Parents' comments on military training 1 I have been in a bad mood since I heard that my child is going to military training, because my body has been plagued by illness. Therefore, I especially want my child to spend more time with me, fearing that I will not see him one day. I felt so sad when I watched the child leave. Nevertheless, I let him go according to his wishes. Seeing the child happy, I am also happy for him at the moment. Because the children are brought up by myself, I have to do everything for them, so it is also a good opportunity to exercise. One day or two, I watched my children live a life I had never experienced before during military training. As a mother, I am especially happy for him, but my body can't control it. It gets worse every day, and the more I miss my children. I finally had to take him back, and now I feel sorry for him.
Since then, I feel guilty and hope he can spend every day happily here.
The school organizes the annual military training practice life, which enhances the children's awareness of self-protection and cultivates the quality of unity among students. At the same time, parents and children also tried the taste and feeling of separation for the first time.
In the past, every day after school, the children would come back and shout, "I'm back!" " "Then hurry up and finish your homework. Take time to tell me something interesting that happened at school that day, so that I can enjoy the fun of my childhood and his innocent thoughts. Grow up with him in busy days. Then I saw his tired body fall asleep at night, and the sound sleep was so carefree, and the child's innocence was vividly displayed in his sleep.
During his absence, the family was quiet, but this silence did not bring us peace, but a sense of loneliness and boredom. There is no laughter in the past at home, only patient expectation. Turning the calendar quickly every day has become a habit. Coupled with the changes in the weather, I can't help but worry about the children's warmth and coldness. I know there is nothing wrong with the careful care of teachers and instructors, but no matter how I convince myself, I can't help but feel anxious! After several days of expectation, I finally got the news from the head teacher, saying, "The children are all fine, don't worry. Go back to school early tomorrow morning! " I arrived at the school gate early the next morning, waiting for the arrival of the children. Looking at the orderly team getting off the bus, the first feeling is that the child has grown up and listened carefully to his life experience in military training these days on the way home. That kind of tone is very vivid, and that kind of practical feeling makes me sit up and take notice of him. Military training benefited him a lot.
After the child came back, the family recovered its old joy and laughter. After several days of military training, he not only felt sensible, but also saw his progress and realized the importance of home. It's interesting to have him at home. He is the baby of the family!
After four days of military training, the children are black and thin, but their faces are filled with joy and pride of returning from victory.
A few days before the military training, the teacher sent a message telling us to have social practice activities and to cultivate children's self-care ability in all directions. In fact, military training is a kind of life experience for children, which can cultivate children's hard-working spirit and mutual help and friendship between children and classmates. 1 1 On the morning of February 2, my heart slowly lifted when I watched the bus carrying the children go away. After all, it is the first time for children to live such a collective life, and it will change again. Will the child adapt? Not long after, Mr Duan, our class teacher in Class 4, Grade 4, sent back the photos of the children making their beds after they arrived at the base. Then pictures of lunch and dinner at night came. Every day. It can be said that with the photos sent back by Teacher Duan, I spent four days of military training for my children, and my heart gradually relaxed. Here I want to say sincerely: "Teacher Duan, you have worked hard!" It is your conscientious care that makes the children feel at home and have a good military training class. When I saw the first photo you sent me back, I felt an emotion spread in my heart, which made me realize again that it is not only their parents who always care about their children. ...
One or two days after the child comes back, we can see many subtle changes from her: the tone of voice is no longer so capricious; Her daily and school supplies are no longer placed at will; Talk a lot, always tell me everything during military training; I also know that I care about my parents and relatives. My heart suddenly relieved, yes, the environment can change and experience people's hearts. The short collective life has been like a brush, washing away the children's femininity and pride. All the efforts made by Mr. Duan and the instructor are to make their weak wings tough and prevent themselves from becoming flowers and plants in the greenhouse.
Finally, I wish the children a tough personality on the road of growth, which will benefit them for life.
Military Training Parents Comments 4 Military training has been going on until today, and I think children should have adapted to this pace of life. After military training, you will be able to easily face any difficulties in the future.
