Many times we will feel that, for example, they stop nagging and talking about things that worry us. The biggest feature is that they always recall the past. Tell me about their past, and then I know that my parents are really old.

They began to report good news instead of bad news, and they were sick alone; They began to do some seemingly unseemly and unimportant little things, expecting recognition; They began to create various situations like children to attract their attention. Caring for the elderly today means caring for us tomorrow. Many times, children pay more attention to their own lives than their psychological needs. In this regard, Jiang Lihua also has a deep understanding. That day, she received a phone call from her mother. She felt something was wrong. She asked her mother what was wrong, and she replied "nothing". I came home at noon because I was worried, and I bumped into my sick mother and my bewildered father. It turned out that at breakfast, my mother began to vomit and my stomach hurt badly. Father calmed down and cleaned up, and the two old people tossed about all morning. "You are all busy at work, so I can't influence you." Before I could say too much, I quickly took my mother to the hospital. As soon as the examination is intestinal obstruction, we should operate immediately. I stayed in the hospital for a month and talked a lot with my mother. For the first time, I learned the truest heart of an old man of this age. Therefore, she put forward a slogan: "If you love the elderly, you should pay attention to their mental health."