If you handle things with this skill, everyone will look up to you and give you face.
18, don't make an impulsive decision in the middle of the night, and have a good sleep at night. It is not too late to make a decision when you are calm the next day.
19, the more you cherish a relationship, the more you hold the other person in your hand and do everything possible to be nice to him, the more the other person thinks you are dispensable.
When you are young, you must try to earn more money. It doesn't matter whether you have more money or less, as long as you have a way, and develop more sideline businesses. As you get older, it will become more and more difficult to earn money. Learning ability, knowledge updating speed and physical fitness can't keep up.
2 1. Appreciating a person begins with face value, respects talent, fits in with personality, is good at kindness, and finally has personality. Spend more time with people with similar views, your life will benefit and your friendship will last for a long time.
22. The person who speaks ill of you is not because of his low emotional intelligence, but because you are worthless in his eyes and he can't curry favor with you. He just looks down on you, that's all. When he meets dignitaries, rich people will say good things.
What people say and what they really think are often two different things. It is simple to know what a person really thinks, just watch what he does.
24, "hidden rules", "bottom line" these things, for some people can be infinitely suppressed, in the eyes of some people really only benefit.
26. You may not see people's hearts for a long time, because people's hearts will change, especially when the benefits are large enough. It is necessary to guard against people.
27. Some people said they would invite you to dinner and get together, but they didn't agree on a specific time. That's being polite to you. Don't take it seriously. Friends who sincerely invite you to dinner will make an appointment in advance.
28. Don't go to other people's homes empty-handed. According to the custom in China, you should bring at least two things. Nobleness is not important. What matters is your mind and the other person's face. It is the same to ask others to do one thing. Remember to express it when you are done, and it is also a matter of finding someone else next time.
29. A threesome must have a teacher. If you don't understand, just ask. There's no shame. It's a shame to be poked without pretending to understand. When you meet someone who is willing to teach himself, don't forget to express it afterwards. Don't use people to face forward, don't use people to face back.
30. A lie needs a hundred lies to be round. Adults should not lie casually, even white lies. Over time, it will affect your credit and image in the hearts of others.
3 1. Talk to your opponent as loudly as possible every day, forming a shocking momentum. When talking to strangers, the volume should be moderate, and when talking to close people, the volume should be low to keep privacy.
Don't always complain about your misfortune or difficulties to others. Say it once, maybe the other person will sympathize with you. If you talk too much, people will only avoid you.
33. Eat people with short mouths and short hands. If you owe money to others, try to pay it back as soon as possible. If you don't take the initiative to return, after the other party lets everyone in the circle know, it will not be worth the candle.
35. Don't discuss with others everywhere and don't talk about it everywhere until things are done successfully. Otherwise, things didn't work out in the end, and I became a joke.
36. Old classmates who haven't seen each other for many years spend all day in the WeChat circle of friends, sunbathing in luxury villas and traveling abroad. You should be careful. Those photos may have been shown to you on purpose. Beware of "new killing pig plate"
37. There are no eternal enemies and no eternal friends. What connects the emotional relationship of adults is tangible benefits.
38. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Don't force others to do things you don't want to do unless you want them to alienate you.
39. For friends of the opposite sex who used to play well, once the other person is in love, you should take the initiative to keep your distance. Because the other half won't believe that you are just ordinary friends, so don't make trouble for yourself. One more thing is better than one less thing.
40. Don't promise things that you can't do easily, or the other party will think that you have broken your promise in the future.
4 1. If you want to get closer to your colleagues, you can give them a small gift on their birthdays, except a red envelope, which is not expensive but beautiful, and colleagues will think of you as soon as they see it.
42. Don't speak ill of your colleagues in the office. Talk about the gossip of the boss, and someone will embellish it and spread it to you.
1, don't dispute with everyone.
At the age of 20, you should know that it is useless to please people. You please everyone except yourself.
Being a man and being proper to yourself will make you happier and attract people who really like you to be close to you.
2, don't joke easily, that's not humor, just a mouth.
All jokes are subconscious truths. Too many jokes, one day, others will attack.