Every parent is looking forward to the success of his son and his daughter. Every child is a treasure in the hearts of parents, and they are unwilling to let their children suffer. Like many parents, I go outside the campus every day after work, climb the fence half a person high, sharpen my head and look at the playground, hoping to see the heroic figure of my child, but after a few days, everything seems to be just a little psychological comfort except taking a few photos from a distance. But children have gained something. Of course, this gain contains a lot of ups and downs, but these are all things that books can't learn. It should be said that all our children have had such extraordinary experiences, which I believe will leave a deep imprint on their minds. In the days to come, every time I recall this military training, their faces will show a sweet smile. I believe they will persist until the end of military training. This willpower will continue in the future study, and it is nothing to suffer a little.
Young people's wisdom makes the country wise, young people's wealth makes the country rich, and young people's strength makes the country strong. Children, you are the future of the motherland, and you are the hope of the motherland. Come on!
What will happen to children after five days of military training? Can he get used to it? Can he bear hardships? Is he embarrassed or fat? Does he miss home? Although the teacher's short message reported peace every day, I came to the school gate early with these questions, waiting for the children who came back from military training.
All the children in camouflage came out in high spirits. Where are my children? Yes, my son and classmates came out, talking and laughing. God, why are you tanned like black charcoal? Why are you so dark? Has your voice changed? Why is it so hoarse and low? No way. He's not old enough to change his voice. Besides, will there be such a big change in five days? I am full of question marks?
The child told me that he actually ate six big buns at noon! Six. Usually eat up to three big buns at home.
I asked the child why his voice was hoarse or changed. The child said that he shouted slogans, and the instructor said that his voice was not hoarse and he was not a good student in military training. He also said that some students in the class were speechless and could only express themselves with big gestures. What's going on here? It was not until the students greeted me one by one that I found that all the students had changed their voices. It seems that the test of military training for children has been highlighted, at least children can listen to and obey orders in a unified way.
I took my bag and took the children home. When I opened the child's backpack, I found that the child had neatly folded the changed clothes and put them in the bag. All the clothes were washed. I've always been proud of this, because the child has gone to Xia Liying and can wash his own clothes. The clothes he brought home must be washed, even if they are not completely dry. By the way, I asked if all my classmates had washed their clothes. The child said that a classmate had brought dirty clothes home. Oh, yes, I want to encourage my children to form good habits and stick to them. It seems that he has tried.
How is military training life? What have you learned? Are you happy living with your classmates? Are you used to eating? A series of questions puzzled the child. He doesn't know that for five days, his mother's heart has been hanging, caring and missing. Looking at the child's tanned face, I don't know what to say, and tears are almost falling.
When the child grew up, he told me that when he first went, 1-2 days was a little emotional. Teachers and instructors are very patient and care about him. The colorful life in the military camp attracted him, and later he got used to it. I asked him what he had learned and what he had gained. The child is very happy. He told me that he had learned a set of military gymnastics and would give a speech at school tomorrow. Do you want me to have a look? I said, can you show it to mom first? He said it was a secret, haha, so cute.
The children tell me their daily life time. I really don't believe they can get up at 5: 30, do morning exercises, listen to the radio (children say they can't hear anything clearly on the radio), have breakfast, train in the morning, take a bath at noon, train in the afternoon and have activities in the evening. Really rich. No wonder the children came back and said that life in the military camp was really good. They haven't stayed enough and want to go next time. The children seem to fall in love with camp life.
The next day, I went to the playground attached to the primary school to watch the children's military training performance. When each team walked past the rostrum with neat steps, and when the boys performed group calisthenics, I was moved by the loud shouts, neat movements and magnificent posture. Parents around are constantly clapping and taking pictures; The freshmen cheered and applauded, and the teachers finally showed a relieved smile on their faces.
Military camp life can really forge children's will and team spirit. Military camp life can let children know that after strict training, everyone has their own irreplaceable talents, all of which are good. The life in the military camp also makes the children find self-confidence and glow with the vitality of primitive youth.
