Teaching method: combine theory with practice, design scenes for children to participate in!
Teaching content: respect elders, don't call them by their first names, respect elders, and don't look at their own abilities.
Lu Yu long, impatient, speechless, back.
Get on the horse, get off the bus, stay where you are, and walk at a hundred paces.
Review content: What are the family rules in your family? Please tell the children separately! Let everyone study together.
Main course contents:
Young people should call their elders by their first names. For example: you call mom! There is no need to add his name before mom. "So-and-so mom!" When addressing teachers or other people, in order to distinguish different people, you can add a surname in front of them. For example: "a teacher" and "a master"! "Some uncle" and so on. Don't even call your elders by their first names in front of others. These are all very impolite. In order to respect Confucius, the ancients did not dare to call him Kong Qiu by his first name, but only called him Confucius. Even dare not directly write his name, and write less Qiu Lai on behalf of his name. To show respect for the saints. So we children should know these manners. Don't show arrogance in front of your elders. You are young, short-lived and inexperienced. Although you are capable, you can't show your ability in front of the old people. Besides, our ability is limited, others will think you are ignorant and ridiculous! You should listen to your elders with an open mind! If an elder needs you to do something, you can only say, try it and see if you can do it well. Show the modesty of our junior.
2- Trend: the meaning of walking! In the past, when people saw their elders, they immediately bowed down. The elders will nod back or say hello to you! Only when your elders pass by can you go your own way! Now many students see the teacher as if they didn't see it, and they don't know any manners! When I grow up, I also see the leaders of the unit. Don't say hello, just don't want to see them in person. Hide when you see people! It can be seen that he has never learned etiquette and does not know how to respect people.
3- Get on the horse and get off. In ancient times, the general means of transportation was riding a horse or riding a carriage. Then meet your elders, dismount or get off the bus and pay tribute to them. Don't leave until the elders have passed. In fact, this is just a courtesy, and you don't have to wait for a hundred steps to go.
Summary: A child said, "We don't ride horses now, we all take buses. How to say hello to the old man? " We should combine ancient etiquette with today's life. If you meet a neighbor (grandpa, grandma, uncle, aunt) who you meet frequently, you can say hello: "Good morning!" " "Long time no see relatives and friends, meet will bow! Salute the team when you meet the teacher! Under what circumstances can you not salute? People can talk, go to the toilet, wash their faces, be in the car and be informal in inconvenient places! Especially on roads and intersections. Can't distract people. Others are above, you are below, don't say "hello"! One side is dangerous.
There are guests at home, how to send them away? Don't bang when people go out! Close the door!
Don't close the door until the guests are out of sight! Guests who don't come often are not familiar with your home environment, so you should send them to the station site and wait until they get on the bus! Guests traveling far away should be sent to the bus or railway station, and they can only leave when the bus has left! To show respect!
The guest who delivers the elevator can't turn around until the elevator door is closed! And the kind words "Welcome to come again next time!" Or "go slow! I won't send it away! " And "goodbye!" Wait a minute. As a guest, you should also reply to the host: "Please stay!" Don't send it again! "Children should learn slowly in life practice!
Classroom exercise: Learn handshake etiquette today: (correct method)
When you meet a guest, your hand extends at a 45-degree angle. At the same time, the waist should be slightly bent, not too straight, which will make people feel arrogant!
When holding each other's hands, don't be too hard or too loose. Too hard, it will hurt each other, and it is impolite! If you don't hurry, people will think you are perfunctory and not enthusiastic! Keep your eyes on each other and talk at the same time. For example: "Hello!" "Welcome!" Wait a minute. Time can't be too long. Don't hold other people's hands. Some people will never stop shaking. These are not standardized.
Especially when a man holds a lady's hand, he can't hold it! It will make people feel rude!
When shaking hands, we should pay attention to several questions:
1. When men and women shake hands, women must reach out before men can reach out.
Between the elder and the younger generation, the elder must reach out first, and the younger generation can shake hands with the elder.
Between the guest and the host, the host must reach out before the guest can shake hands.
4. Between the superior and the subordinate, the superior reaches out first, and the subordinate can only shake hands.
Introducers also have rules:
1. When you go to a strange place, you should introduce new friends to old friends first.
2. If there are women, introduce men first, and then introduce women.
3. Between the old and the young, introduce the young first, then the old.
4. The guest and host should be introduced first, and then the host should be introduced.
5. Between the superior and the subordinate, introduce the subordinate first, and then introduce the superior.
Interaction: Ask some children who are willing to participate to practice the etiquette of shaking hands.
Homework: Be familiar with the text in this chapter.