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Ning: rather; Lack: lack; No: Pass "No"; Not good; Excessive: too much. Would rather be vacant; Never lower your requirements. Also known as "lack is better than abuse."
Insight 1:
I'd rather have nothing than something shoddy.
After listening to a song for many days, I still can't put it down. This habit is like a helpless and lonely soul who has sucked tassel chestnuts, hovering at the end of life and death, still tenacious and directionless, even if it lacks the touch of things, it is still a painful struggle. The confusion of life and death floats in a place where there is no antidote and it is impossible to explore. A heart and a wisp of smoke wander like this. Things change, and I have no desire for what I want at the moment. I just hope that my wandering body can have a place to rely on. What a simple expectation, but at the moment it is more difficult than going to heaven. The simpler some things are, the more we ignore them, the more we yearn for them, and the more we suffer when we lose them. Maybe this is the so-called gain and loss.
Listening to a song is like tasting a person. Love and hate are all in it. There is a feeling of closeness, ambiguity and confusion between people, especially between girls and boys. For him, you may not love him but can't let him go, or you love him but can't be together, or you don't love anyone but love games. Who can say what love is? You can cook soup for her when you like to eat. When you don't love it, you can abandon your home and dance every day, whether it is good or bad. Feelings, we are always eager for sweetness and warmth, but who really moistens and is happy in feelings, all of them end in disappointment and cursing. Love songs are sung in a high-key way, but I listen in a low-key way. Many times, we are just used to forgetting ourselves in the corner and don't want who loves me and who doesn't. Life is too short to love yourself.
Don't love to choose, because it is very painful! Choose people who love themselves and are afraid of ignoring themselves, and choose people who love themselves and worry that they have no life. Because of fear, it is not a good idea to choose life only for yourself. I once loved it, but I lost it. I used to hate it, but I have forgotten it. I have missed what I think day and night. What will not change in this world? If there is, there is only self-attachment to self. You will never let go of yourself, never give up on yourself, and never throw salt into your heart. Therefore, after loving, I slowly learned to love myself and learn to look down on love and hate with a sunny heart. You don't have to chase or force yourself.
Sometimes choice becomes compromise. He may be nice to you, but he doesn't love you and you don't love him. What you have is a realistic fit. So you fall in love, get married, live a plain life, and he doesn't want to please you. Imagine who wants to understand such a day, but there are always some injured people who choose such a day. Because of this, there will be no heartache, no care and no death. In fact, if you think about it, it is not a kind of life, but I will never understand it. I am an extreme person, and I love persistence.
Feelings, in my heart, are a sacred and pure ocean. I love to wander among them, but I only love one sea and one heart. Since love is hot and strong, love belongs only to that person until the end of time. I would rather live alone than fall in love at first sight. I used to think that love means that he is good to me, but later I found that good is conditional, and not all good is pure. What we get, others want it, so there are deception and concealment in our feelings, and there are false temptations of money. We run away, but this is life. Where can we escape? We choose to pay attention, but others use hypocrisy; We are tired, but we will continue; We are in pain, but no one understands. After all the love and hate have been washed away, I chose to fall in love again, but this time I love myself. For him, I no longer believe in my feelings, just want to wait for him quietly.
On such a quiet day, I almost forgot myself. Every day, I am blindly treating myself better, and my memories are hidden by me. I am a child with no past, waiting for his resurrection at first sight. But where is he? After waiting for so long, he hasn't appeared yet. But I don't want to settle, I don't want to be irresponsible to myself, and I don't want to regret it later. It's my slogan. I persist inexplicably, but I'm still very happy in my heart. At least I'm waiting for him with my heart, without worry or quarrel. I sleep in the corridor of time, watching the world change coldly, my heart remains the same, but people have long lost face. Maybe I will die alone after all.
Perception 2: (What is the antonym of easy)
There is a kind of singleness called "deficiency is better than abuse"
Brothers and sisters, I wonder if you will feel this way?
Want to fall in love, want to stop being lonely,
But when love comes, you just want to escape.
Sometimes I calm down and feel that my persistence is ridiculous. Why not fall in love?
Why are you single?
Are you in love with loneliness and loneliness?
Actually, it's not. It is precisely because there is a kind of singleness called "rather short than extravagant".
People who want more than they want, they are single-minded and persistent in love, they have their own unique ideas and can stick to themselves;
People who want more than they want just want to find someone who can impress them in the vast sea of people. They can make themselves lonely, but they can't make themselves fall in love with people casually. (Implicit confession)
People who want more than they want, they are the people who are the easiest to believe and firmly feel fate, even if it is a small coincidence, they will simply associate with fate;
People who want more than they want will not fall in love easily, but if they have a good impression on a person, they will persevere, set their own hearts and never get involved;
People who want more than they want, they have requirements, and they also have yearning for the other half in their hearts. Looking forward to meeting each other is a romantic and beautiful encounter;
People who want more than they want will have their own brothers and sisters of the opposite sex, but they will definitely set a bottom line for each other in their communication and will not easily cross it;
People who want more than they want, they respect marriage and feelings, they don't start casually, but really associate with others, so in fact, they naturally regard each other as the object of marriage and fall in love because of marriage. They are people who cherish life.
