What is boredom? Boredom is actually a mental state of people, which is attributed to two factors: one is external stimulation, and the other is self-regulation ability.

One is to pay attention to the psychological experience of the object when it does not conform to its own values. On the other hand, if you don't know your own needs and desires and can't find the goal and meaning of life, you will fall into the abyss of "boredom".

In short, boredom means being lonely and empty, doing nothing, not wanting to do anything, being a little fidgety, and not being able to lift my spirits when doing anything.

People with positive self-awareness seldom feel bored.

The sixth season of "The Life I yearn for" chose Hainan. Facing the sea and blooming in spring, this is the life that many people yearn for. In fact, every day at the seaside is basically high temperature, and it is basically in an idle and empty state.

Professor Ceng Shiqiang once said: People can work hard, but they can't. They should rest when they should. Modern people are too impetuous and work hard every day.

Change a slow life and let your heart slow down quietly. This is the best life. When busy LAY came to the mushroom house, his life switched from despair mode to Buddhism.

Every day in the mushroom house, LAY basically wakes up naturally. Here, he doesn't have to live a fast-paced life, he can communicate with himself, occasionally play ball with little H, go for a walk on the beach and watch the sunrise.

In this fast-paced society, how many people can get up early at 4 am to watch the sunrise? Watching the sunrise is a very healing thing. When we set sail in the dark, when we saw a red sun in the eastern sky and dyed a cloud red, wasn't that hope?

Lai and Zifeng Zhang watched the sunrise before dawn, playing and singing on the boat while blowing the sea breeze, waiting for the sunrise. This scene makes people feel that the years are quiet.

Although I didn't see the sunrise I hoped for in the end. If the heart is full of sunshine, everything is brilliant. Lei shouted his slogan: Lead China music to the world.

Different from the fields in the past, planting and picking by the sea are naturally much less. Close contact with the sea is a compulsory course every day. Ray, Peng Yuchang and Zifeng Zhang also learned coda surfing.

In the mushroom house, away from the noise of the big city. Lai also learned how to weld, drive a tractor and cook. This is the essence of life.

It is said that the truth is often in the hands of many people, and now there are too many people pretending to be social. Ruoyun Zhang is one of them. Obviously, I don't want to socialize, but I have to be in a state of "fake socialization". I have nothing to say, and finally I have no right to say "no".

What is false communication?

On the surface, it was very affectionate. Hugging and kissing as soon as we meet is actually superficial. This superficial effort is not intentional, but involuntary

It is not Lai who really put the essence of ideal life into practice, but Xu Zhiyuan. In the mushroom house, Xu Zhiyuan is the most unsociable and maverick guest.

Xu Zhiyuan didn't deliberately associate with other guests, but immersed himself in his own world. He personally went to Shark Hall Village to experience life, approached the local people's life, chatted with everyone and felt the local people's labor.

In my spare time, I never do meaningless social activities, but quietly "hide" in a small tree house. The purpose of his life is actually the life he really yearns for.

Edison invented the electric light bulb, but he didn't think the brighter it was, the more boring it was.

The broadcast volume of "Sex and Life 6" broke 65.438+0 billion, but it was too boring to be vomited by countless netizens. The reason is that guests are boring, guests are even more boring, and games are boring.

The biggest change in the sixth season is that there is no labor, and there are fewer links to eat, talk and chat after meals.

Especially in the latest episode, Song Yi became the shortest guest in the mushroom house in history, and she left before the end of the whole episode.

From beginning to end, Song Yi got off the boat to watch the tail section of Peng Yu's surfing, then welded an iron and left.

There are several scenes during dinner, but there are no scenes of playing games after dinner.

Yi Song's sense of existence is really too low. At the same time, it also makes people admire a girl who dares to weld iron. She didn't do much boring socializing, even rubbing the camera, but she was very low-key and grounded.

Yi Song and Zifeng Zhang, the only girl in the mushroom house, don't have much interaction and communication. They look strange.

The life I yearn for is too boring? Huang Lei and He Jiong also responded immediately. He Jiong doesn't agree with this view in his heart, but he likes this evaluation very much.

The tacit understanding of life is here. The speaker doesn't know what to say, and everyone who listens understands. This is the highest state. This is the tacit understanding between Huang Lei and He Jiong.

The older you get, the smarter you get. Huang Lei deserves to be a teacher. I might as well study for ten years if I listen to you.

On the topic of boredom, Huang Lei responded: the progress of mankind is because of boredom. Art, creativity and many novel creations are all caused by boredom when you have nothing to do, because when you have nothing to do, you will want to create.

I hope everyone is boring and interesting. He Jiong's words enhanced the conception of the whole program. Don't rush about because of life and survival, but be moved by interest. Isn't this the essence of the life you yearn for?

Many people say that artists are rich, so they can live such a leisurely life. Its realization can be achieved by many people, but everyone's desires are too much and too involuted.

In the final analysis, people nowadays are too impetuous. For example, in another variety show, 15 artists are fighting for jobs. What's the point of such an involution?

Boredom, isn't it a part of life? Looking at Huang Lei sitting at the table plucking pig hair and Xiao O stretching his neck to eat, isn't this kind of slow life the daily life of many people? Isn't this a cure for life?

Life is never short of beauty, but the eyes that find it.

Don't use 5% negative comments to deny your 100% efforts.

Sometimes happiness is simple, but it is not easy.

No one defines the way of childhood, as long as they have their own happy memories, that is childhood.

Life is not a stage, and there are not surprises everywhere. The most relaxed and natural state is the life that you really yearn for. Bored, Wuzhong will purchase, which is the highest quality of people.