Stars such as Sun, Sun, Lei and Huang Lei participated in a variety show. At the scene of the "College Entrance Examination 100 Day Swearing Meeting" in Songming Middle School, they asked hundreds of senior three students in succession. These questions are "Have your parents received college education or above?" "Did your parents ever give you a one-on-one tutor?" "Your parents let you continue to learn a specialty outside your homework, but do you still maintain a certain level?" "Have you ever traveled abroad since you were a child?" "Did your parents promise to send you to study abroad?" "Are your parents always proud of you and show you off in front of relatives and friends?"

If your answer to each question is yes, students can take six steps forward. After answering six questions, some people will go straight ahead, while others will stay where they are. The students opened a great distance, and several stars who were also tested were almost at the starting point after all the questions were finished. Stars use their achievements today to conclude that "we are not the first people to stand at the starting line." No matter what conditions your parents create for you, what kind of life you can finally achieve can only be your own efforts. " Huang Lei's words even made many parents wake up. "There is always a saying to win at the starting line. Whoever wins at the starting line is a sprint. Life must not be a 100-meter race, it must be a marathon. "

Zheng, the king of fairy tales, also holds the same view. "Please let the children lose at the starting line." Winning at the starting line will lead to the failure of the whole game because of not saving physical strength. Losing at the starting line may win life, and winning at the starting line may lose life.

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What I want to say is that stars grew up in their time and environment, which is different from children now. How to compare? A few percent of ordinary people can take part in the marathon, but sprints are carried out every day and everyone will meet them. Isn't the marathon of life also composed of short-distance races? The comprehensive quality of students in remote rural areas is different from that of students in first-tier cities in Beijing, Guangzhou and Guangzhou. In my classroom, on the whole, children in cities study habits and explore the learning spirit of hardship, and their fonts are beautiful, which is relatively better than those in rural areas.

Whether you admit it or not, the starting line is really naked. In addition to basic education, rural children have also lost their educational ideas. Although this starting line can't affect their life, it actually affects their whole student life.

Children with poor grades like to sit at the back of the classroom, away from the teachers. The students sitting at the back of the classroom covered their faces in confusion. No matter how the teacher gives them homework alone, how to make sense, and how to assign homework separately, there are always a few pairs of persistent, confused and empty eyes, which will only shine when they look at their watches again and again and look forward to class. Most of these children come from the countryside. In addition to getting more and more achievements with children in cities, children in rural areas are losing the spirit and energy of suffering.

We have heard more and more voices that "it is difficult to have a noble child in a cold door" and "there is no princess's life, but there is a princess's illness". Why do the better people work harder, and why do people who need to work harder become more decadent? The starting line is the reason.

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The starting line has widened the distance from the following aspects.

1. The starting line of educational ideas

Generally speaking, parents' attention to children's education has generally increased, but there are still relative differences. Farmers who work to get rich have built buildings and bought cars in their hometown. Even when they are proud or see their children's poor grades, they will say, "study hard, don't work with me, and don't waste my money." Let children have the idea that "even if they can't go to school, they can work to earn money" and "going to school is a waste of money".

Children in cities, from primary school to kindergarten, parents begin to ponder which school to send their children to, how to learn from their children, how to communicate with teachers and so on. Children and parents, in these daily discussions, put their thoughts and attention on education in their hearts, which may be impossible for parents and children in rural areas.

2. The starting line of children's psychological feelings when they grow up.

The increase of left-behind children undoubtedly makes rural education worse, which mainly affects the formation of children's personality and the formation of study habits during their growth. In terms of personality, children in cities are more cheerful and confident, while children in rural areas are more calm, but some of them feel inferior. There will be several students in the class whose parents are working outside the home, students who live with their grandparents, and the rest are rural students whose parents are working outside the home. Parents have little communication about their children's life, emotions and education, and the children actually go home for a weekend.

Primary school is a crucial period to cultivate good study habits. Only under the guidance and supervision of parents can children cultivate good study habits. During this period, parents should have at least one person to accompany their children. Warmth and love are the best wealth and nourishment for children.

Among the students in my class, there are two students whose parents work outside the home all the year round. One is a good student in the class, but he doesn't study at all. The other one sleeps all day and communicates with his parents, which is beyond his power.

3. The starting line of educational resources

It is well understood that the educational resources of rural schools, including teaching equipment and teachers, are very different from those of cities. Although the country is trying to improve this situation, it still exists obviously in a short time. It is this phenomenon of uneven distribution of educational materials that enables rural people with conditions to let their children go to school in cities, while urban people go to school in big cities or cities at the next higher level. There are fewer and fewer primary school students in rural areas, and schools in cities have become large classes, which has triggered a series of social contradictions. Isn't that why parents don't want their children to lose at the starting line?

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Now let's analyze why there are a few confused students in the classroom who have poor grades when they enter school. After entering high school, without the support of good study habits, they can't adapt to the high-intensity and fast-paced study life in high school as soon as possible. They are not good at communicating and discussing with teachers and classmates, and have no spirit of hardship and inquiry. There are more and more learning tasks, which leads to complete incomprehension in class. Even if the teacher assigned the study task alone, he wouldn't do it.

Therefore, as a front-line teacher, we must look at the starting line objectively and cannot ignore and deny its existence. Not only did it affect the "short-distance race" in children's school days, but it also affected the strong personality, good learning attitude and study habits formed in this "short-distance race", which are the key factors that determine the "marathon" of life.

Similarly, as parents, we can't provide better material conditions for our children in a short time, but we can spend more time with and care for our children in the process of their growth, character formation and study habits. Parents who work outside the home should have at least one person by their children's side, communicate with them more about the problems in their study and life, give them more guidance on their study methods and habits, cultivate their healthy and positive psychology and character, and let them win in this most important way.