People who want more than they want will not get married just because they are married, even if there is a lot of pressure around them.
Some brothers and sisters said that it is out of fashion in society now, and they would rather abuse it than lack it. Think about it, too. How do you know if it is appropriate without a process? Any results?
Don't let me grow up a little, let time pass by a little?
But when they meet someone who doesn't like themselves, they may stay with each other for a while out of courtesy, but it will never last. They respect their own feelings and others' feelings and will not waste each other's time. Maybe some people's love ends after only a few months, and then they will start a new relationship soon. Because of their fraternity, they just want to find a different * * * to accompany them to get rid of loneliness. Therefore, when they end a relationship, they won't feel any sadness. Just because they have never used feelings, to be exact, they have never used deep feelings, they will have a good impression on all the opposite sex, and they will not be persistent, not lacking.
They will choose rational treatment in love. (Good morning)
People who want more than they want are not like this.
Others can never associate them with flower hearts,
They will stay in a relationship for a long time,
In the end, they will be sad, painful and sad.
Because they have paid before,
And their endings are usually separated because of real disagreement.
They expect every emotion of their own to be an unforgettable memory.
Even, I will insist and wait, because I want to find a true love, even with my life.
They are emotional animals,
Love creativity,
Love exploring life,
They will be full of curiosity and fantasy about their future life.
They are pure melodramatic people, sincere and kind people.
God will test their will and endurance,
When they get through it, they will reap true love.
Insight 3:
I'd rather have nothing than something shoddy.
Sitting in this coffee shop, my mood is very individual. I have forgotten how many times I have heard the same words, the same advice, the same comfort and the same worry. It's just that I, a typical house girl, can go out on the second day of New Year's Eve for the first time. Maybe it's providence.
The coffee shop is very deserted, and the attendance rate is less than one fifth, which may be the reason for the festival. This is ok, but quiet and casual is to my taste. I seldom meet anyone who is more blind than me. One of the few times I was waiting for my brothers and sisters who came to date, but I also enjoyed it. At least before his arrival, I can investigate this room clearly and save some unnecessary trouble and embarrassment. Girls always like to be exquisite at all times, and hold on to it by the way. After answering a few phone calls, I heard a quick knock at the door, and my brothers and sisters finally came. Looking at his apologetic expression and endless explanation after entering the door, I smiled as an answer.
The topic of chatting is casual and natural. When we were talking and laughing, our brothers and sisters suddenly said to me in a personalized tone, "You are not angry. Say something you don't want to hear. That's very kind of you. It's probably hard to meet a boy who is worthy of you. The life of leftover women will last for a long time. Unless you are no longer so perfect, I will still worry about you. I feel uncomfortable sitting in front of you and have stage fright. " "Ha ha, that's what's on your mind, not my fault," I replied. In fact, if it makes me sad, it has flowed from different brothers and sisters for n times. After listening to it many times, I no longer feel harsh and shocked, and I am probably used to it. Brothers and sisters have good intentions, and their fierce words are nothing more than a blow to me, in order to achieve good educational purposes. At least it can make me reflect on my own aesthetic, emotional and marriage views. It's just that I am a very independent girl. No matter where I am, I will stick to the principle of 1: quality is better than quantity.
In this world, I know myself better than myself. To tell the truth, I am not a perfect girl. Too many shortcomings and deficiencies have troubled young me for a long time many years ago. When I was a child, girls who love to boast often bought many photo calendars of stars and put them on pillows. I will stare at the faces of these beautiful women silently for countless nights, dreaming that I can have a beautiful dream one day. In my dream, Sister Fairy used some magic to turn the little girl who loves beauty into a beautiful princess. When the dream is clear, I gradually stop looking forward to that kind of bitter enemy. It is only when I grow up that I understand that there is something more important than looks, and I care. That is the kindness and gratitude for life in my heart. It may accumulate over time, and the inner beauty will become a big magnetic field, which will always cover everyone who is transparent because of wisdom, so that these people who are destined to belong to me will always feel this. Always being kind makes me grateful.
I often fantasize and firmly believe that I will meet the boy who has feelings and understands me. In my opinion, love is fate, being together is fate, breaking up is fate, and fate is good. If he is my Mr. Right, he must have felt something different, not the daunting words of perfection and Excellence, which widen the distance between us. The intersection of heart and heart can truly feel whether the other person is the lover who holds hands with you in this life. I told those boys who said I was excellent a long time ago that Excellence is relative. I just hope to do everything as well as I can, but not everyone will get it. You will sigh like this, because of the distance, because of the different positioning in your heart when you get along. If you are just brothers and sisters, won't you understand more when you meet excellent people? If you change your mind and want to find a lover, you must have chosen the wrong person. I believe in Buddhism and will not break the precepts. Of course, you will think that this girl in front of you is not suitable and difficult to deal with. People often say that you are just tough without desire. If you want to hold hands with me, you will definitely care about this girl. All your shortcomings are covered up by your love and tolerance. What's left in your eyes is perfection. Love is blind. From this perspective, the IQ of boys in love will be greatly reduced, and such a simple truth will definitely give birth to different feelings because of an idea.
I don't think all the leftover women can't get married because they are excellent, but because they are destined, that's all. No matter how long, I will stick to the end of my life.