Thanks to the hard care of teachers, the strict guidance of instructors, and even more thanks to the school for giving children such a good exercise opportunity; This kind of training, in their life journey, is a valuable spiritual wealth and the best memory of their youth. It is their spiritual motivation to overcome themselves and not be afraid of difficulties in life, study and work in the future. May the children be healthy and happy forever!
Comments from parents of military training 6 (1)
As the school said, military training is an important way to enhance college students' national defense concept and improve their military quality and ability. Through military training, you can learn knowledge outside the textbook and truly appreciate the spirit of "never giving up" and team spirit ... You have been participating in military training since primary school, and I believe that military training is not terrible for you. The important thing is that every military training makes you get different results. Military training is a good educational opportunity. I hope you can get exercise, strengthen your physique, and pay attention to rest at the same time, and successfully complete this military training task! Come on!
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A password from the PLA uncle, a whistle and a military song spread all over the playground. How many pairs of expectant eyes, how many pairs of warm hands and how many loving hearts are watching, caring and looking forward to your growth.
Military training is bitter and tiring, and it can also temper people! Today, you have realized that mechanical repetitive movements, straight lines and squares, daily repetitive routines and boring life may not make you feel anything directly, but I believe that tomorrow and the future will definitely benefit you a lot.
To be an eagle fighting the sky, you must practice a pair of wings that are not afraid of wind, frost, rain and snow. Come on, Kitty Hawk!
(3)
My dear child xxx, you are the sunshine in my life and my eternal pride! Your happiness touches my heart, and your growth is my eternal concern! I hope you will grow up happily and healthily. I hope you have a sunny attitude, be proactive, be a man with an appreciation attitude, and pay attention to all your friends with a grateful heart. I hope you will never be complacent in your studies and always take the initiative; I hope you will be tolerant and understand, and accept and face people and life with a broad mind; I hope you learn to be strong, not overwhelmed by difficulties and not afraid of difficulties; I hope you have lofty ideals and goals in life, plan your life well and get out of your own excitement! I hope you will be a responsible person. Dear son, of course, mom still has a lot to look forward to. I hope you are honest, optimistic, frugal and grateful. I believe you can do all this well. Come on, son!
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I hope you can get satisfactory results in this military training, and don't be afraid of hardship. Only you can bear hardships and stand hard work and walk towards your goal with firm perseverance. No matter how much pain and sorrow you experience, as long as you keep trying and don't give up, you will always achieve your goal. This military training is a certain training for your growth and a good opportunity to exercise yourself. Good physical fitness is the capital of learning. Only with good physical fitness and unremitting efforts can we achieve good results in our studies. In short, since you have gone, do it well and don't leave any regrets.
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Although military training is very bitter, it is also very rewarding, which can cultivate your collective life and the ability to unite and fight. It can cultivate your brave and tenacious work style and cultivate your independent life and uniform living habits. It is an indispensable and important course in life. I hope you will take it seriously, work hard to complete all tasks and strive for good results.
It has been a week since parents' military training. Although Yi Ming didn't complain too much about the hard military training, her parents still felt distressed when they heard her tired voice. However, I have always believed that military training will be a good exercise opportunity for those who are used to an easy life and have not suffered anything.
Although the child has never left my side, and she has never encountered any setbacks in her life, and everything is used to being arranged by her parents, I still told her to stick to it. If she can't eat this pain, how can you face life independently in the future? But when the words came out, I regretted it. I think maybe children are like this now. Could it be that I asked too much of him, which aroused her inner reaction and made her dislike military training?
After observing for a few days, I also asked her about her recent military training. If she is really tired, please take a vacation. However, Yi Ming's reaction was beyond my expectation. She said, "That won't do. Everyone is suffering from military training. I want to rest alone. What's wrong? " I will stick to it, it's just military training, mom, don't worry! "
After listening to her words, I feel very happy and gratified. Indeed, our parents don't trust their children, don't believe that she can overcome difficulties by herself, and don't believe that children can be strong without their own protection.
Entering Wen Lan Middle School has always been her dream, and there is no reason for her to back down during military training. I hope my lovely Yi Ming can also show the spirit of hard work and hard work in military training in the future study, and make continuous progress, so that I can see a brand-new and responsible daughter.
