There is no real 170 China man?
Admit it, in today's hot water public opinion field of Internet gender topic, height is the biggest life door for men.
After all, if you can't look good, you can still have plastic surgery. Just because you don't have money for a while doesn't mean you won't have it in the future. It's just that "being short" has become the original sin that you can only support the insole 5 cm at most.
This also makes the matter of "Ali's annual salary10.7 million male marriage", which caused great controversy some time ago, have a loophole that can be choked to death in one sentence:
"Having said that, it is actually only 1.7 meters."
Almost at the same time, there is also a hot topic on the Internet, saying that "these four heights of men are basically false"-
This caused widespread recognition of netizens (mainly female netizens) and fierce group ridicule, and began to vomit how difficult it is for China men to fight.
This spelling, unlike many male stars, is reflected in the dry type that interacts with the five-centimeter-thick insole all the year round.
But I like their "obviously not so high, but I have to declare that I have it on Baidu Encyclopedia".
After years of observation and lessons, netizens have summed up how China men help height.
If it is less than 170, it is 172.
Those below 175 can be forcibly rounded to 176. As for 176, 180 will do.
In a word, there seems to be no 170 man in the world, because the fake 170 is a fake 170, and the real 170 is also on the rise.
There seems to be no 179 man in this world. Because it is so short, who will resist the temptation to enter the world of 180?
Even in recent years, because this rule of false reporting has become more and more popular, it has also triggered inflation: "It seems that everyone else knows that boys who say they are 170 actually don't have 170, report more, 172!"
It is increasingly showing a prosperous scene of "how bold a person is, how productive his height is".
Such a false report has reason to suspect that it is a fishing post.
Then, why do boys form a tacit understanding of insisting on falsely reporting their height when they know that there are many ways to be exposed?
On the one hand, it is harmless to say hello in real life. If it is more than two or three centimeters, it really won't be measured with a ruler, but 1.77 is said to be 180, which immediately completes a qualitative leap in the aesthetic trend of advocating tall boys.
On the other hand, the most serious occasion for men to falsely report their height is the early stage of blind date.
The current marriage and love market, especially the blind date market, is cruel to boys who are not tall enough.
After all, people who can be seen and touched get along, and sometimes the fit of personality will make people feel that height is actually not a problem. However, in the blind date of mutual screening, although life is not "If You Are the One", many people still turn off the lights when they hear the height they don't want.
Even the aunt who introduced the object has mastered 800 words to make up for a short boy in the blind date market: the child is not tall/not very tall/not short/not particularly short. ...
But after the real meeting, boys who falsely report their height will always feel disappointed that the goods are not on the right board. The most heartfelt thing is the unique hero card: "If only you were taller ..."
This forms an unsolvable cycle: short boys know that they are not dominant in making friends, so they try to say it. After all, if they don't lie, they can't even touch the edge of the ticket of love.
However, a series of results after the real meeting was unveiled will only continue to aggravate the social phenomenon that "short boys are not easy to find partners".
Time and again, the story makes the phenomenon of falsely reporting height in blind date more and more common, and it has also become the object of ridicule by public opinion.
There is no real 170 China woman?
Of course, don't say second brother, so that women won't be forced to round off because they are short?
In fact, this incident was reported earlier than that of men who lied about their height. The unspoken rules of girls "155 automatic 158 automatic 160" and "160 automatic 162" have long been deeply rooted in people's hearts.
The lie of falsely reporting height has been exposed, which has also become a mockery of female stars in the public opinion field, although the motivation behind it is also a very common phenomenon for women to pursue perfect figure in contemporary aesthetics.
But relatively speaking, being short will not cause such a fatal blow to girls. On the contrary, being too tall is the biggest motivation for girls to lie about their height:
170, say 168, 174, say 172, 176- 180, if it exceeds 174, it will not stand, so we have to tell the truth.
In fact, this is often reflected in female stars. For example, playing opposite many Japanese actors looks like a big bird, but in fact it seems to have reached a tacit understanding with everyone. No one believes that she only has 168 Yui.
Wearing flat shoes is almost catching up with Guan Xiaotong, a group of male stars who call themselves 1.8 meters. Baidu Encyclopedia kills the height of 1.72 cm, which makes "Guan Xiaotong and male stars lie about their official height" a difficult puzzle.
Because tall girls are a minority, there will inevitably be many inconveniences in life. For example, the waist and length of trousers can never be bought, shoes can't be bought because of big feet, and so on.
However, these difficulties are always endured silently by themselves, and the motivation for people to report their height is still what they look like in the eyes of outsiders.
