Women's psychology after cheating, whether men or women, will change greatly both physically and psychologically, especially when the object of their cheating is a dream lover or a strong person who can bring great benefits to themselves. This change will be more obvious. In fact, a sensitive husband should be able to detect this subtle change in time.
Generally speaking, there are two situations in which women cheat:
First, a happy marriage, family stability, cheating;
One is the unfortunate marriage and the derailment of family crisis.
The psychological reactions of two kinds of women are completely different.
People who are happily married will have three significant psychological changes after cheating:
First, I feel more guilty. I feel sorry for my husband, my parents and my family, and I am better for my family in my daily behavior. Some women are uncharacteristically gentle and considerate to their husbands, more filial to their parents and more caring for their children, and seem to become more sensible overnight. If the husband knows well and insists on telling the truth, or pretends not to know, then he will enjoy the gentlest care for a long time. Perhaps, at this moment, he is the happiest person in the world;
Second, pay special attention to your appearance. These women suddenly become fond of dressing up, making up, and observing themselves in front of the mirror for a long time. I don't know why women always have flushed faces and wet palms. In some cases, she will be lonely for a long time. Third, they suddenly become particularly sensitive. Some women have become inexplicably sensitive to some gossip and even become suspicious. They are always worried about what others will find and speak ill of themselves. If the husband can find out his wife's cheating behavior and the problem in time, then a gentle and virtuous woman may suddenly become hysterical again, and her feelings for her husband may plummet, even endangering family stability.
There are also three psychological changes after an unhappy marriage is derailed:
First, the happiness index has greatly improved. Because of the unfortunate marriage, women are already very painful and worried. Once they break through the fence and liberate themselves, they will have a sense of release that they have never had before, and their pain will be alleviated. This release includes revenge and resistance, both psychological and physical.
Second, family values have weakened. The derailed women are getting farther and farther away from their families, and even have the concept of indifference. Some women began to gradually dilute their feelings for their husbands, children and the elderly, and even became disgusted, bored and disgusted with them.
The third is the persistent pursuit of love. Due to the misfortune of marriage, women are more persistent in love after cheating, and they are more worried about whether their feelings are true. They will give birth to a potential expectation of establishing a new family, which will be stronger day by day and may reach an unmanageable level.
There are two main trends in women's psychological changes after cheating:
First, be suddenly enlightened and feel comfortable;
First, I become restless and feel inexplicably bad.
This is mainly due to the differences in women's actual situation and marital status. It's not a big deal or a shame for a woman to cheat. The world has not changed because of this. Everything remains the same, but the difference is the difference in people's inner world. If a woman must cheat, are you ready to cheat? Leisure psychological quality is the best mood for a woman to cheat. But not every woman has it.
The above is about a woman's psychology after cheating. I said, unless she doesn't want to live anymore, she will always feel guilty. If you plan to live with her again, you must choose to forgive, don't push her to the other side, and pull her into your arms. That's right!
10 all kinds of psychology of women after cheating 1, uneasy type
According to my research, most women who cheat have this psychological state after cheating. Many women who cheat for the first time have this kind of psychological state, and their marriage relationship is also very complicated, including worry, fear, self-blame, panic, fidgeting and upset. Worried about the fact that he cheated, ashamed to be a man, and even abandoned it for divorce; Blame yourself for being sorry for your family; Scared each other to pester themselves, ask for marriage or elopement, and even be retaliated by each other.
2. Can't stop.
Did this psychological woman taste the sweetness in the derailment? Sweetness? Take cheating as fun, hope the other party will give it again and take the initiative to meet. If the other party doesn't agree, some will find another target, others will pursue it, never give up until they reach their goal, and even make extreme behavior. What I want to say is that this kind of psychologically derailed woman is basically unfortunate in marriage and love, which is caused by hunger and thirst!
