First, don't try to find impossible shortcuts, there is no cheap thing in the world, only down-to-earth is the best way … no matter what you do.
Second, don't be too curious about what you know is not a good thing, you may die because of it.
Don't make any decision on the spur of the moment, or this decision may become a lifelong regret.
After that, the boss gave the man some money and three loaves of bread, and told him: You can't eat the biggest bread until you go home.
This man is on his way … he walked for several days … and ate half of his first bread. Before long, he came to a crossroads. He asked, excuse me, which is the shortest way to * *? Passerby A: Take the path, it's near. Passerby B: It's safe to take the main road. He couldn't wait to see his wife, so he took the path. Not long after walking, he heard a passerby say that there was a mountain thief nearby, so he remembered the boss's first advice: don't try to find a shortcut. So he went back that way. After walking for a few days, the second man ate some bread ... He found a very cheap inn to stay. He couldn't sleep when he heard a woman crying in the middle of the night. So I decided to go out and have a look. Then he thought of the second piece of advice: don't be too curious about what you know is not a good thing. So he fell asleep again. When we set out the next day, the shopkeeper exclaimed, are you still alive? ! He was puzzled and asked why. The store said that he had a crazy daughter who was dragged out crying when she was sick and then killed her. You were the only guest who stayed last night. Man sighs: Ah …
After walking for a few days, when the second bread was finished, he was not far from home. He is more excited. It was dark soon, and he went to his village on foot. When he got home, he was about to knock at the door when he heard a man's voice in the room. He was so angry that he picked up a wood cutter and prepared to rush into the house and kill the man. But then he thought of a third suggestion: don't make any decision on impulse, maybe this decision will make you regret it for the rest of your life. So he calmed down and sat outside all night. He knocked at the door early the next morning, and his wife was very happy to see him back. But he was indifferent: who is that man? His wife said with a smile, that's our son ... Not long after you left, I just ... Then he found that this young man looks like himself. When father and son met for the first time, they hugged each other and cried ... After caring for a while, the man took out the third bread and shared it with his wife and son ... After cutting it, he found that the salary for 20 years was in it. So everything should be carefully considered, or you will regret yourself in the end!
Nine kinds of abilities, nine kinds of means and nine kinds of mentality are necessary to achieve great things.
One: Calm down.
(1) Don't show your emotions casually.
(2) Don't tell everyone about your difficulties and experiences.
(3) Before consulting others, think for yourself, but don't speak first.
(4) Don't nag about your dissatisfaction every chance you get.
(5) Important decisions should be discussed by others as far as possible, and it is best to release them the next day.
(6) Don't panic when talking or walking.
Two: Be careful.
(1) Always think about the causal relationship of things happening around you.
(2) For the problem of inadequate implementation, we should explore its root causes.
(3) To put forward suggestions for improving or optimizing the methods of doing things.
(4) Everything is in an orderly way.
(5) Always find a few faults or shortcomings that others can't see.
(6) You should make up for the deficiency anytime and anywhere.
Three: courage
(1) Don't use words that lack confidence.
(2) Don't always go back on your word and easily overturn what has been decided.
(3) People should not be indecisive when arguing.
(4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic about the sunshine.
(5) Do everything with your heart, because someone is watching you.
(6) When things don't go well, take a breath, find a breakthrough again, and end it cleanly.
Four: magnanimity
(1) Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents.
(2) Don't haggle over trifles and mistakes of others.
(3) Be generous in money and learn three ways (money, law and fearlessness).
(4) Don't have arrogance of power and prejudice of knowledge.
(5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others.
(6) When someone must sacrifice or contribute, walk ahead by yourself.
Five: Integrity
(1) Don't say what you can't do, just do it.
(2) Don't always talk about empty slogans or slogans.
(3) Solve the problem of "dishonesty" raised by customers and come up with improvement methods.
(4) Stop all "immoral" means.
(5) It's not good to be smart!
(6) Calculate the credit cost of a product or service, that is, the brand cost.
Sixth: Take responsibility.
(1) When reviewing any mistakes, you should start to reflect on yourself or your own people.
(2) After the incident, the fault should be judged first, and then the credit should be listed.
(3) Admitting mistakes starts from superiors and making achievements starts from subordinates.
(4) Start a plan, first define the rights and responsibilities and allocate them reasonably.
(5) Make it clear to people or organizations who are "afraid of things".
(6) The company shall bear the losses caused by bravely taking responsibility.
Nine ways to achieve great things:
1, dare to decide-overcome the habit of indecision
Many people have accomplished nothing, and the biggest problem is the lack of the means to dare to make decisions. They always look around and think about the past, thus missing the best opportunity for success. Great people dare to make important decisions when they see the possibility of success, so they take the lead.
2. Challenge weaknesses-completely change your own shortcomings.
Everyone has weaknesses, and people who can't achieve great things always stick to their weaknesses and won't make big changes in their lives; People who can achieve great things are always good at starting from their own weaknesses and turning themselves into super-capable people. A person who can't even correct his own defects can only be a loser!
3. Breaking through the Dilemma-Pinch out the capital of success from failure.
Life is always faced with the challenges of various difficulties, and it can even be said that difficulties are "the gates of hell". Most people are afraid in the face of difficulties, but those who achieve great things can turn difficulties into a powerful springboard to success.
4. Seize the opportunity-be good at choosing and creating.
Opportunity is the greatest wealth in life. Some people easily waste opportunities, so all the opportunities with great potential slip away quietly. When you achieve great things, you are absolutely not allowed to slip away. You can jump at them.
5. Give full play to your advantages-do what you are best at.
A person with extremely weak ability will certainly find it difficult to open up the situation of life, and will inevitably be the victim of heavyweight players on the stage of life; Great winners give full play to their talents in what they want to do and broaden the road to success step by step.
6. Adjust your mentality-don't let your emotions hurt you.
People with negative mentality can't afford life and heavy burden anyway, because they can't face life setbacks directly. Those who achieve great things pay attention to the high-speed mentality, and even when there is no hope, they can see a glimmer of success.
7. Take immediate action-it's futile to just talk and not do it.
One action is worth a hundred thoughts. Some people are "giants of language and dwarfs of action", so they can't see more practical things happening to themselves; People who achieve great things rely on actions to realize their life plans every day.
8, good at communication-clever use of human resources
A person who doesn't know how to communicate is bound to enhance the strength of interpersonal relationships. One of the characteristics of successful people is that they are good at creating a successful situation by borrowing power and heat, so as to complete the difficult things and realize their life plans.
9. Re-planning-Standing at a higher starting point
Life is a process, so is success. Satisfied with small success will promote great success. Great people know the hard process from childhood to adulthood, so after a small success, they can continue to open the next "sealed bag" of life.
It can be said that any means can lead to a result, but it is hard to say whether this result is the best result. Great people always choose the best means to achieve the perfect result, which is what ordinary people can do. Therefore, on the road to success, if you want to achieve great things, the first question to be solved is: Will your means have an immediate effect on your successful plan?