Actually, there's no need to struggle. First, I usually think about equality between men and women, not male chauvinism. However, when it comes to bringing home the bacon and wages, I ask the man to be more capable and pay more than the woman. So isn't this a return to male chauvinism? Only the latter is narrower. These are all old ideas. Men are more capable than women, and they have to rely on men to support their families. In fact, in reality, I think as long as the gap is not particularly large, it mainly depends on the man's attitude. If he is not outstanding in ability and self-motivated, and thinks that he will not be strong after muddling along, such a boy is not worth entrusting. But if he has a strong sense of responsibility, but his ability is insufficient, not just shouting slogans, but making you feel that he is really trying to change himself and improve himself, then I think such a boy is not paying as much as you at present, or will not pay for a long time in the future.

As for the state of life, it depends on what kind of life you want to live, earn more in one day, live a rich life and earn less in one day. There is also the consumption level of the city, that is to say, in Beijing, some people earn more than 1k a month and live with petty bourgeoisie, but they still can't save any money and become a moonlight family, but some people only earn about 45,000 yuan a month, but they save about 2 weeks a year. So it depends on what kind of life you can accept and what kind of goals you have for your future life. You can also talk to him. Now social feelings are on the one hand, and material reality is on the other. You can't pursue material needs if you can't be kidnapped by morality. Must suffer with you, or I won't love you? If he has such an idea, it is not worth loving, but as I said before, if he loves you, it must be because you will change yourself and try to make your life better. Don't just talk, let you see and feel.