3. Insensitive type
Such a psychological woman doesn't know herself, and even shouts that the more depraved she is, the happier she will be! I don't care about a man's age, appearance or money. As long as you feel it, you will take it off yourself. I don't know which men I have had sex with, or even their names. Some of these women have suffered domestic violence or cold violence for a long time.
4, gloating type
Women with this mentality have a serious revenge mentality in their hearts. Its purpose is to cuckold and even shout:? Fight with me and cuckold you, which serves you right! ? Some of these women are violent or men have mistresses, and their hearts are full of hatred!
5. Never forget the type.
This psychological woman, for that man, she is hard to forget. Even because of each other's sadness and joy. It's a pity that happiness is so little. Thinking of that person is sadness and pain. This category includes individual unmarried women falling in love with married men; Or have had an unforgettable true love for a long time, it is difficult to forget it completely, always thinking about each other's good.
6. Disappointed
Women with this mentality regard having a lover as fashion. But because of my own reasons, I am worried that my figure is not good enough, I feel that I am not beautiful, and I don't believe that any man really loves her. Once you run into a wall and get cheated, you will call men nothing. Some people cheat hopefully, but the result is disappointing! This man is far from his husband or boyfriend.
7. Satisfied type
The purpose of this psychological woman's derailment is to balance her mentality. She was always angry when she learned that her husband was cheating on her. I want a divorce, but I can't help it. By chance, I cheated, but I felt very satisfied. Turn a blind eye to her husband's infidelity. There are also some women who feel that they have only loved one man in their life and suffered a loss, so they have to love another one to let go of acne.
8. Leisure and self-satisfied type
Such a psychological woman doesn't take cheating seriously at all, as if nothing had happened. Some people even smoke in after making love. She doesn't know what shame and blushing are in her mind. Instead, she laughs at men and women who she thinks are conservative, men and women who don't know how to live and enjoy!
9. Become a thin air type
Such psychological women, their slogan is not to hug for a long time, but to have. Play missing after cheating, so that the other party can't find themselves.
10, avoidance type
Women with this mentality will be proud if they are cheated of sex or money by swindlers, and when the relevant parties come to investigate and refuse to admit that they have an affair with this man, they will be cheated by this man. It is inconvenient for the relevant parties to punish the emotional liar!
What are the traces of women's infidelity? 1, activity increased.
This is actually one of the most important details in habit change. Once the unsociable lover begins to go out in various occasions, we can't say that the wife's personality changed from introversion to extroversion in the morning, indicating that the cuckold husband is not far from you.
2. the cost has soared.
After a woman has an affair, her expenses increase, and most of the money is spent on buying a series of private cosmetics to ensure that her youth is invincible and attract men. Sometimes, she will deliberately express her true feelings to the man she likes, such as suits. Men spend money on mistresses, and so do women, so she secretly saves money and hides all the extra income from her husband to meet her own needs.
Step 3 change habits
According to common sense, most of the sudden changes in some of our habits and routines have a reason. For example, a person who is not very enthusiastic about the work of the unit suddenly claims that he is very busy at work recently, needs to work overtime, and wants to go out on a business trip. This is incredible.
4. Emotional impermanence
When a person is doing something that even he feels disgraced and loses to others, he is often timid. He always tries his best to cover up the truth, hide its traces, and try his best to keep things within the smallest scope, so as not to expose his failure and arouse the vigilance and suspicion of onlookers.
5. Family alienation
As a mother, even her own flesh and blood began to be ignored. We have to doubt the truth behind what his wife did. It is unforgivable for a man to abandon his wife and children. Then it is absolutely unforgivable for a woman to play nightlife outside with her husband and children and have fun with strange men.
6. Memory loss
Women in love are often much more delicate than men's hearts. Men are often careless and dignified, but women can still remember interesting things about your love period.
7.● Sex life
Sexual life is often the touchstone to test the relationship between husband and wife. A wife who is changing her mind or has changed her mind does not have the usual sense of fire and warmth in sexual life.