The life of 99% tall girls will always be acquiesced: since you are as tall as boys, your personality must be "manly".
So she was the first to go to bed and play the roller coaster. She is the spiritual pillar of other girls, and naturally she is deprived of the right to be a soft sister.
High physical education is bound to be better, as if tall girls are natural women's basketball/women's volleyball players, otherwise you will get a very disappointed "you have grown so big for nothing."
There are many such things, and tall girls begin to hate to admit that they are really that tall. Anyway, it's visually prominent enough, so I'll talk less, so as not to make a fuss about "why are you so tall?"
Of course, when you reach marriageable age, you have to face the same extremely realistic problem-
In today's blind date market, it's hard to say which condition is more unfavorable, that is, girls' academic qualifications are too high or their height is too high. When it comes to the latter, the first reaction is always to stay away from her, as if a girl is Godzilla.
So the most embarrassing scene is a blind date between a girl who calls herself 172 and a boy who calls herself 172, because you never know how much taller the girl may be than the boy when they meet.
Although this scene is very funny, it is also ridiculous to think about it:
Is it really that difficult for people to really treat the gap of several centimeters?
Lie about your height.
This is just a big mutual harm.
When different people dare not admit their true height and try their best to "fake", there are some gender prejudices and stereotypes hidden behind them.
Boys always want to be as tall as possible, because generally speaking, only when they are tall enough can they have the so-called masculinity and become the reliance of girls.
In the same way, girls should not be too tall, otherwise there will be no gentle and clever appearance of girls, and it is easy for men to have "pressure".
In recent years, the trend of discussing "how to match the height of men and women" on the Internet seems to further amplify this concept, especially in the period of "the most adorable height difference".
The perfect couple paradigm given in idol dramas always emphasizes that men are tall and women are petite. The overbearing president must have a certain height advantage when rolling.
Couples in online celebrities have also been popular with height matching, eager for men to pick up women and leave, almost magnifying this pursuit to the extreme, exaggerating to "Ah, this is the best look of love."
In this kind of public opinion, you will find that it seems that men are getting shorter and shorter, if not shorter.
10 years ago, male height 178 was a good condition, even a little "standard height", because this height was most conducive to establishing a mature China male tall but steady image.
178 may also be the entry threshold for an actor to play the emperor.
However, today, after 10 years, a brother spoke out that his true height 178 is actually out of reach in the eyes of people around him, because it would be considered as "looking for a little brother on the street at random, which one is not above 180".
It's a little ridiculous to say. Although boys and unrealistic girls help themselves out of their own ideas, they live in a world of "every man 180+" through different routes.
At this time, I have to throw out a thought-provoking data-
According to the Report on Nutrition and Chronic Diseases of China Residents released by the State Council in 20 15, the average height of adult males (old, middle-aged and young) in China is 167.438+0 cm. (female data is 155.8 cm)
In fact, how many people feel that they have reached a perfect height in real life? As can be seen from the usual netizens' spit, there will always be a moment when people hate that their height is wrong.
Short girls can't reach the pole at the top of the wardrobe, and tall boys will never sleep in the bed where they can stretch their legs comfortably in the school dormitory, each with its own difficulties; On the issue of choosing a spouse, they are not the only people whose wives are higher than their husbands, just like Huang Zulin and his wife.
Height is obviously a self-conscious personal trait and does not affect a person's moral quality and intellectual quality. However, "height discrimination" has become an outlet for arbitrary venting at present.
In today's public opinion field, people's desire for the ideal state will always turn into contempt and ridicule for the imperfect state.
Among hundreds of negative questions about short boys in Zhihu, you will find that the most influential one is not the number 100 cm, but the inferiority complex formed by pointing fingers, mocking and belittling.
Among the public figures, Jing M.Guo was bypassed by his own ability and moral character, and the height problem unrelated to these carried the most malicious opinions.
When the problem of personal mate selection, which reflects social phenomena, is discussed on the Internet and becomes a "condition-to-condition collision", if the height is inconsistent, it will become a shooting at a group of people and an attack on each other.
"Girls under 160 can't get married, which affects the genes of future generations" and "boys under 180 are disabled" ... such increasingly extreme remarks have become slogans of mutual criticism.
But you soon figured it out, why should people be so cruel?
Height "up to standard" and weight, figure "qualified" and appearance, what a person can be praised or criticized by others is simply a bottomless pit.
Since you can't control the height of your body, you might as well pay more attention to the height of life as chicken soup for the soul says.