3. Don't argue with others about length and right and wrong.
There are more ideological differences between people than between people and gorillas. Don't try to beat anyone in words, it's useless, you can't beat anyone.
Of course, just keep this sentence in mind silently and don't say it as a weapon to fight back.
You are about to graduate, or have entered the society. Don't spend too much money or borrow money to spend.
Although money is not saved, it is really hard to earn. When you are young, don't borrow money to live a life of excessive consumption or excessive consumption.
Don't listen to the statement that the daily interest rate of a treasure or a letter is 15000 yuan or 13000 yuan. If the comprehensive annual interest rate is above 18%, don't borrow money from small loan companies.
Don't spend too much money or borrow money to spend.
Don't spend too much money or borrow money to spend.
If you really need a loan to start a business or invest in yourself, you must control the amount and borrow from formal channels.
5, few words, love to argue, as a good eloquence.
True eloquence is only in one case, that is, you can quickly grasp each other's needs and give you an accurate response.
6. Softness without boundaries will only make the other side push your luck; Unprincipled kindness will only let the other person do whatever he wants.
Hold your own borders, and when others invade, tell them clearly-no!
Kindness requires principles, and some people and things are doomed to be unworthy of kindness, so don't let the heart of the Virgin overflow.
7. Networking is not how many people you know, but how many people you can help.
If you can help others, you will be valuable to others, and then they may help you.
8. Whether you are working for someone or starting your own business, you must master some workplace skills and rules.
9. When you enter the society, what you bring out from school is only ability, just learning ability.
10, all the irritability is because there is no money. All the pain is because you can't make money.
1 1 But the meaning between men and women often begins with "sorry" and ends with "really boring".
12, I'll pay the bill = I'm just saying, that's what I mean. I'll pay the bill = I'm serious!
13, don't overuse your gender bonus. Especially girls, will only make others look down upon them.
14, success is the mother of success, and time is the father of success. Use time to accumulate small successes, deepen a field, and strive to achieve TOP5%. The road to success will never be congested, because few people persist.
15, there are often sudden insults in society, which must be endured.
16, giving others more positive affirmation is also accumulating good karma for yourself.
17, the so-called poor thinking, just thinking when there is no money. If you want to make the right choice as much as possible, pretend to be a rich man. This is the thinking of the rich.
18, don't leave bad feelings to the closest people. No explanation.
19, believe me, you will always overestimate the role of one day and underestimate the impact of one year. Keep doing it and be a friend of time.
20, face value and money, in 99% of the time, is a passport to walk the rivers and lakes.
2 1, whether you accept it or not, the world depends on the result.
Don't put all your money in, leave more cash.
23. Don't listen to high-yield and high-return, that's not a huge risk, that's a liar.
The only sign of maturity is that you don't care about the views of the opposite sex.
25, the secret of success is actually very simple, that is, continue to do one thing, do it to the extreme, and enjoy the dividend of time.
Tang Jiasan Shao 10 has updated 8000 words every day for many years and never stopped writing. Every day except eating and sleeping is a code word. When his wife gave birth to a child, he wrote online articles outside the delivery room.
It's not that most people can't find a good trajectory, but they are always worried that they are not taking a good trajectory, looking around and eventually achieving nothing.
26, chicken soup is not unreasonable, but chicken soup has been highly concentrated and simplified the truth, did not tell you all kinds of accidents outside the truth, and will not tell you those shady.
27. If you want long-term happiness, you must give up most of the short-term happiness.
Tik Tok, you can be stupid all day, and then what? One day, you have to pay it back. Long-term happiness is based on short-term unhappiness.
28. Choice is more important than effort. However, choice is not for you to gamble. Choice itself is a skill, which needs you to practice and improve deliberately.
29. "Don't make a promise unless it's appropriate. If it is light, it will be promised, and if it is heavy, it will advance and retreat. " -"Disciples Rules"
Don't complain about what you promised, and don't promise what you complained.
When you encounter difficulties, don't immerse yourself in them, and try to solve them. Then, you will find that 99% of your troubles have disappeared in the process of solving the problem.