Yi Ming, come on, you can do it, mom believes you!
It's been eight nights since parents testified about military training. At this time, the sound of the horn came from the direction of the campus. I thought to myself: is this the sound of the horn turning off the lights when sleeping in the barracks?
At this time, I stood on the balcony of my room, overlooking the garden of the county, filled with emotion.
In this fragrant night, the cool breath came to my face. Dear child, do you know that your parents care about you-do you like school meals? What new friends have you made? What new skills have you learned? What good tutors and teachers have you met? ..... In this cool moonlight night, my mother is full of worries and thoughts. I only hope that this bright moon will send love and the breeze will send letters. Wish you all the best!
I also wish you and your friends can withstand the baptism of the military camp, hone their will, strengthen their physique, and all become out-and-out steel fighters, laying a good start for the next three years of study! Parents wish you thrive in the blue sky of Changjun County! Go up, boy! With the ambition of Lingyun, we look forward to your dream in the blue sky in three years!
According to the notice of the school, my daughter should arrive at the school for military training before eight o'clock in the morning. At the back of the school, I realized that military training was completely suspended for five days. When I heard that I had been in the military training base for five days, I suddenly felt that my mind and heart were completely empty and I stood there at a loss. While I want to go home and prepare my luggage, I want to go back and see my daughter again. A few minutes later, I made up my mind, asked the address of the military training base and sent my luggage there.
I went back to prepare some daily necessities and hurried to the training base in Nangang. When I arrived, the students were having a military training mobilization meeting. The soldier on duty had a very good attitude and suggested that I wait until the meeting was over before he called my daughter out for my luggage. I readily accepted his suggestion. Outside the gate, I saw the freshmen sitting neatly in the venue. The students are all dressed in military uniforms, which is dozens of meters away from me. I can't see which one is my treasure at all. But I stood on tiptoe, craned my neck and scanned the silhouette of those students. I am happy and excited, and I will see my Dabao soon.
Usually hate meetings. I think the pep rally is over so soon. Dabao was called by the soldiers on duty. Only two hours later, Dabao put on his military uniform and came towards me with a pistol. I quickly took out my mobile phone and took two photos. Because I have to queue up to go back to camp after the meeting, I can't have more communication with Dabao. I handed her the luggage and said, "If anything is missing, I'll buy it. Be sure to buy it. If you want to call me at night, be sure to call me. " Dabao has gone far, and I also shouted, "It will be fine in a few days, don't miss home, don't cry!" " The soldier looked at me, sobbing and confused. He didn't know whether I was comforting my daughter or myself. I turned around and saw that my soldier was still confused, so I smiled at him and said, "The child has never been to a strange place, for fear that she will miss home. By the way, do you have a phone here? " "No" He shook his head firmly. Hey, let me tell you something. I can see from his expression that he must be thinking, just don't install the phone, for fear that parents like me will lose their footing, disrupt the morale of the troops and affect the effect of military training.
I didn't go home immediately after delivering my luggage. I sat in the car outside the base for half an hour, feeling that all my most important things were left there, but I didn't want to leave. This feeling reminds me of the first time I sent Dabao to kindergarten. I felt the same sadness and loss. The difference is that Dabao cried and shouted a few years ago, and I cried and shouted a few years later; In a few years, she will go to college in other places; In a few years, she will get married and start a family; Who is crying? Who is it?
The core content of parent-child relationship theory in psychology is that parents should accompany their children to grow up, while I am a growing child and I am degenerate. When we were young, our children depended on us and we felt safe. When our children grow up and leave our arms, we feel insecure and a strong sense of loss arises. Our excessive worries and constraints are the expression of our inner insecurity. Military training is not just to exercise children, I prefer to take it as an exercise for me and give me an independent opportunity without relying on children. At this moment, I am still saddened to say to all parents, especially mothers: "If children want to grow up, we must grow up first. If children want to be independent and strong, we must be independent and strong first; Let go of your worries, let go of your hands and feet, and let your children grow up freely. "